GUYS! I feel REALLY BAD and NEED ADVICE?! GIRLS HELP TOO?!?

There's this guy josh I've liked for almost 2 years. I used to think he liked me too, but I got majorly mixed signals. Sometimes he was so good to me, and other times (like when he tried to get me lost in a neighborhood at nite)...arghhhh. The final straw came Friday when invited him to this ball I had to go to (just to hang with me so I didn't have to dance), and he flat out said no. I figured if he liked me at all,he woulda gone. Instead I spent the evening with guys who give me the creeps, holding their hands and touching my back and thinking of how the only hands I wanted touch me were josh's.


I've had to see josh all this week at church activity were helping at. I've ignored him if he tries to talk to me. He has told my 15 year old brother, who he's friends with, every nite just how I hate him. Last nite my bro told me to tell him sorry, and I said,';I have nothing to be sorry for'; and josh said,';are u mad at me?'; he asked twice. I wouldn't answer I just turned away. ';I'm not going anywhere. When ur ready to talk you know where I'll be.'; I said wouldn't talk. And then as the nite progressed I just got meaner and meaner towards him.


Now... I feel like crap. I feel like I took the only guy I ever cared bout and shoved him away. WHY? Because I conned myself into believing he liked me. I will see him tonight. What should I do??We're 18. Also...why would he care if I was mad at him or not?GUYS! I feel REALLY BAD and NEED ADVICE?! GIRLS HELP TOO?!?
He does like you. He just thinks you come on a little strong sometimes. Calm down and let him come to you. And when you see him tonight, just tell him what made you so mad in the first place. Then apologize for being mean to him. Guys are very forgiving. They usually always forgive you if you ask for it. Oh and the only reason you were so mean is because, like all girls, we hate rejection, so we get mad if a guy we like tells us no. It's just what we do. If you learn to accept it, you won't be as mad. Let Josh know you like him again also because he may think you're not into him after you ignored him. Guys love to be shown attention. If you give him some, maybe he'll start liking you too. I think this boy is really sweet to you also. Maybe he had other plans that night when you had to go to the ball. Just give him a chance. I hope this helps you out!GUYS! I feel REALLY BAD and NEED ADVICE?! GIRLS HELP TOO?!?
you have to talk to him!


you've like him for 2 years and you aren't sure how he feels about you?





that's way too long to torture yourself like this. think of it this way, if you tell him you like him and he says yes, Great! you guys can date and be happy together





if he says no, yes it will hurt.. but then it will be over and you can move on with your life knowing that you tried instead of keeping it all bottled up wondering. i know because ive done this before and you always just end up thinking, why didnt i just get the guts up to say it, who knows what ouwld have happened.


i hope it works out for you!! :)
if your were friends, then thats probably why he cares if your mad at him. Im sorry, but you should feel bad for ignoring him and he is probably mad because you ignored him. You shouldnt have oushed him away, and he might have had something to do,





I hope things turn out for the best. Good luck