Wanting a little miracle so bad,but getting so stressed and tired of buying HPT any advice?

If you're 14 dpo or longer you'll probably get an accurate test result. I feel your pain, you almost don't want to POAS because you don't want to give away the bit of hope you have left. But, this could be YOUR month- good luck and baby dust to you!Wanting a little miracle so bad,but getting so stressed and tired of buying HPT any advice?
my advice for you is stop trying so hard.... My DH and I tried for 3 1/2 years we tried everything from timing it to fertility drugs.. we were about to start artificial insimunation while on the year waiting list for invitro and I ';gave up trying'; I stopped taking the drugs and boom a month later no drugs no nothing here we are expecting our first child i'm currently 13 weeks.





I wish you the best of luck I know it's hardWanting a little miracle so bad,but getting so stressed and tired of buying HPT any advice?
stop getting stressed it does not help the conception process at all and can be an enemy.





Take a break from trying just to have a baby and go back to enjoying sex just for sex. Also stop buying HPT's unless you are more than three days late it can be discouraging.
You said it yourself........ you are ';stressed';. The fact that you are stressed could be a big, huge factor on why you can't conceive. Assuming you are still at a young age, you need to chill BIG TIME. Though it may seem/ be hard, you really need to let nature take it's course. Buy a puppy to take your mind off of trying to get pregnant. You will be soooo involved in taking care of THAT little guy that your focus won't be as likely to stress on getting pregnant. More than likely you will get pregnant without even trying!





Good luck.





mb
If it has been over a year of trying, see your doctor. If you are over 30 and it has been over 6 months of trying, see your doctor. The man has to go too. There could be issues and many of them can be overcome nowadays.
relax (i know it is easier said than done, just try) take a vacation with your dh and just have a good time. do not discuss babies. and stop trying for a few months or so. dont buy anymore hpt unless you are late. just try to focus on your life for now and then in a few months start trying. also i suggest buying the book ';taking charge of your fertility'; by toni weschler. it will help you understand your cycle and start charting. this way you can be sure you know when you ovulate so you can time the bd correctly.





good luck to you. lots of baby dust to you, me and all who are ttc.
it your younger than 35 and been trying for over a year talk to you doctor, if you are 35 or over after six months of tryng you should ask a doctor, there are things out there as simple as medication pills that could help, but they need to make sure everyting on your end and your partner's end is ok.....you can also ask an RE (fertility specialist) online for free and see what they think given your specifics like age, amt of triying etc, try www.FertilityTies.com


good luck to you!
I understand your frustration. I suggest buying a crap load of dollar store pregnancy tests. That way, you can test whenever you'd like without emptying your wallet. While you are there, you can buy some ovulation tests too! It will help you better pinpoint the best time to have intercourse to acheive pregnancy. Depending on your circumstances, you can see a doctor regarding your fertility.