Advice on dating bad boys?

can't help it, I just love the bad guys. and nice guys never like me anyways, its always the rocker/band/potsmoking/player/waytooflir鈥?types that are all over me. I don't know why though, b/c I really dont do a lot of that stuff %26amp; i think im pretty honest in relationships. i guess i am kinda a flirt though. anyways, what is some advice on dating bad boys? Like Justin Bobby from the Hills type bad boys. the kind that all the girls want %26amp; that even when you're the one with him you feel like he's not all yours. and if there are any bad boys out there i'd especially appreciate your advice since you know best! haha. but i'd love anyone's help. but please dont say to just not date them b/c thats just really not possible for me. i already asked this question %26amp; most people just said not to which really doesnt help.Advice on dating bad boys?
hahaha... based on personal experience. dont. flat out, dont. but i know /exactly/ how you feel... im forever getting asked out by uber sweet, spoiling darling nice guys, i have my fun with them, but they hold no interest for me... the ones i really want and sadly, fall for, are the bad boys that dont even treat me well. ive just accepted at this point that im going to get hurt if i keep having relationships like my current one... id say try to keep yourself emotionally unattached, and if -deity of your choice- forbid, you do really fall for one, try to get yourself out asap. or accept that youll get hurt and prepare yourself to just deal with that. relationships with bad boys can be great for girls who, unlike me, like to keep their relationships mostly about lust and passion, and not as much about love and romancey stuff. either way, good luck to you hun... youll need it. ^^;; one important thing i should probably mention is that for almost all boys of that type, theyre really, really bad about expressing their feelings, if they have them, so youll always have to take those first steps. i always have to say ';i love you'; first and hope that theyll ';you too';, or something. many times ive just gotten ';i know.'; and smacked them. =P its too be expected. ^^ so express feelings if youve got them, but try to avoid falling too hard, guys of that mold are heart breakers... =v.v=Advice on dating bad boys?
Nice guys like you but like you said you're attracted to BAD boys. And you know their bad for a reason right? They use you like a piece of cheap cloth and leave you crushed. If you're willing to go through that kind of pain then my advice is flirt and act like you don't want them. Bad boys want what they can't have. Be sexy and flirty. Basically bad boys want bad girls.
if ur with a 'bad boy' dont be all clingy on him, make it seem like hes lucky to be with u, it will make u different than every other girl who would give an arm and a leg to be with him. goodluck !
Do what thy will. %26amp; stop acting surprised when this world doesn't paint pretty pictures. If you like rough boys then enjoy yourself with them while you can.
Just wait for the kind type of guy to go along, it'll hurt dating a bad boy... i know alot, and you will never know how much the girls been through!


they've cheated on them, hit them, tried to rape them, had sex then dumped her after..


Just let love wait


Don't say you can't


you HAVE to


wait for the perfect guy, the type of guy who will treat you better than anything, an extremely kind guy, and a gentlemen


good luck:)
I love dating unavailable guys, so I understand what you are going through, it's like they are the only ones I want... the ones that can never fully commit to me for one reason or another. Soooo... here's what I've learned:





You are attracted to this so deal with it. You have to adapt to what you are attracted to, if the guy is a bad boy be sure you always keep him wanting more, be sure to be interesting, but never too interested in just him. Don't EVER get upset when they are flirting with others, just show that you can do the same and reward him when at the end of the night you go home together. It is a complement when other girls want your man, but be sure he's never being disrespectful to you. Check him if he's getting out of hand, being too much of a jerk to you.





A lot of bad boys have good in them and you need to hold on to those things, just know you are giving up a lot of other things. If you are trying to change the man it will never work. You have to accept these bad boys for all that they are, or you'll always be disappointed.





Please don't sell yourself short though and accept less than because you think you can't get any better. You can find passion and excitement with all kinds of guys, but the real spark might be what you are going for, and in time you will need to weigh out the advantages and disadvantages. Think about it, would you want to deal with a an asshole or male diva for the next 60 years of your life (or however long)?
Well bad boys like danger. do u like danger? bad boys will try and tempt u with all the drugs they can get their hands. Most r just plain druggies. dont be another Brittney Spears she got into drugs and bad boys and now she is a smoked up drugged up sl*t (dont get mad @ me if u like her) oh nd Miley Cyrus is next in line 4 it to
It's your life and what ever you do; you will have to live with the consequences of your actions. It's that simple! You will have no one else to blame but yourself. Just remember that there is every likelihood that there is good in everyone!
Okay here we go.





1) There are two kinds of ';bad boys.'; I've met a lot of both types, and its not hard to tell which type they are in a conversation with them, guy to guy.





Type 1 is the traditional jerk. He goes out looking for a girl not to have a relationship necessarily, but simply to either have a girl for the sake of having one, to impress his friends, or to get laid. Because of this, its unlikely he'll open up to you or attach himself to you. Most girls get tricked by these guys because they act like jerks so much that when they finally say something moderately nice it juxtaposes their regular behavior so much that the girl just melts. Advice for dating this kind of guy? Aside from the obvious ';don't,'; you should just try to see past his bullshit and try not to get too emotionally involved, but rather just try to have fun with it. Go into the relationship knowing that you aren't doing it to get to know him better, but just to get as much fun out of it as you can.





Type 2 is the rare jerk. When he's single, he'll go out and hook up and party with as many girls as he can, just like type 1. However, when he finally finds one he likes enough to get into a relationship with, he actually puts effort into it. When he gets a girl in a relationship, she becomes HIS girlfriend, not A girlfriend. He'll probably be protective of her when around his friends, and will actually like to talk to her. Around her, he'll be more prone to drop the jerk attitude and actually act decent. Advice for dating this kind of guy? If you are able to get him to start a relationship with you, then you've done well, and he must like you. Just act like yourself and have a good time. It's okay to get attached to this kind of guy, he'll probably get attached to you. This is obviously a much better situation than the other type of guy.





How to tell the difference? when you go out to places, type 1 won't care as much about what you have to say as type 2 will. Type 1 would rather do things, while type 2 might actually like to talk to you about things. type 1 might cheat on you, while type 2 would never. Type 1 cares less about you, type 2 cares all about you.
Simply try to become one of the people in the crowd.It might be funner then dating goody goody's! And they most of the time are cuter.And you can understand then and mabye if you find a cute smart badboy you'll be really lucky.
date em, but be yourself. don't let the guy talk you into doin some of his ';bad stuff';. Guys will respect a girl that has a mind of her own. And dont stick with a guy that tries to play you. You deserve more respect than that. N make sure you let those guys know that your not just another girl to be thrown around