I think I have done something bad SEXUALLY helpp! ADVICE NEEDED?

Ok my boyfriend is 19 and I am 16 we have been together for nearly a month now and have already had sex he and I were both wondering if we were moveing to fast of if this is to soon to be sexually active with each other?








P.S the sex is good, So should we really be stopping if its to soon?I think I have done something bad SEXUALLY helpp! ADVICE NEEDED?
Hmmm. I just went and had a look at some of your other questions. You've been a busy girl! You're going for a pap smear tomorrow (well, today, I guess, now) when you've just had an abortion (what sort of doctor schedules a pap smear when your cervix isn't healed from an abortion?), you and your boyfriend have been fighting, AND you're thinking about having sex with your ex today, when you've just had an abortion days ago and should still be under doctor's order not to have sex! WOW! You really do get around! Honestly, I don't know where you find the energy!





Go ahead and hate me, call me stupid, and say I'm an idiot. I await your next utterance with bated breath.I think I have done something bad SEXUALLY helpp! ADVICE NEEDED?
LOL You tell them girl! 99% of the people on here are hypocrites anyway. Like they or their family members don't know or even experienced having sex before the legal age. It's just an age and as long as it's not outstanding (like you being 16 and he being in 21+) it's perfectly fine. It may not be fine to close minded people or the law, but if the law isn't going to stop 12 year olds from having sex, they sure aren't going to stop a couple that genuinely like each other from having sex. That's only a 3 year age difference. I personally think anything more than 5 is too much, though. If it's good, you're having fun, and being protected then why stop? You already did it, the deed is done.
yes too young. Been there and done that. if this is your first of course the sex is good. Problem is that in all relationships, even when you are 30 or 40, sex for the first six months to a year is great. Plus you too have allot of hormones going and youth. Are you both ready for what could happen next? Is it worth hurting your family? Are you ready to be another static and have a baby, he is 19 so are you his first? As far as stopping something that feels good, well why do you think drunks keep drinking? because to them it is what makes them feel good, yet it is destroying their lives and it effect people around them. So just think about it. Life has allot to offer to sell yourself too short because of what feels good at 16.
i am in australia goddd lol funny reading that


well you most likely not agree with me since you enjoy your sex life with him i believe its wrong id probubly tell you to wait atleast 2 more years.eventhough it isn't legal here to do that i think it has a good purpose for that.A guy at 19 may just want you for sex never have sex with a guy you met for one month.But if you feel its right i can't stop you i think you just going way to deep in just a month.Get to know each other and how he is like or else he might just dump you on the side and find another girl.
well, if its legal then you are ok. but if you feel as though you guys are moving to fast then maybe you need to slow down. if he can say he loves you then its a wrap. y'all don't need to be together anyway. but make sure your not always the first to say it. Another thing is what if you where to get pregnant. do your mother know whats going on? and are you both able to take care of a child.? i doubt it because you want to still have fun and enjoy life as a teenager. So just think to yourself about the situation and what does your heart tell you. That's the best advice i can give to you.
If you both love each other to the ends of the earth and are planning on marriage eventually then it's ok. I would take a step back and look at your future. Is there a baby your taking on your dates? To the mall with your friends? Just BE CAREFUL AND USE PROTECTION EVERY TIME! remember, protection is still not a guarantee and you shouldn't be doing this if you don't really truly love each other and want to get married.
stopping is up to u but if u have only been together for a month when u stop having sex he will leave u and if u turn up pregnant he will run so fast he will be gone before the door slams. no guy wants a girl that easy. sorry to be mean but he will suspect if he got u in a month then every guy will have that chance. even if u bled the first time. trust me no sex til u r ready to marry the guy. or wait til ur wedding night and if this is the first guy u slept with how do u know it is good? u have nothing to compare it to. yes i say stop. do some growing up first. u have ur whole life ahead of u and u r headed for heartbreak. n more ways than one. if u have to be sexually active get birth control and condoms. the condoms will take away the feeling some and u may decide to quit til u r legal bothy in age and with a ring on your finder. guys at that age are just after sex. not the long run. baby i love u and will never leave is JUST A LINE. it is #1 in getting into girls pants. remember sex is meaningful and romantic to girls. to boys it is just sex. nothing special and the charm comes almost as easily. stop while u can. before u r hurting and sorry.
Well, It's illegal here and for good reason. He is using you for sex, I'd bet anything he is.. I bet if you said you needed to slow down on the sex, he's gone. If so, let him go. Your body is all you have to give to a person and too many give their body before their heart. If you give it to everyone, how special is that? Is he the first? Second? Get the point?





A month is too fast, way too fast at your age but he will keep coming back and eventually control you. What is the hurry? I hope you are at least using protection?? If not get some help NOW! Has he been tested for STD's? Oh, you think that is stupid to ask him? It won't be if you get a STD and you can't have children later with someone you love and that really loves you. He isn't going to respect you, or your body. ';Good sex'; isn't everything, assuming you know what that is at your age already? Do you have a Mom or big sister to trust, talk to someone and use protection always! It's YOUR BODY!.What else does he do for you besides have sex with you? Does he take you out to special places? Is he committed to you only? Does he have a job, is he responsible if you get pregnant? This is your life, you only have one chance to get it right. AIDS are forever. Abortion is fine if it is over, but not for birth control. Use protection and if for any reason he won't dump him. You need to get away from this guy now.
First off - It's illegal. Second off - You are moving WAY too fast. It hasn't even been a month yet and you two already had sex. That's terrible. Please stop it now and wait a little while. Get to know each other more and then when you know it's right, do it again. Seriously, your relationship will go down-hill if you don't stop and smell the roses.
Your homones I know are raging and maybe overwhelming, but I honestly think that you are too young for sex. Now there is the fact you are in a relationship, how do you juggle that and school? I really would wait until maturity has kicked in and trust me, whether you are 16 or 40 does not mean you are mature enough can handle life problems.


Wait.....please, and then find someone who loves you and can wait until your body is ready and your mind. Where is marriage in this unwholesome relationship? Noone wants to get married anymore!!!


Don't think of the now think of the future, your future.


All the best.



All these people saying it is illegal etc...you haven't even checked where this gal is from! 16 is the age of consent in the UK, or she could be from anywhere else where the age of consent is 16. Don't be so closed-minded as to assume that anybody asking question on this site is from the same country as you!





As regards the question, I'd say if it feels good, do it! You're enjoying it, it's not hurting anybody. Frankly I don't see any reason to stop, unless it is having some kind of a negative effect on your relationship.
if you are underage, STOP!!! cos he could go to jail for statutory rape!!! even with your consent...





if you ARE legal... then do as you please... as long as you are aware of the consequences of your actions... :D





[edit - from the sounds of it: legal, young and not very bright!!!]
If you are happy about it, continue on as you were - BUT - this should really be safe sex you're having. I mean, the full works. Worse things can happen to you than just getting pregnant - make him wear a johnny.
If you think he'll stay with you, in case you have a child, then there is no problem. Just make sure you haven't contracted anything.
Only you and your boyfriend can decide if you are going too fast. The only advice I could give you is to ensure you practice safe sex and always use a condom.
the only bad thing is he is 19 and could get into trouble and plus being so young the sperm moves faster and its a faster way to get pregnant even with protection
you both are going too fast, you should slow down because you might end up, fed up with each other after some time. Just have a good time with him 1st.
If you both love each other it's ok.





But if you can't say you love him and mean it, or he cant, you should stop =/
if you're ready, no, but it's not like you can take it back now.
i doubt you will stop. you might have a guilty conscience. but you wont stop
DATS FUXKED UP ABORTION!






stop, repent sinners, not married, no sex
You need to quit. He can go to jail for rape since you are UNDERAGE.
If you have to ask then you did move too fast.
well if you feel uncomfortable than maybe you are moving to fast.
if ur ready then its not to soon but find someone more your age trust me.
you should stop before he goes to jail for having sex with an underage person
do what you love and **** the rest.
first of all a 16 year old shouldn't even be having sex slow things up
You know that's illegal right?
yea its a lil to early but when you get caught in the moment it just happen