Friday, January 15, 2010

My friend is really generous and im feeling bad about it...?? advice?

well me n my best friend veronica have been becoming closer and closer friends for a while now and i sleep over her house all the time and she always wants me over and her parents really get along with me..but the thing is she and her family are always giving me nice things and doing really cool things for me but i dont have to repay them...i feel im taking advantage of them but they dont seem to think so...advice on how i should go about this...do i keep going as i am or do something about itMy friend is really generous and im feeling bad about it...?? advice?
It depends on exactly what they are giving you.. I would suggest you accept smaller offers now and then but decline anything of a lot of value as it will give the impression that you are ';mooching';. Its ok to accept generousity occasionally but I think you have to know where to draw the line.. the way I determine it is can they really afford to be giving away what they are and should they really be giving me this/that? Offer to repay for anything also when possible.My friend is really generous and im feeling bad about it...?? advice?
hello this is lexwoo aging and i think you sould just tell your friend how you fill and you sould not keep anthing away form you friends you sould tell her the real and if she is being nice thank her for it and there sould not be athing wronge whit your friend being nice. and tell the real
Please you do not need to feel bad provided your intentions about the relationship is good.Receive what ever they give you joyfully and pray to God.One day the good Lord would help you pay back to another person. Remain good to your friend and her family.
There is nothing wrong with a little generosity but too much of it isn't good. You should tell your friend how you feel, you could also do some nice things for her to if you're not all ready.





Hope this helps
Don't accept favors from people. That way you won't feel bad or beholden to them. Tell them ';thanks but I can't accept it.';
theres nothing wrong about receiving gifts..just say thank you.

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