Wedding planning is affecting our relationship?In a bad way...any advice?

Right so my fiance and I are getting married in September and we kinda half way sorted...but we are forever stressing with each other.We get irritated at each other! I Guess when things just get to much we tend to panic and go at each other...and it doesn't help much that we both work alot, weekends to! We work from 6am-6pm, sometimes we work until 8pm!!! i mean that's hectic hours. I tend to get moody alot lately esp when i feel that we not getting anywhere with the wedding plans, i mean i wanted a small wedding, i mean nothing big but no he doesn't even want to consider my feelings?and to organize a wedding is sooo expensive. but anyway i have an opportunity to house sit for my boss while she's on holiday and work from her home..do you think i should do it?do you think i need a break away from him?Wedding planning is affecting our relationship?In a bad way...any advice?
Do you want a wedding or a marriage, that is the question you need to be asking yourself. I see you thinking about your feelings but what about his. Just sit down and discuss things, be good to one another, if you can't deal with this now... You can't deal with marriage, honestly. I am not saying that to be mean in any way. I just know marriage is not easy, and it only gets harder when you try to do things without communicating with each other. Learn to communicate with each other. It is easy.


Don't run away from this situation, you are clearly an adult and facing issues is the only way to deal with them. Remember that will send a wrong message to him, that when things become difficult, you will run away. Is that the message you want to send??


Think about one another's feelings, convey them through communication. Men think rationally and women think emotionally try to see it from his point of view and ask him to see it from your point of view. If you can't work through it, you really shouldn't get married.





It is not easy hearing the truth, but find out the truth and fix the problems before you regret what you did.


Life is only so long and wasted time is wasted time.





Good luck sweetieWedding planning is affecting our relationship?In a bad way...any advice?
Your making this a big deal, sweetie. It's fine, just talk to him about all of this.





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