10 pts best answer- need advice screwed up bad?

I have liked this girl from work for over a yr. and recently I have gotten tired of giving her attention and having her take it for granted. So I decided I was done, and deleted her off facebook to show it and get over her. She later sent me a message saying ';really u deleted me thats low';. The next day at work I ignored her and she mumbled something. Her friend also bugged about it a lot. I went 2 wks w/o saying a word, and then sent her a message saying hey. the convo was short and sweet with nothing really said. We worked together Saturday and she ignored me again the whole time. When a coworker asked what was up, I told him and as I did she walked by and threw something at me. He thinks she likes me, but I have gotten many hints that tell me she doesn't. She knows I like her, but nothing seems to happen and I've got myself in a hole here. She won't tlak to me- so if I message her what do I say? What can I do. I want to know what shes feeling? Should I say ';when ur ready to tell me what the problem is.. let me know';. HELP10 pts best answer- need advice screwed up bad?
Damn, dude, you have in fact dug yourself a huge hole... the usual response to liking someone is to ask them out, not delete them off of your facebook.


It doesn't seem like you can make matters all that much worse, so now pluck up some courage and ask her out. The worst that can happen is that she says no and ignores you... hold on, that's happening already.


Sorry for the lack of empathy, it's just you should have asked her out in the first place. Girls don't usually make the first move, it's up to the guy.





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Edit: Jeffery is wrong, it doesn't have to be a gift, but he is right that you should take action. Just, ask her out, be totally truthful.10 pts best answer- need advice screwed up bad?
She obviously likes you, she's clearly spending quite a bit of time thinking about you, otherwise she wouldn't have noticed you removed her from facebook, she wouldn't engage in conversation about you to other people and she wouldn't make such an effor to ignore you.


I think your best bet is to get her alone and talk to her openly about what happened. Why you felt you had to do what you did, and let her know you do still like her but are unsure of her feelings for you.


First ask yourself this: Is she worth the risk? Do you like her enough to bare your soul? If the answer is yes. Do it. A woman loves an open man.
ah cripes, remember the wonderful phrase 'Honesty is the best policy' if you like her, in truth you should have told her ages ago but that's water under the bridge, now my advice is simple.





Re-add her on Facebook, claim it was a technical glitch and tell her the reason you've been quiet etc at work is because you've been trying to work up the courage to ask her out. If all goes well it roses all the way, if not then it wasn't meant to be and its time to really move on and just accept it.





If it does all come to a crappy end then I'm sorry but remember next time, its better to make the move (in a stylish and acceptable fashion mind) than spend a year wondering whether they like you. The answers normally clearer if they know the question.
Send her flowers, or chocolate, or both. Girls love to be pined for. They want to be pursued. You putting up a wall by blocking her from your Facebook was the first step in showing that you do have a pair. Conversation is not the way to go, it must be a gift. Let her know that you are interested not by talk, rather by action.