I am increasingly becoming into a bad person. Pls give me some advice!!!?

These past few weeks I notice that I am becoming a bad person.


I am excessively watching too much porn and I have a tough time on controlling myself.





Can you give me some advice on how to grow into a better person.


Give me some of character building ideas.


I'm a Christian btw, give me some advice on how to control myself.


Especially on my masturbation habit, How to lessen it.I am increasingly becoming into a bad person. Pls give me some advice!!!?
It's good that you're a Christian, and you admit that you have done bad things against God. That's a start.





I'm a Christian too, although not a guy. But we are all tempted to do bad stuff just the same. Before anything else, pray and ask God for forgiveness and tell Him that you would strive not to do them again. Tell Him to help you overcome whatever that you're going through, because you can't just be a good person by yourself.





Find some Christian circles--in school, in the local church, you can find them almost anywhere. Have fellowship with them, tell them about your problems... In times like these you need people to talk to and share your problems to.





Read the Bible everyday. It's a refreshing experience especially after a hard busy day. In my case for example, the book of Psalms always helps to cheer me up and encourage me whenever I'm down. It reminds me that there is a Father who's always there to help me. It also reminds me that He's watching my every move. (This is what actually prevents me from doing bad stuff. It's part-fear, because He's my Lord, and part-love, because He's my Father, kind of thing.)





Bottomline: strengthen your relationship with God. Whatever you're going through right now, it's a trial and a temptation at the same time. But remember, God doesn't give you anything that you can't overcome. You can get through this! ^^I am increasingly becoming into a bad person. Pls give me some advice!!!?
God s the onle One who can help you.





If you actually want to change, ask Him to forgive you and help you stop.





Get rid of all the porn and don't buy any more.





There are groups in Cornerstone churches that help people deal with sexual addiction.





The best way to deal with sexual frustration is to get very active physically.





Don't let your mind linger in places it doesn't belong.





Other people will tell you that doing this is ';natural.';





Cyanide is natural too.





If it was OK, you wouldn't feel guilty.





Just imagine how you look doing it, and how your wife or mother would feel if she saw that.





Go find some Christian guys who are struggling with the same thing.






You are not bad person. You feel guilty and disgusted with yourself after watching porn and masturbation. Your Christian beliefs leads you to feel this way.





Go without porn for two weeks and seek alternative things to do. Read books, go for a walk, talk with Friends, join a chat room etc.





You are bored and you make porn as part of your hobby.





Remember you are not a bad person. Do not be so hard on yourself.
Have faith in your heart. It sounds like it has lots of good stuff planted and cultivated there. Find healthier stuff to invest your free time in, like church and/or community service. If you don't have time to leave your hands in your lap, they won't get busy with your zipper...
as long as you do not do bad things you are not a bad person, i do not consider porn as evil it is natural right? unless its real freaky stuff, like poop and gross