Sunday, January 10, 2010

I am so so so so bad with girls. ADVICE!?

I really really like this girl right now. but i just dont know if she likes me. She is friendly to me. Im on her top friends on her myspace. but she is just really friendly to everyone and has a lot of guy friends. Sadlly, i dont see her very much. just in the hallway like once a day. sometimes i dont see her at all. Well I suck at getting into relationships but im good once im in them lol its weird. Well anyways im just so afraid of rejection that i dont feel up to asking her yet.





So I would like to know how to start stuff up with girls so i can get better at getting to know if they like me or not.I am so so so so bad with girls. ADVICE!?
you must really be bad with girls if you are asking for advice from these guys (everyone on answers who will answer this question with a smart-*** remark)...this is not meant to be a smart-*** remarkI am so so so so bad with girls. ADVICE!?
What I think the best thing you can do, is just get some sort of casual conversation going, then basically try to set up some sort of group ';date';. Be like ';Hey me and some friends are going ice skating this weekend, you should come! Bring some friends, It'll be fun'; Or something along those lines. Trust me, I understand rejection, and it hurts. I've built up lots of ways to indirectly find out if a girl likes you. Just basically, find one :P
Just ask her the worst she can do is say no..
get to know them for a while and then if you both feel comfortable around each other than ask her out
Just build up the courage as others have said to ask her out in a group event, just don't let others know you want to do the group thing to have a reason to ask her out. Find or make the time to talk to her and be respectful and take it easy. Take the first few outings to know her before you ask any particular compromising question. In saying this also remember that if she is cute there must be others out there considering her too, so don't wait too long. Grandpa used to say the early bird gets the worm, just go for it and ask her to the skating rink or movies with a friend or two and get to know her. Ensure you are clean and groomed when you approach her and use some type of cologne and deodorant. I have three girls and one of their complaints years back was a smelly guy asking them out. Take it easy but be pro-active.





Wish you the best.
well obviously the first thing u need to do is to ask her for her number and tell her if shes not ever busy u guys can just hang out but involve other people so u dont get nervous but make sure u talk to her but not to much to the point she doesnt want u to talk to her but its good to talk to her if u have her for lunch or if u see her after school
this is really sweet! what you need to do is whenever you see her, make sure you are noticed as well without being weird or demanding...make the most of the time you have with her(however little it may be)...before you try and ';bust a move'; make sure you are comfortable around her...try inviting her to the movies with a big group of friends, or out to eat...but dont try to invite her somewhere alone...it would be very awkward if you didn't know you had anything in common... good luck!

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