Sunday, January 17, 2010

I need advice on a bad situation?

I am 17 years old and i have been kicked out of my step dads house and i am having problems with him and my mom they will not help me finantialy and its my senior year and i cant get my license with out them and they will not let me get them and i am broke i cant get a job with out a car and its my senior year i am going to have alot to pay for my senior picture money is already due and i dont have the money what do i do im just hurt and lostI need advice on a bad situation?
your not telling the whole story....


whats their side of the story?


they didnt kick you out for being helpful and sweet and they dont give you cash because.... ?I need advice on a bad situation?
SHOW THEM THAT YOU CAN BE VERY NICE AND PLEASE NEVER TALK BACK TO YOUR PARENTS IT WONT TAKE YOU FAR AT ALL.
Chances are your stepdad and mom are having problems of their own and are taking them out on you. Maybe they have financial problems or there is a major problem with their relationship or something. Just try to play it cool, calm, and collected and let things settle down for a day or two and then ask them if you can sit down with just the two of them and talk about everything. Most of the time things can be worked out if people talk when they're not under lots of stress from the heat of the moment. Tell them you are sorry and that you need their help because this is an important time in your life. Explain that they mean a lot to you and that your friends mean a lot to you too. A person needs both to stay grounded and happy. We don't get to choose our families but we do need to try to get along with them if at all possible. Try to put yourself in their shoes if you can. Tell them you want to begin taking on more responsibility because after you graduate you'll be taking on even more responsibility and that you need their guidance, etc. I don't really have the answer that's perfect for you because you know your situation better than anyone else. Just do your best and don't be hard on yourself. Remember, one more year and you can call the shots for your life, but for now, it would probably be best to hang in there with the family while living under their roof and everything....surely they'll accept you back into their home and if not, then try staying with a friend or relative until you finish high school. Hang in there, you will get through this rough time. I have faith in you!!!!
Why did you get kicked out? Can you go back? Try to remember that your mom and stepdad are doing the best they can. Do whatever you can to keep the peace with them through this last year of high school so you can get the things you need. You will be out on your own soon enough. Say you are sorry and ask to come home!
You didn't say why they kicked you out.......maybe apologize? Either that or get a job.
You need to contact DHS. You are still a CHILD, and your parents need to be caring for you.

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