I'm really confused...is this a good thing or a bad thing? please advice!?

there's this guy at work that i really like, but he's been experiencing a lot of difficulties in his life right now. then last week, my girl bestfriend was talking with him and he told my friend that besides all his problems... he needs to get over a girl... and for the past months he has been flirting with me all along.... now im confused.... so is it possible that while he was flirting with me he has feelings for another girl? or would that girl that he need to get over with could possibly be me??? i don't know it's just an intuition... but he never really told me straight that he likes me just through flirty actions....what do you guys think?





it's so difficult to stay away from him now... i work with him, i see him everyday... i really care about him a lot.... and i think i really have deep feelings for him.... too late to turn around...I'm really confused...is this a good thing or a bad thing? please advice!?
sounds like a really shakey foundation to build a relationship on. it seems like your really more interested in being involved. wait for someone else who does know what he wants %26amp; is not hesitant to express it.


anyway, being interested in a work buddy us a great way to mess up your work environment %26amp; your personal life.


look around harder for someone who deserves your attention. it will be worth it.


its only too late to turn around if you want it to be. love yourself better. avoid the temptation to be involved because you like being involved. better to be alone than with the wrong person in the wrong relationship. keep the door open for someone who will be beneficial to you. this guys got too many problems. you want to share his problems? don't make the mistake of thinking that you could be part of the solution. it don't work that way.


look to see if you're on your true path. only then, will you meet the right person.


good luck. sharing your heart should never be based on ';need';! that will lead you to a whole lot of grief! and don't confuse ';being in love'; with ';being in love with love';. if you don't know the difference, learn. it will save you a world of hurt. and don't confuse good sex with love, either. two very different things that could be mistaken for one another (because they both leave you feeling very happy)


if you're going to love someone that deserves it, love yourself first.I'm really confused...is this a good thing or a bad thing? please advice!?
It depends on the guy. Some guys without intension flirt with girls. once she pointout he will behave like inorsent. So keep on watching him, if he show special flirt only to you, go ahead and love. Good luck