I think he took the advice in a bad way...?

OK...This smart,funny and cute little 15 year old that I met volunteering and I showed you a few pictures of him and asked all of you how he looked like...Look guys all of your comments on him were great and I totally agree with you he is a nice kid!!


But today I caught him crying and vomiting and say that no one is going to love him unless if he loses weight, get plastic sugrey on his face and saying that he is going to eat nothing and lose weight or die trying..and he says that fi he fail to look like this dream boy that he will NEVER find love and would rather die...


It makes me soo sad to hear that..the first time I met him he seemed like such a happy kid..he is very intelligent and nice and kind..and he just has a geniune aura surronding him..


but he says that if any other gay guy would even think of being with him he HAS to look like underwear model. WHat do I do??I dont like the road he is heading himself into..It is just going to cause him more pain!I think he took the advice in a bad way...?
first of all DO SOMETHING TO NOT LET HIM DIE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!i say tell him to go to ur house and take him to a counciler then if there r any make up ppl around there bring him there and they could help him with his looksI think he took the advice in a bad way...?
he looks cute

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Well, if he's so serious in trying to look good....why don't you introduce him into some fitness program or losing weight clinic. If he can at least spend one hour a day at the gym it's possible he'll look like an underwear model someday. =D
I knew this was coming. =/ He most likely has depression, try different methods to respond to him. If he seems irrational try to make him see it. Try and find stories of how models lives are ruined and also find true stories about two people who weren't looking like models having a happy ending. Hope this helps. =)
you just have to ask your self three questions


is it needed


is it kind


is it funny


people cant take a joke respect that
Stay with him and be his friend that's what he needs .Tell him he's not alone.He is only 15 time will change him.He has a long life ahead of him.LOL
It sounds like you need to tell an adult like his parents.


It may seem like your betraying him, but he needs serious help!
Oh dear, he hates himself but has high standards in a potential partner. Very dangerous. Unfortunatly, you can only do so much. You can tell him a few home truths, that nobody in their right mind would find an emaciated, skinny guy with bad teeth attractive (cos thats what he will look like) %26amp; if he is so shallow as to want an underwear model, he needs to pull his head out of the clouds %26amp; deal with his own problems first before judging who is %26amp; isnt attractive.


Be a friend, push him towards some help but dont baby him.
I doubt you're trained to handle it, so while it's fine to give advice or a shoulder to cry on, if it seems like it's going to become a serious problem then he should talk to a therapist or counselor. Many, many people in this world have gone through the same issues this boy is going through, and fortunately, most of them do recover with time, perspective, and help.