A guy liked me. I was so skeptical and I thought he was just making fun of me (seriously!) So I rejected him and was soo mean because I thought he really actually hated me and was making fun of me. I couldn't grasp that he actually liked me. He sent me a facebook request (he NEVER did that before so that made me extra suspicious.) can you imagine? right when He got the guts to send me a facebook request after how I've treated him, I reject him AGAIN. I thought he was making fun of me because some ppl told him I liked him.
Next time I saw him, he was SO angry and hurt. I am shocked now after this epiphany because I really do like the kid a lot. But it freaks me out because everything that could possibly go wrong keeps going wrong since the day we met.
I feel terrible, what should I do? and why do I keep thinking he hates me when in reality it's the exact opposite?
Please be nice, advice please/. :( *depressedI screwed up so bad with him...advice please?
You need to tell him what you just told us, as awful as it sounds.
YOU are very very insecure. You are worthy of someone's attention and admiration, you are probably a beautiful girl and you seem to be fairly intelligent and literate. You deserve to be happy too. I say these things because I know why you thought that, because I have done the same thing to people my entire life. I always felt exactly like you did. And I have always had very low self esteem. Please stop thinking that way, it's ridiculous.
You hurt his feelings so it's going to be hard to get him to come around again, but you should start by apologizing and then explaining yourself. The truth is always best. Please do it. You will feel so much better, even if he isn't receptive, you will feel better for apologizing and trying. Good luck.I screwed up so bad with him...advice please?
tell him your sorry and that you would like to get to know him if you do like him and be friends first and that you felt offended because you thought he was making fun of you.good luck hope this helped
aw.
well, this might be wrong to some people.
but i think you should tell him the truth.
and everything tell him how you feel.
and what you thought before:)
oh honey, you got this situation in a bundle. hahaha sorry. i think the best thing to do is just come clean. tell him what you thought and im sure he'll understand.
Sunday, January 10, 2010
I did a REALLY bad thing.. need advice asap?
okay well this weekend, i was out with my friends at this kid johns house and we were drinkin %26amp; having a good time. well we all slept there and me and john ended up sleeeping next to eachother.. and next thing i knew we were kissing. but.. this kid has a girlfriend. and shes living with me %26amp; my friends down the shore this summer. as if i dont feel bad enough.. shes the nicest girl in the world. i havnt told anyone yet.. not even my best friends because im afraid at what there gonna say. but i NEED to tell someone before i explode. im so sick to my stomach about this whole thing %26amp; im nervous hes gonna tell her and ill lose her friendship %26amp; even worse the friendships of my best friends. i really need people opinions.. its making me sick. thank youuuuuuuI did a REALLY bad thing.. need advice asap?
I would tell her before she finds out some other way. It would be a lot better coming from you ...explaining that you guys were all drunk and it meant nothing. Especially if this guys gunna kiss you..her friend...what will he do if it's not her friend he's kissing next time???
P.S. You are not a slut like the *** said a sec ago. this stuff happens all the time.I did a REALLY bad thing.. need advice asap?
slut
Right...tell her yourself and hope you two can talk it out. Someone else tells her, you'll have problems. You probably won't get a chance to talk at all. Good luck
The only thing you can do is be honest with your friend.
Well whats done in the dark comes to light. So you should tell the girl and your friends before they find out about it. If they find out about it things are going to be worse because not only did you do what you did but you didn't even tell them after the fact. Which also makes it seem like there is more to the story just tell them the truth before they find out.
Even though our probs are different, I know what it feels like to carry a secret. It burns inside you like fire to get out. Then when you go to sleep, it keeps you up all night, and with all these people only answer to call you a slut? That dosen't feel good at all,right? If the secert keeps bothering you, tell the girl in tears and beg for forgiveness.
well. if it was intentional, your a horrible person.
But if it was an accident explain that and try to joke about it. ';Next time we sleep together, ill Do all the work k?';
Lol. Jokes
First of all - He's not gonna tell her. Boys that age lack the balls to own up to something like that their gf.
Secondly - Do not tell her!! The only reason you would tell anyone about this would be to get it off your chest and that would be a very selfish thing to do since it would hurt them.
You need to lay low, be yourself and it WILL blow over - I promise.
Good Luck :-)
tell her right now, she will find out sooner or later
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?鈥?/a>
tell her before she finds out from someone else! just explain everythingeye make up
I would tell her before she finds out some other way. It would be a lot better coming from you ...explaining that you guys were all drunk and it meant nothing. Especially if this guys gunna kiss you..her friend...what will he do if it's not her friend he's kissing next time???
P.S. You are not a slut like the *** said a sec ago. this stuff happens all the time.I did a REALLY bad thing.. need advice asap?
slut
Right...tell her yourself and hope you two can talk it out. Someone else tells her, you'll have problems. You probably won't get a chance to talk at all. Good luck
The only thing you can do is be honest with your friend.
Well whats done in the dark comes to light. So you should tell the girl and your friends before they find out about it. If they find out about it things are going to be worse because not only did you do what you did but you didn't even tell them after the fact. Which also makes it seem like there is more to the story just tell them the truth before they find out.
Even though our probs are different, I know what it feels like to carry a secret. It burns inside you like fire to get out. Then when you go to sleep, it keeps you up all night, and with all these people only answer to call you a slut? That dosen't feel good at all,right? If the secert keeps bothering you, tell the girl in tears and beg for forgiveness.
well. if it was intentional, your a horrible person.
But if it was an accident explain that and try to joke about it. ';Next time we sleep together, ill Do all the work k?';
Lol. Jokes
First of all - He's not gonna tell her. Boys that age lack the balls to own up to something like that their gf.
Secondly - Do not tell her!! The only reason you would tell anyone about this would be to get it off your chest and that would be a very selfish thing to do since it would hurt them.
You need to lay low, be yourself and it WILL blow over - I promise.
Good Luck :-)
tell her right now, she will find out sooner or later
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?鈥?/a>
tell her before she finds out from someone else! just explain everything
I have allergies real bad and need advice?
I get bad allergies, my eyes get very red and strain everyday, I also cough up mucus every morning and get headaches around eyes and forehead. I've already seen a neaurologist and also had my eyes checked for vision. My doc had given me a nose spray and over the counter clariten, but they really don't help much. I just moved to an apartment recently that had a big time smoker in it before. (i found that out after I signed lease..), Can anyone tell me how they have overcome their allergies? what works?I have allergies real bad and need advice?
zyrtec works wayyyy better then clariten
zyrtec works wayyyy better then clariten
Am i good or bad girlfriend...any advice?
i've been dating a wonderful guy for almost a year now and we both love each other. he has a 5yr old from a previous marriage who i totally adore and since he has full custody his son lives with us and i have become the main female role model. i do a lot for both of them taking him school, making dinner, cleaning, playing, sharing financial responsibilities and lots of other things plus i work a very full time job and take online classes. sometimes my boyfriend and i will argrue about the dumbest stuff and he'll say that i nag him. but when he calls me a nag its cause i ask him to help me with something around the house or if we can talk. he dreads it when i ask if we can talk cause if we talk about our relationship it means that there is a problem. i just want to talk about where things are going and work out issues we have from dumb argruments. but he seems to get mad when i want to talk and i feel like i have to find someone else to talk to. does this make me a bad girlfried cause i ask him to talk? or cause i make ask for help around the house? i try my best to make everyone happy but i sometimes wonder if im even doing anything right...Am i good or bad girlfriend...any advice?
You sound like an amazing girlfriend to him, and you are doing everything more than right. Most or a lot of girls wouldn't be doing half the stuff you do. He's just being a bad boyfriend by not communicating with you. He just needs to be more receptive to what you say and your needs. It's not all about him. You need help too. Don't put yourself down for anything. You need to be giving yourself tons of credit.Am i good or bad girlfriend...any advice?
No, i think you are good, he seems to have the problem because he wont talk to you much, the only thing you can really d o is say that you find it important to talk about your relationship and try to make him see that things could begin to go wrong if you don't or just avoid problems
Sorry but it sounds like he want a live in maid, housekeeper, child care plus some to share the expense with.
All I can tell you is that if it were me I would leave but that works for me it might not be what works for you. Only you can know that.
Good Luck
thats great that you have taken responsability in his daughters life, and no your a great girlfriend, he should realize all you do and be happy to talk about your relationship
it depends, do you bug him constantly for hours on end to talk to you or just ask him once?
Sounds like your an angel to me, With some big insecurities that need to be shared. Either with your partner, which would be preferable but he doesn't seem the talkative type. if not look for a friend or even professional help cos the worst thing you can do is bottle it up. It is a big decision to take on someone Else's kids and i admire you, for taking such care of your family
The modern super woman but remember you need to have time for you too, take up a hobby, go out on Girl nights. Don't give up, trying to convey your feelings. A key to a good relationship is communication. Try being positive and giving suggestion. I'm sure you two can work things out
ur exactly normal, wanting to talk or have help around the house.. it's not so abnormal that he doesn't want to talk or calls it ';nagging.';
women are supposed to speak way more words per day than men per day, men are visually stimulated and women are verbally stimulated? ie: they talk with their girlfriends certain things, and they use details that a man wouldn't use to describe something.
the best way to get a man to remember something is to use the least amount of words.. its probably the best way to have you listen to him as well. they'll totally tune out and then they tend to call it ';nagging'; if it's more than their brain can chew at the moment, bc it's just excessive to them.
maybe u need a time and a place to get through to him when you want to talk to him. but if u just want to get your point across at that moment, im sure there's some shortcuts to showing him what you mean.
You sound like an amazing girlfriend to him, and you are doing everything more than right. Most or a lot of girls wouldn't be doing half the stuff you do. He's just being a bad boyfriend by not communicating with you. He just needs to be more receptive to what you say and your needs. It's not all about him. You need help too. Don't put yourself down for anything. You need to be giving yourself tons of credit.Am i good or bad girlfriend...any advice?
No, i think you are good, he seems to have the problem because he wont talk to you much, the only thing you can really d o is say that you find it important to talk about your relationship and try to make him see that things could begin to go wrong if you don't or just avoid problems
Sorry but it sounds like he want a live in maid, housekeeper, child care plus some to share the expense with.
All I can tell you is that if it were me I would leave but that works for me it might not be what works for you. Only you can know that.
Good Luck
thats great that you have taken responsability in his daughters life, and no your a great girlfriend, he should realize all you do and be happy to talk about your relationship
it depends, do you bug him constantly for hours on end to talk to you or just ask him once?
Sounds like your an angel to me, With some big insecurities that need to be shared. Either with your partner, which would be preferable but he doesn't seem the talkative type. if not look for a friend or even professional help cos the worst thing you can do is bottle it up. It is a big decision to take on someone Else's kids and i admire you, for taking such care of your family
The modern super woman but remember you need to have time for you too, take up a hobby, go out on Girl nights. Don't give up, trying to convey your feelings. A key to a good relationship is communication. Try being positive and giving suggestion. I'm sure you two can work things out
ur exactly normal, wanting to talk or have help around the house.. it's not so abnormal that he doesn't want to talk or calls it ';nagging.';
women are supposed to speak way more words per day than men per day, men are visually stimulated and women are verbally stimulated? ie: they talk with their girlfriends certain things, and they use details that a man wouldn't use to describe something.
the best way to get a man to remember something is to use the least amount of words.. its probably the best way to have you listen to him as well. they'll totally tune out and then they tend to call it ';nagging'; if it's more than their brain can chew at the moment, bc it's just excessive to them.
maybe u need a time and a place to get through to him when you want to talk to him. but if u just want to get your point across at that moment, im sure there's some shortcuts to showing him what you mean.
Character Paper GOOD OR BAD? Please read advice please?
What is Character? This is not a question I would ask my self because I thought I had an idea of what character is. But a question for myself is: Do I posses it? So I went on a little journey to find out. I went online to Google and looked it up. That’s when I realized that I didn’t have a clue of what character is. I found out that Character is the account of the qualities or peculiarities of a person or moral or ethical quality and that’s when I figured I possessed it. The definition of Character lead me to my next paragraph and a new question: Do I need character to live a good life?
So, do I need character to lead a good life? I looked this up also. I found that to lead a good life you need good character because in a book called The Time of Our Lives: The Ethics of Common Sense written by Mortimer J. Adler who was an American Aristotelian philosopher and author said “To this, first of all, must be added the observation that even apart from the extremes of good or bad fortune, we need strength of character -- we need fortitude and temperance -- to carry out a plan for our whole life, precisely because that plan requires us always to weigh the interests of the moment against the interests of our life as a whole.”
Thus saying that you need a strong guided character to be able to handle the good and bad parts of life, and with that strong character no matter what happens you would be able to get through all the different moments and at the end of your life you’d be happy in how you lived it to its fullest.
I had another question that I wanted answered so I looked it up too. Is your life bad when you have no character? I found out that if you have no character you life could be a living hell but it could turn out to be different if you try to but that is totally up to the person with bad character.
In conclusion almost everybody posses character, but mostly the people with good character will live a good life and actually feel good about. The people with bad character could live a good life but not feel good about it at the end. So to obtain good moral character I always would do the right thing so in order for you to obtain good moral character you should always do the right thing no matter what.Character Paper GOOD OR BAD? Please read advice please?
You always have character even if you dont realize it
So, do I need character to lead a good life? I looked this up also. I found that to lead a good life you need good character because in a book called The Time of Our Lives: The Ethics of Common Sense written by Mortimer J. Adler who was an American Aristotelian philosopher and author said “To this, first of all, must be added the observation that even apart from the extremes of good or bad fortune, we need strength of character -- we need fortitude and temperance -- to carry out a plan for our whole life, precisely because that plan requires us always to weigh the interests of the moment against the interests of our life as a whole.”
Thus saying that you need a strong guided character to be able to handle the good and bad parts of life, and with that strong character no matter what happens you would be able to get through all the different moments and at the end of your life you’d be happy in how you lived it to its fullest.
I had another question that I wanted answered so I looked it up too. Is your life bad when you have no character? I found out that if you have no character you life could be a living hell but it could turn out to be different if you try to but that is totally up to the person with bad character.
In conclusion almost everybody posses character, but mostly the people with good character will live a good life and actually feel good about. The people with bad character could live a good life but not feel good about it at the end. So to obtain good moral character I always would do the right thing so in order for you to obtain good moral character you should always do the right thing no matter what.Character Paper GOOD OR BAD? Please read advice please?
You always have character even if you dont realize it
I did a REALLY bad thing.. need advice asap?
okay well this weekend, i was out with my friends at this kid johns house and we were drinkin %26amp; having a good time. well we all slept there and me and john ended up sleeeping next to eachother.. and next thing i knew we were kissing. but.. this kid has a girlfriend. and shes living with me %26amp; my friends down the shore this summer. as if i dont feel bad enough.. shes the nicest girl in the world. i havnt told anyone yet.. not even my best friends because im afraid at what there gonna say. but i NEED to tell someone before i explode. im so sick to my stomach about this whole thing %26amp; im nervous hes gonna tell her and ill lose her friendship %26amp; even worse the friendships of my best friends. i really need people opinions.. its making me sick. thank youuuuuuuI did a REALLY bad thing.. need advice asap?
Even though our probs are different, I know what it feels like to carry a secret. It burns inside you like fire to get out. Then when you go to sleep, it keeps you up all night, and with all these people only answer to call you a ****? That dosen't feel good at all,right? If the secert keeps bothering you, tell the girl in tears and beg for forgiveness.I did a REALLY bad thing.. need advice asap?
I would tell her before she finds out some other way. It would be a lot better coming from you ...explaining that you guys were all drunk and it meant nothing. Especially if this guys gunna kiss you..her friend...what will he do if it's not her friend he's kissing next time???
P.S. You are not a **** like the *** said a sec ago. this stuff happens all the time.
tell her right now, she will find out sooner or later
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?鈥?/a>
Right...tell her yourself and hope you two can talk it out. Someone else tells her, you'll have problems. You probably won't get a chance to talk at all. Good luck
Well whats done in the dark comes to light. So you should tell the girl and your friends before they find out about it. If they find out about it things are going to be worse because not only did you do what you did but you didn't even tell them after the fact. Which also makes it seem like there is more to the story just tell them the truth before they find out.
The only thing you can do is be honest with your friend.
First of all - He's not gonna tell her. Boys that age lack the balls to own up to something like that their gf.
Secondly - Do not tell her!! The only reason you would tell anyone about this would be to get it off your chest and that would be a very selfish thing to do since it would hurt them.
You need to lay low, be yourself and it WILL blow over - I promise.
Good Luck :-)
well. if it was intentional, your a horrible person.
But if it was an accident explain that and try to joke about it. ';Next time we sleep together, ill Do all the work k?';
Lol. Jokes
tell her before she finds out from someone else! just explain everything
****
Even though our probs are different, I know what it feels like to carry a secret. It burns inside you like fire to get out. Then when you go to sleep, it keeps you up all night, and with all these people only answer to call you a ****? That dosen't feel good at all,right? If the secert keeps bothering you, tell the girl in tears and beg for forgiveness.I did a REALLY bad thing.. need advice asap?
I would tell her before she finds out some other way. It would be a lot better coming from you ...explaining that you guys were all drunk and it meant nothing. Especially if this guys gunna kiss you..her friend...what will he do if it's not her friend he's kissing next time???
P.S. You are not a **** like the *** said a sec ago. this stuff happens all the time.
tell her right now, she will find out sooner or later
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?鈥?/a>
Right...tell her yourself and hope you two can talk it out. Someone else tells her, you'll have problems. You probably won't get a chance to talk at all. Good luck
Well whats done in the dark comes to light. So you should tell the girl and your friends before they find out about it. If they find out about it things are going to be worse because not only did you do what you did but you didn't even tell them after the fact. Which also makes it seem like there is more to the story just tell them the truth before they find out.
The only thing you can do is be honest with your friend.
First of all - He's not gonna tell her. Boys that age lack the balls to own up to something like that their gf.
Secondly - Do not tell her!! The only reason you would tell anyone about this would be to get it off your chest and that would be a very selfish thing to do since it would hurt them.
You need to lay low, be yourself and it WILL blow over - I promise.
Good Luck :-)
well. if it was intentional, your a horrible person.
But if it was an accident explain that and try to joke about it. ';Next time we sleep together, ill Do all the work k?';
Lol. Jokes
tell her before she finds out from someone else! just explain everything
****
I have allergies real bad and need advice?
I get bad allergies, my eyes get very red and strain everyday, I also cough up mucus every morning and get headaches around eyes and forehead. I've already seen a neaurologist and also had my eyes checked for vision. My doc had given me a nose spray and over the counter clariten, but they really don't help much. I just moved to an apartment recently that had a big time smoker in it before. (i found that out after I signed lease..), Can anyone tell me how they have overcome their allergies? what works?I have allergies real bad and need advice?
zyrtec works wayyyy better then clariten
zyrtec works wayyyy better then clariten
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