My teeth are so bad, its either cavities, or my teeth are startin to decay, due to tiny holes in the sides. about 3 or 4 teeth hav this problem. I also hav a half cracked chewing tooth, but havnt been to the dentist. And to add to these problems, my teeth are slightly crooked, which shows i should hav had braces when i was younger (im 20 now). I havnt visited the dentist in atleast 7 years. this is not because i am unhygienic, but rather i am afraid of needles in my mouth, and having teeth pulled out with pliers. And now i am regreting leaving my teeth in such a state, as i am now 20, and will no way be able to afford dental care. Is there anyway of recieving free dental care, as i am still a student, i understand the NHS may offer free dental care, but do they provide braces!! and at my age braces will braces look silly.. so would the NHS use invicible braces...
Any advice/info would be really helpful.
My back teeth are hurting as i am writing this..
PS i do brush my teeth btwMy teeth are so bad!! Need dental advice?
You still have time. Just go to a good dentist. If you're really scared of needles in the mouth etc ask if you can have stuff done under sedation. If you're entitled to free you can get that for free. They'll put you to sleep and do the stuff that needs doing. Please dont wait until its too late. I know its easy to say but just put your fear to one side and think of your teeth. You wont get another set. Just go and see a dentist for a check up, and see what advice they can give you and take it from there. Good luck.My teeth are so bad!! Need dental advice?
first go to a gp to check there are no other problems in the mouth area,
here in Leeds we have a dental hospital which any one can go sign to become gineuae pigs, as these are dental students doing a dental course to become future dentists so your mouth/teeth would delight them, if you lived here, is there one in your town?.
look into the benefit system by visiting the DSS offices about dental treatments, with the sound and description of your teeth expect 2months work on them for them to be perfect, again, but keep brushing them and listerine is good, so is swilling with salt water, salts a antiseptic which will heal anything sore oil of cloves rubbed on aching teeth eases the pain, but you do need to see a dentist, bad teeth, often leads to a bad stomach.
in the name of fu'ck wee fella, what the fuc'k do you think me and others pay tax for is it so young people can suffer? ahm no! get yerself down the dentist and claim of the dole, but none of this nhs crap tell em you want prostetic fillings. dont forget me and your parents put them through dental school they owe you at least a fair go. anything less is butchery.
You need to see the dentist as you obviously have caries, I cannot tell you if its a root canal treatment or just a restoartive filling because I havent sene them myslef, you nee dto go and at least have XRays taken to find out whats wrong, if you are afraid of needles and things I suggest you see a denitst who specializes in SEDATION as it iwll help you, they will put you to slepe completely relaxed and you wont felel a thing only to wake up 5 hours later with you r teeth all fixed, at least look into sedation dentistry its helped many people like you before.
GO see a dentist! Have him prioritize what needs to be done. You'll be surprised most of them will be helpful if you will just be honest and sincere about wanting to get the work done but with financial difficulties. Some dental offices offer a 'credit card' to use towards dental work. They even offer zero interest.
You have to go to a dentist to get things sorted before you end up with plastic teeth! And forget about ortho for the moment. No orthodontist will touch you until you are dentally fit and you can show that your oral hygeine is up to scratch. This is becaues your teeth are very vunerable to decay when you are wearing ortho appliances.
Go and get registered. A check up is free and xrays only cost a few pounds. Your dentist will give you a written estimate and if you let him/her know what you can afford at this stage thay can tell you what needs to be done most urgently. Then you can save up to complete the work. Also at a check up you can see if you like and trust the dentist and let them know that you are nervous. Trust me! As a dentist not a day goes by without somebody coming through the door like you that just needs a little help to get back into the routine of going to the dentist. Dentists are used to dealing with nervous patients.
Don't use money as an excuse to put it off. Get on as many waiting lists as you can to find a dentist and start saving while you are waiting to be accepted by one. Once your teeth are gone there is no getting them back and dentures are not sexy!!!
You definitely need to see a dentist. Not even for cosmetic purposes, but for your health. If you get an infection it can lead to the blood stream and to your heart. I would see if the state can offer you any assistance. Also check local colleges. Usually students studying to become dentists will provide you care at a discounted rate. I understand your fear of needles, TRUST ME, I understand. I shake like a leaf and have to take an anxiety pill before I go, but I go. Best of luck to you. I hope you find one. Also call your local dentists in your area and see if they accept payment plans. And no, braces on a 20 year old would not look silly. Better late then never if you need to have them.
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Nikki is correct, you need to get to a dentist as quickly as possible, not for cosmetic reasons, but for your own health.
The sooner you go the sooner you'll get everything sorted out, and the less painful and expensive it will be.
If you call NHS Direct on 0845 46 47 they will be able to give you a list of NHS dentists in your area. Ring around and you'll find somewhere eventually. You can get a form from them and they will provide your treatment for free.
Don't worry about the braces at the moment. You want to get those cavities and all the decay sorted out. Don't worry about the needle, either. I had my first filling 6 months ago and had never had an injection in my mouth before and was nervous as hell. To my relief, it actually didn't hurt that much at all. It was more of a sort of dull ache that lasted just a few seconds.
Sunday, January 10, 2010
Would this be a bad idea??.. need advice!!?
my girlfriend broke up with almost going on 2 months.. but we still talk.. and said she still wants me in her life and dose not want to lose me... i have not talked to her for about a week and half.. i called her befor she left for Florida to just say i hope you have a fun trip.. i know you probably need it from all the stress with everything.. her mom said that she was very happy to hear from me...
i wrote her a letter basically saying how i feel.. but it wasent like omg i love you your everything to me blah blah blah.. basically it was just a letter saying i was thinking about you this is why i wrote it... is that bad that i wrote to her or no??Would this be a bad idea??.. need advice!!?
i dont think so but you have to be carfull just kinda act like you guys are friends and go from there.
i wrote her a letter basically saying how i feel.. but it wasent like omg i love you your everything to me blah blah blah.. basically it was just a letter saying i was thinking about you this is why i wrote it... is that bad that i wrote to her or no??Would this be a bad idea??.. need advice!!?
i dont think so but you have to be carfull just kinda act like you guys are friends and go from there.
GUYS! I feel REALLY BAD and NEED ADVICE?! GIRLS HELP TOO?!?
There's this guy josh I've liked for almost 2 years. I used to think he liked me too, but I got majorly mixed signals. Sometimes he was so good to me, and other times (like when he tried to get me lost in a neighborhood at nite)...arghhhh. The final straw came Friday when invited him to this ball I had to go to (just to hang with me so I didn't have to dance), and he flat out said no. I figured if he liked me at all,he woulda gone. Instead I spent the evening with guys who give me the creeps, holding their hands and touching my back and thinking of how the only hands I wanted touch me were josh's.
I've had to see josh all this week at church activity were helping at. I've ignored him if he tries to talk to me. He has told my 15 year old brother, who he's friends with, every nite just how I hate him. Last nite my bro told me to tell him sorry, and I said,';I have nothing to be sorry for'; and josh said,';are u mad at me?'; he asked twice. I wouldn't answer I just turned away. ';I'm not going anywhere. When ur ready to talk you know where I'll be.'; I said wouldn't talk. And then as the nite progressed I just got meaner and meaner towards him.
Now... I feel like crap. I feel like I took the only guy I ever cared bout and shoved him away. WHY? Because I conned myself into believing he liked me. I will see him tonight. What should I do??We're 18. Also...why would he care if I was mad at him or not?GUYS! I feel REALLY BAD and NEED ADVICE?! GIRLS HELP TOO?!?
He does like you. He just thinks you come on a little strong sometimes. Calm down and let him come to you. And when you see him tonight, just tell him what made you so mad in the first place. Then apologize for being mean to him. Guys are very forgiving. They usually always forgive you if you ask for it. Oh and the only reason you were so mean is because, like all girls, we hate rejection, so we get mad if a guy we like tells us no. It's just what we do. If you learn to accept it, you won't be as mad. Let Josh know you like him again also because he may think you're not into him after you ignored him. Guys love to be shown attention. If you give him some, maybe he'll start liking you too. I think this boy is really sweet to you also. Maybe he had other plans that night when you had to go to the ball. Just give him a chance. I hope this helps you out!GUYS! I feel REALLY BAD and NEED ADVICE?! GIRLS HELP TOO?!?
you have to talk to him!
you've like him for 2 years and you aren't sure how he feels about you?
that's way too long to torture yourself like this. think of it this way, if you tell him you like him and he says yes, Great! you guys can date and be happy together
if he says no, yes it will hurt.. but then it will be over and you can move on with your life knowing that you tried instead of keeping it all bottled up wondering. i know because ive done this before and you always just end up thinking, why didnt i just get the guts up to say it, who knows what ouwld have happened.
i hope it works out for you!! :)
if your were friends, then thats probably why he cares if your mad at him. Im sorry, but you should feel bad for ignoring him and he is probably mad because you ignored him. You shouldnt have oushed him away, and he might have had something to do,
I hope things turn out for the best. Good luck
I've had to see josh all this week at church activity were helping at. I've ignored him if he tries to talk to me. He has told my 15 year old brother, who he's friends with, every nite just how I hate him. Last nite my bro told me to tell him sorry, and I said,';I have nothing to be sorry for'; and josh said,';are u mad at me?'; he asked twice. I wouldn't answer I just turned away. ';I'm not going anywhere. When ur ready to talk you know where I'll be.'; I said wouldn't talk. And then as the nite progressed I just got meaner and meaner towards him.
Now... I feel like crap. I feel like I took the only guy I ever cared bout and shoved him away. WHY? Because I conned myself into believing he liked me. I will see him tonight. What should I do??We're 18. Also...why would he care if I was mad at him or not?GUYS! I feel REALLY BAD and NEED ADVICE?! GIRLS HELP TOO?!?
He does like you. He just thinks you come on a little strong sometimes. Calm down and let him come to you. And when you see him tonight, just tell him what made you so mad in the first place. Then apologize for being mean to him. Guys are very forgiving. They usually always forgive you if you ask for it. Oh and the only reason you were so mean is because, like all girls, we hate rejection, so we get mad if a guy we like tells us no. It's just what we do. If you learn to accept it, you won't be as mad. Let Josh know you like him again also because he may think you're not into him after you ignored him. Guys love to be shown attention. If you give him some, maybe he'll start liking you too. I think this boy is really sweet to you also. Maybe he had other plans that night when you had to go to the ball. Just give him a chance. I hope this helps you out!GUYS! I feel REALLY BAD and NEED ADVICE?! GIRLS HELP TOO?!?
you have to talk to him!
you've like him for 2 years and you aren't sure how he feels about you?
that's way too long to torture yourself like this. think of it this way, if you tell him you like him and he says yes, Great! you guys can date and be happy together
if he says no, yes it will hurt.. but then it will be over and you can move on with your life knowing that you tried instead of keeping it all bottled up wondering. i know because ive done this before and you always just end up thinking, why didnt i just get the guts up to say it, who knows what ouwld have happened.
i hope it works out for you!! :)
if your were friends, then thats probably why he cares if your mad at him. Im sorry, but you should feel bad for ignoring him and he is probably mad because you ignored him. You shouldnt have oushed him away, and he might have had something to do,
I hope things turn out for the best. Good luck
I need a loan..bad credit..any advice or help?? loan shark or watever?
Whats out there besides prosper.com..my credit score is like 480 and will keep goin lower unless i can get one 4000 dollar loan to pay off my debt..of course this will put me in debt but i believe they call it consolidating my loans so now i will be makin one monthly payment and my score will not go any lower...any help?? i dont mind the high interest rates..yea u heard right....loan shark types or anything hit me up?? and please dont waste my time tellin me how evil these loan sharks are..ther horrible but im willin to put up wit it I need a loan..bad credit..any advice or help?? loan shark or watever?
I agree with the others who suggested you see a credit counselor.
You could also talk to your bank and see what they are willing to do to help.
Don't dodge any calls from collections agencies (it doesn't sound like you are... but just in case!). If you can't make a minimum monthly payment, pay as much as you can... just paying something -- even $20 -- will keep them off your back.
I'd also suggest trying to get a second, temporary job if you can, rather than taking out a loan. Waiting tables could work out well: it's fast cash in your pocket, the hours are very flexible, they'll provide free meals, and you can quit without guilt. Or offer up some babysitting services, especially if you have kids of your own and it makes it difficult to get another job.
Also, run a credit check on yourself. Make sure that any debts you've paid off are reflected in the report... I've been there, too: I had a debt with a major corporation as well as the state, and once I paid them, they were still on my report. I had to make a lot of calls to get the report updated, and my score significantly improved. Compare your report from the three major agencies to make sure they're correct, sometimes they reflect different scores.I need a loan..bad credit..any advice or help?? loan shark or watever?
Your loan request isn't all that high (only 4 grand) so don't go and be desperate because you'll end up paying twice as much.
This would be a good time to go see a credit counsellor to make orderly repayment of debts.
Hi,
I used ';Credit Solution'; to settle my debt and avoid bankruptcy.They managed to reduce my debt 58%.It's legitimate.I came across this company on NBC News Special Edition.Check it out here:
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don't do anything crazy . go to a debt counselor , they are listed under usa.gov . You could declare bankruptcy , but , wait until you get some honest advice from a counselor .
Wow. A loan shark? Do you really think it wise to seek criminal help on the internet?
ummm try selling stuff on E-bay or go rob a bank.
Thank you.
unless you have a home or a nice car where you can pawn the title, nobodies going to give you a signature loan. I take it you burned all the bridges with friends and family, may be one of them will cosign a loan for you. stay away from loan sharks dude that can get a little dangerous, unless you have one at work. if you cant get a cosigner i would you suggest you sell your car, your jewelry, your Stereo and anything else of value to raise the money. or get a second or third job. good luck dude.
I agree with the others who suggested you see a credit counselor.
You could also talk to your bank and see what they are willing to do to help.
Don't dodge any calls from collections agencies (it doesn't sound like you are... but just in case!). If you can't make a minimum monthly payment, pay as much as you can... just paying something -- even $20 -- will keep them off your back.
I'd also suggest trying to get a second, temporary job if you can, rather than taking out a loan. Waiting tables could work out well: it's fast cash in your pocket, the hours are very flexible, they'll provide free meals, and you can quit without guilt. Or offer up some babysitting services, especially if you have kids of your own and it makes it difficult to get another job.
Also, run a credit check on yourself. Make sure that any debts you've paid off are reflected in the report... I've been there, too: I had a debt with a major corporation as well as the state, and once I paid them, they were still on my report. I had to make a lot of calls to get the report updated, and my score significantly improved. Compare your report from the three major agencies to make sure they're correct, sometimes they reflect different scores.I need a loan..bad credit..any advice or help?? loan shark or watever?
Your loan request isn't all that high (only 4 grand) so don't go and be desperate because you'll end up paying twice as much.
This would be a good time to go see a credit counsellor to make orderly repayment of debts.
Hi,
I used ';Credit Solution'; to settle my debt and avoid bankruptcy.They managed to reduce my debt 58%.It's legitimate.I came across this company on NBC News Special Edition.Check it out here:
http://CreditSolution01.notlong.com
don't do anything crazy . go to a debt counselor , they are listed under usa.gov . You could declare bankruptcy , but , wait until you get some honest advice from a counselor .
Wow. A loan shark? Do you really think it wise to seek criminal help on the internet?
ummm try selling stuff on E-bay or go rob a bank.
Thank you.
unless you have a home or a nice car where you can pawn the title, nobodies going to give you a signature loan. I take it you burned all the bridges with friends and family, may be one of them will cosign a loan for you. stay away from loan sharks dude that can get a little dangerous, unless you have one at work. if you cant get a cosigner i would you suggest you sell your car, your jewelry, your Stereo and anything else of value to raise the money. or get a second or third job. good luck dude.
I screwed up so bad with him...advice please?
A guy liked me. I was so skeptical and I thought he was just making fun of me (seriously!) So I rejected him and was soo mean because I thought he really actually hated me and was making fun of me. I couldn't grasp that he actually liked me. He sent me a facebook request (he NEVER did that before so that made me extra suspicious.) can you imagine? right when He got the guts to send me a facebook request after how I've treated him, I reject him AGAIN. I thought he was making fun of me because some ppl told him I liked him.
Next time I saw him, he was SO angry and hurt. I am shocked now after this epiphany because I really do like the kid a lot. But it freaks me out because everything that could possibly go wrong keeps going wrong since the day we met.
I feel terrible, what should I do? and why do I keep thinking he hates me when in reality it's the exact opposite?
Please be nice, advice please/. :( *depressedI screwed up so bad with him...advice please?
You need to tell him what you just told us, as awful as it sounds.
YOU are very very insecure. You are worthy of someone's attention and admiration, you are probably a beautiful girl and you seem to be fairly intelligent and literate. You deserve to be happy too. I say these things because I know why you thought that, because I have done the same thing to people my entire life. I always felt exactly like you did. And I have always had very low self esteem. Please stop thinking that way, it's ridiculous.
You hurt his feelings so it's going to be hard to get him to come around again, but you should start by apologizing and then explaining yourself. The truth is always best. Please do it. You will feel so much better, even if he isn't receptive, you will feel better for apologizing and trying. Good luck.I screwed up so bad with him...advice please?
tell him your sorry and that you would like to get to know him if you do like him and be friends first and that you felt offended because you thought he was making fun of you.good luck hope this helped
aw.
well, this might be wrong to some people.
but i think you should tell him the truth.
and everything tell him how you feel.
and what you thought before:)
oh honey, you got this situation in a bundle. hahaha sorry. i think the best thing to do is just come clean. tell him what you thought and im sure he'll understand.
Next time I saw him, he was SO angry and hurt. I am shocked now after this epiphany because I really do like the kid a lot. But it freaks me out because everything that could possibly go wrong keeps going wrong since the day we met.
I feel terrible, what should I do? and why do I keep thinking he hates me when in reality it's the exact opposite?
Please be nice, advice please/. :( *depressedI screwed up so bad with him...advice please?
You need to tell him what you just told us, as awful as it sounds.
YOU are very very insecure. You are worthy of someone's attention and admiration, you are probably a beautiful girl and you seem to be fairly intelligent and literate. You deserve to be happy too. I say these things because I know why you thought that, because I have done the same thing to people my entire life. I always felt exactly like you did. And I have always had very low self esteem. Please stop thinking that way, it's ridiculous.
You hurt his feelings so it's going to be hard to get him to come around again, but you should start by apologizing and then explaining yourself. The truth is always best. Please do it. You will feel so much better, even if he isn't receptive, you will feel better for apologizing and trying. Good luck.I screwed up so bad with him...advice please?
tell him your sorry and that you would like to get to know him if you do like him and be friends first and that you felt offended because you thought he was making fun of you.good luck hope this helped
aw.
well, this might be wrong to some people.
but i think you should tell him the truth.
and everything tell him how you feel.
and what you thought before:)
oh honey, you got this situation in a bundle. hahaha sorry. i think the best thing to do is just come clean. tell him what you thought and im sure he'll understand.
I did a REALLY bad thing.. need advice asap?
okay well this weekend, i was out with my friends at this kid johns house and we were drinkin %26amp; having a good time. well we all slept there and me and john ended up sleeeping next to eachother.. and next thing i knew we were kissing. but.. this kid has a girlfriend. and shes living with me %26amp; my friends down the shore this summer. as if i dont feel bad enough.. shes the nicest girl in the world. i havnt told anyone yet.. not even my best friends because im afraid at what there gonna say. but i NEED to tell someone before i explode. im so sick to my stomach about this whole thing %26amp; im nervous hes gonna tell her and ill lose her friendship %26amp; even worse the friendships of my best friends. i really need people opinions.. its making me sick. thank youuuuuuuI did a REALLY bad thing.. need advice asap?
I would tell her before she finds out some other way. It would be a lot better coming from you ...explaining that you guys were all drunk and it meant nothing. Especially if this guys gunna kiss you..her friend...what will he do if it's not her friend he's kissing next time???
P.S. You are not a slut like the *** said a sec ago. this stuff happens all the time.I did a REALLY bad thing.. need advice asap?
slut
Right...tell her yourself and hope you two can talk it out. Someone else tells her, you'll have problems. You probably won't get a chance to talk at all. Good luck
The only thing you can do is be honest with your friend.
Well whats done in the dark comes to light. So you should tell the girl and your friends before they find out about it. If they find out about it things are going to be worse because not only did you do what you did but you didn't even tell them after the fact. Which also makes it seem like there is more to the story just tell them the truth before they find out.
Even though our probs are different, I know what it feels like to carry a secret. It burns inside you like fire to get out. Then when you go to sleep, it keeps you up all night, and with all these people only answer to call you a slut? That dosen't feel good at all,right? If the secert keeps bothering you, tell the girl in tears and beg for forgiveness.
well. if it was intentional, your a horrible person.
But if it was an accident explain that and try to joke about it. ';Next time we sleep together, ill Do all the work k?';
Lol. Jokes
First of all - He's not gonna tell her. Boys that age lack the balls to own up to something like that their gf.
Secondly - Do not tell her!! The only reason you would tell anyone about this would be to get it off your chest and that would be a very selfish thing to do since it would hurt them.
You need to lay low, be yourself and it WILL blow over - I promise.
Good Luck :-)
tell her right now, she will find out sooner or later
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tell her before she finds out from someone else! just explain everythingeye make up
I would tell her before she finds out some other way. It would be a lot better coming from you ...explaining that you guys were all drunk and it meant nothing. Especially if this guys gunna kiss you..her friend...what will he do if it's not her friend he's kissing next time???
P.S. You are not a slut like the *** said a sec ago. this stuff happens all the time.I did a REALLY bad thing.. need advice asap?
slut
Right...tell her yourself and hope you two can talk it out. Someone else tells her, you'll have problems. You probably won't get a chance to talk at all. Good luck
The only thing you can do is be honest with your friend.
Well whats done in the dark comes to light. So you should tell the girl and your friends before they find out about it. If they find out about it things are going to be worse because not only did you do what you did but you didn't even tell them after the fact. Which also makes it seem like there is more to the story just tell them the truth before they find out.
Even though our probs are different, I know what it feels like to carry a secret. It burns inside you like fire to get out. Then when you go to sleep, it keeps you up all night, and with all these people only answer to call you a slut? That dosen't feel good at all,right? If the secert keeps bothering you, tell the girl in tears and beg for forgiveness.
well. if it was intentional, your a horrible person.
But if it was an accident explain that and try to joke about it. ';Next time we sleep together, ill Do all the work k?';
Lol. Jokes
First of all - He's not gonna tell her. Boys that age lack the balls to own up to something like that their gf.
Secondly - Do not tell her!! The only reason you would tell anyone about this would be to get it off your chest and that would be a very selfish thing to do since it would hurt them.
You need to lay low, be yourself and it WILL blow over - I promise.
Good Luck :-)
tell her right now, she will find out sooner or later
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tell her before she finds out from someone else! just explain everything
I have allergies real bad and need advice?
I get bad allergies, my eyes get very red and strain everyday, I also cough up mucus every morning and get headaches around eyes and forehead. I've already seen a neaurologist and also had my eyes checked for vision. My doc had given me a nose spray and over the counter clariten, but they really don't help much. I just moved to an apartment recently that had a big time smoker in it before. (i found that out after I signed lease..), Can anyone tell me how they have overcome their allergies? what works?I have allergies real bad and need advice?
zyrtec works wayyyy better then clariten
zyrtec works wayyyy better then clariten
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