i love this boy, and im sure he loves me even if its in someway,
anyway, he's 2 years older then me and when im unable to see him ( weekends) my heart like its just..i get sad and i wanna get over it! i dont want it ruining me ya know,? my older brothers is best friends with his older brother which is how i know him, he's leaving for 1 week
as a class trip, i want like tips and advice, on to get his attention and whn we're away i dont wanna always think about him
thank you for the answers!!Can someone give me advice on a bad heartache?
Seriously, Been there DONE THAT. When you get over it, and start getting on with your life (life goals ETC) and you aren't ';searching'; for love, it will come to you when you VERY least expect it. Trust me on this one. he wasn't worth your time.Can someone give me advice on a bad heartache?
have you told him how you feel (but be carefull about freaking him out)? Just don't depend on someone else for your happiness, make sure you are happy just being you. While he is gone spend time getting to know yourself, pray to God, and keep yourself busy if you start getting depressed.
so you guys are not dating? if you guy arent ... then you should confess your feelings ... because life is short ... who knows you may miss out on something great just because you're afraid of what might happen ... when really you should be afraid of what might not happen ...
love lol is a part of our life. not that alone think concentrate on some other thing, take a diversion
GIRL IF U REALLY LIKE HIM N CANT STOP THINKIN ABOUT HIM WEN HES AWAY .....Y DONT U GUYS EMAIL OR HAV SOME WAY 2 HAV COMMUNICATION...
SORRY THATS THE BEST I CAN DO...
Saturday, January 23, 2010
Please i need ur advice good and bad here r my feelings bout my bf n tell me if im wrong?
My boyfriend and i been together for 3 yrs. We have had our up and DOWNs(relatioships) well i recently found out he was bisexual b/c i kept noticing gay porn on my comp. but you know u think Hmmm yea rite. so as a nosy gf i am snooped in sum emails and found actual gay dating sites wit his own profile in it!!! and talked to 1 that he hooked up wit once when he was on a 6th month leave...he of course denied it but i had seen it myself and wasnt goin for that..finally he told me via text but explained more than what i asked for and then sum...later we finally talked and cried together as he opened himself to me alot and since then i have forgiven him he has never told anyone(other than his partners) bout his secret like most and i feel like its sacre between us Just to give you a background...i live with him now and i still notice him looking at gay porn...would i be wrong to complain that he shouldnt be into it at all becuz i almost feel like he could be thinkin in his head bout a guy when im his girl...like it just makes me feel awkward so how should i go bout these things... like this makes me go crazy to think bout but i try and treat him like human beinPlease i need ur advice good and bad here r my feelings bout my bf n tell me if im wrong?
That sucks. Good luck.Please i need ur advice good and bad here r my feelings bout my bf n tell me if im wrong?
Oh dear, that must be really upsetting for you. I suppose the real question is, is he exclusive to you? Does he want to do these things with men while in a relationship with you, or will he be faithful? Three years is a long time, do you see a future with him? As an older person an interest in diff types of porn isn't necessarily a deal-breaker, but actions can be. I think it would be okay to say to him that you'd rather he looked at the gay porn when you weren't around anyway..
good luck
He is a human being. But don't expect him to give up that Habit any time soon.
You will either have to live with it, or tell him you can't live with it and leave.
That sucks. Good luck.Please i need ur advice good and bad here r my feelings bout my bf n tell me if im wrong?
Oh dear, that must be really upsetting for you. I suppose the real question is, is he exclusive to you? Does he want to do these things with men while in a relationship with you, or will he be faithful? Three years is a long time, do you see a future with him? As an older person an interest in diff types of porn isn't necessarily a deal-breaker, but actions can be. I think it would be okay to say to him that you'd rather he looked at the gay porn when you weren't around anyway..
good luck
He is a human being. But don't expect him to give up that Habit any time soon.
You will either have to live with it, or tell him you can't live with it and leave.
I need lots of advice in a bad way!! PLEASE HELP ME!!?
I've had this great friend for abt 4 yrs. he's a little older than me-i'm 29 %26amp; he's 43 he is recently divorced.
i'm single %26amp; he's been single now for abt 1 yr. i'm in love with this man %26amp; he has no idea. he is starting to date women %26amp; get back into the dating world and it's ripping me apart inside. should i assume that if he wanted to date me he would tell me-or ask me-or make a move? we talk everyday %26amp; he invites me over to watch movie %26amp; talk but we don't sit together %26amp; it seems very platonic. i'm so scared to say or do anything that might scare him away from me but he is all i can think about. i have felt like this for him the entire time i've known him. i look at him in his sweats-with 2 day stubble %26amp; know he is perfect %26amp; he doesn't have a clue. what should i do? i really need help because this is ripping me apart inside.
I need lots of advice in a bad way!! PLEASE HELP ME!!?
Good morning!
I'm not an expert on relationships but all I can tell you is be honest!!!!!!!!!
ask him to go to the movies with you, cook dinner for him and make it ';a romantic night'; he'll never forget!!!
so you go girl, go get your man
Caution!!!! If he's avoiding you and seems irritated by you, he is not worthy of your love!!!!!!!!!!!
NO MAN IS WORTHY OF YOUR TEARS SWEETY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
HOPE EVERYTHING WORKS OUT EXELENTLY FOR YOU! HEADS UP!!!I need lots of advice in a bad way!! PLEASE HELP ME!!?
ask him out on a romantic date. be explicit that you have feelings for him. men are not mind readers, well.. most men. if he is a mentalist magician he may be a mind reader. (although they generally guide you to a predetermined thought, and then make it appear that they have read your mind - but this is not the point).
surely make a move...u may not hav such chances in life always and u may not find a perfect one aas well
best of luck ;)
God, you have to tell him! He probably thinks you dont want him because he is so much older! Go for it!!! :o)
Have him over for dinner and then tell him how you feel
Good Luck!
Ask him to take a shower with you...enough said.
awww this is lovely :D i think u should be feminine and show him the lover part of you and not friend for 4 years part.i am sure if he dont like it he will tell you are give you signs that he dont.so try it next time he invites you over.no man invites a women over and have no intention thats crazy!!!!!!! hes just shy and taking it slow.i suggest u help him by speeding it up like i said before :-)
He might think you are too young and would not go out with him? Did you send him any signals?
Wen he invites you over bring some wine and turn it in to something little romantic. try to send some signals like eye contact if he starts kind of playing back just leave it to that. after several times repeating it just ask him out one a date , or invite hHomeover to your place and make some romantic dinner., you will know what to do after that :D
good luck
i'm single %26amp; he's been single now for abt 1 yr. i'm in love with this man %26amp; he has no idea. he is starting to date women %26amp; get back into the dating world and it's ripping me apart inside. should i assume that if he wanted to date me he would tell me-or ask me-or make a move? we talk everyday %26amp; he invites me over to watch movie %26amp; talk but we don't sit together %26amp; it seems very platonic. i'm so scared to say or do anything that might scare him away from me but he is all i can think about. i have felt like this for him the entire time i've known him. i look at him in his sweats-with 2 day stubble %26amp; know he is perfect %26amp; he doesn't have a clue. what should i do? i really need help because this is ripping me apart inside.
I need lots of advice in a bad way!! PLEASE HELP ME!!?
Good morning!
I'm not an expert on relationships but all I can tell you is be honest!!!!!!!!!
ask him to go to the movies with you, cook dinner for him and make it ';a romantic night'; he'll never forget!!!
so you go girl, go get your man
Caution!!!! If he's avoiding you and seems irritated by you, he is not worthy of your love!!!!!!!!!!!
NO MAN IS WORTHY OF YOUR TEARS SWEETY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
HOPE EVERYTHING WORKS OUT EXELENTLY FOR YOU! HEADS UP!!!I need lots of advice in a bad way!! PLEASE HELP ME!!?
ask him out on a romantic date. be explicit that you have feelings for him. men are not mind readers, well.. most men. if he is a mentalist magician he may be a mind reader. (although they generally guide you to a predetermined thought, and then make it appear that they have read your mind - but this is not the point).
surely make a move...u may not hav such chances in life always and u may not find a perfect one aas well
best of luck ;)
God, you have to tell him! He probably thinks you dont want him because he is so much older! Go for it!!! :o)
Have him over for dinner and then tell him how you feel
Good Luck!
Ask him to take a shower with you...enough said.
awww this is lovely :D i think u should be feminine and show him the lover part of you and not friend for 4 years part.i am sure if he dont like it he will tell you are give you signs that he dont.so try it next time he invites you over.no man invites a women over and have no intention thats crazy!!!!!!! hes just shy and taking it slow.i suggest u help him by speeding it up like i said before :-)
He might think you are too young and would not go out with him? Did you send him any signals?
Wen he invites you over bring some wine and turn it in to something little romantic. try to send some signals like eye contact if he starts kind of playing back just leave it to that. after several times repeating it just ask him out one a date , or invite hHomeover to your place and make some romantic dinner., you will know what to do after that :D
good luck
Bad back pain and 34 wks pregger. any advice?
I'm 34 weeks will be 35 on Thursday. And I've been having bad back pain at night. Laying down is the worse. Its on my right side and I've even tried laying on my side. Its been going on since Friday night. Also this is baby number 4. And I havnt experianced this b4. Baby 1 I had back labor. But this seems different, however that was 6 yrs ago.Bad back pain and 34 wks pregger. any advice?
See if you can get a pregnancy support belt. I have twin toddlers I lug around and I'm 34 weeks pregnant too and that has helped out a TON!
Good luck to you!Bad back pain and 34 wks pregger. any advice?
Maybe see a chiropractor?
See if you can get a pregnancy support belt. I have twin toddlers I lug around and I'm 34 weeks pregnant too and that has helped out a TON!
Good luck to you!Bad back pain and 34 wks pregger. any advice?
Maybe see a chiropractor?
I need some good advice for a bad situation.?
We are both on the deed, not married. He wants me to leave. Our child is 3 years old. He makes me so angry, I think since he wants to end this that he should leave. Anyways, until we figure out what to do and until I talk to my lawyer I would like my own bedroom. He refuses to let me have my own bedroom. He says it is his house and he can go where ever he wants in it. We have a futon and a bed. I want to move the futon in the smaller extra room and stay in there with my computer. He wont let me...can I call the cops? What would they say?I need some good advice for a bad situation.?
Your lawyer will help. I don't know what either of your rights are. It sure can get messy.I need some good advice for a bad situation.?
anytime kids are involved, you kinda loose the right to be selfish. it sounds to me like neither of you really want to leave that badly. if you did one of you wouldn't mind leaving the house. you should talk it out. i wouldn't call the cops (they won't help you anyway)... i'd call a lawyer if you can't work it out like adults.
compromise,talk it outmascara eye liner
Your lawyer will help. I don't know what either of your rights are. It sure can get messy.I need some good advice for a bad situation.?
anytime kids are involved, you kinda loose the right to be selfish. it sounds to me like neither of you really want to leave that badly. if you did one of you wouldn't mind leaving the house. you should talk it out. i wouldn't call the cops (they won't help you anyway)... i'd call a lawyer if you can't work it out like adults.
compromise,talk it out
Help im a bad flirt got any advice?
i cant help im hot im popular but i cant talk to guys i dont know without blabbering too much i flirt but they just tell me to forget it but i dont want too help very despersteHelp im a bad flirt got any advice?
sorry, it doesn't sound like ur very hot or popular. maybe guys don't like you because you're a *****.Help im a bad flirt got any advice?
F- is for flatter. The fastest way to a persons heart is by complimenting them. Find something you really like about that person, there hair, the way they act ect. and compliment them on it. make sure you find multiple things you like and compliment away. don't use stupid compliments like oh your eyes are pretty when there really not. make it sincere.
L- is for listen. People love when you listen to them, it shows that you are really interested in that person and really care what they are talking about. Besides the biggest aphrodisiac is listning.
I- is for interests. Find things you have in commen with that person, don't find to many it will just freak them out and make it like your stalking them just find a couple of things in commen. like what kinds of music you like, movies, ect.
R- is for responible. Don't lie, don't send mixed messages, be straight up. Guys are completly confused about girls so don't try and confuse them more than what they already lie. Don't choose inapropriate flirting partners such as your friends boyfriend/girlfriend. Don't make it where flirting will hurt anyone.
T- is for trusting yourself. Trust yourself, be confident, bold, and daring. Trust yourself that you will come out knowing that even if you didn't get the guy/girl that you wanted you can always be nice and friendly to that person.
S- is for smile. BODY LANGUAGE,BODY LANGUAGE,AND BODY LANGUAGE, can i stress it anymore? Smile, it will show the person that you are friendly and nice. If you smile, you might get one back =D.
ok first..lose the ';I cant help im hot and im popular'; maybe the reason you cant get a guy is because your so dang stuck up. Im not trying to be rude I just think that this is a common misconception for girls. what your probably 12 or 13? well anyways..as you get older you will understand guys dont care about stuck up girls. and most of the time when you say your hot you really not. im popular at my school too but i dont go blabbing it all on yahoo questions....thank you for the 2 points..goodbye...
oh and its desperate..USE SPELL CHECK PLEASE if your gunna be on here at age 13
Be aware of the things you say and how you present yourself around guys. I am pretty sure every girl goes through a stage like that, but your cockyness about your looks and popularity probably factors into things. Stop thinking so much of yourself. And stop leading guys on because you want attention.
Hey flirting is a secret weapon you girls have and it doesn't make the guys feel all to bad either so unless you getting stalkers and such from your flirting i wouldn't worry about it too much. Unless of course you have a boyfriend then stick to 1 word answers with the opposite sex.... J/K lol
OK, I don't believe you.
If you were hot, guys would be on you like lipstick is on your teeth.
OK, maybe that didn't come out right. Still, the point is, they would find a way to get around the problem. If you were popular, your friends would have helped you here.
I think you're just shy and want a clue into the ';confrontration'; between girls and boys. You're young. You will make mistakes. When you think you've learned it all, throw out your dating list, then start all over again. You will see everyone differently and have learned to ask the right questions.
First rule in dating:
Everybody wants something from their current relationship. Everybody has a nature, something they covet. How do they attempt to gain what they want? You have the same story. How are you letting the other person know what you want? When you do let them know, get ready to start bargaining for it.
I know this doesn't sound like love, and it isn't. Its dating. Dating follows the rules of the free marketplace. Sell dearly, buy cheap.
Then, when you do fall in love, you will understand what is at stake; the rest of your life.
call me!
I would say, just be yourself. Eventually, you'll find some guy to ';flirt'; with. Or, maybe some guys want to flirt with you since you're hot, but they're jsut too shy.
sorry, it doesn't sound like ur very hot or popular. maybe guys don't like you because you're a *****.Help im a bad flirt got any advice?
F- is for flatter. The fastest way to a persons heart is by complimenting them. Find something you really like about that person, there hair, the way they act ect. and compliment them on it. make sure you find multiple things you like and compliment away. don't use stupid compliments like oh your eyes are pretty when there really not. make it sincere.
L- is for listen. People love when you listen to them, it shows that you are really interested in that person and really care what they are talking about. Besides the biggest aphrodisiac is listning.
I- is for interests. Find things you have in commen with that person, don't find to many it will just freak them out and make it like your stalking them just find a couple of things in commen. like what kinds of music you like, movies, ect.
R- is for responible. Don't lie, don't send mixed messages, be straight up. Guys are completly confused about girls so don't try and confuse them more than what they already lie. Don't choose inapropriate flirting partners such as your friends boyfriend/girlfriend. Don't make it where flirting will hurt anyone.
T- is for trusting yourself. Trust yourself, be confident, bold, and daring. Trust yourself that you will come out knowing that even if you didn't get the guy/girl that you wanted you can always be nice and friendly to that person.
S- is for smile. BODY LANGUAGE,BODY LANGUAGE,AND BODY LANGUAGE, can i stress it anymore? Smile, it will show the person that you are friendly and nice. If you smile, you might get one back =D.
ok first..lose the ';I cant help im hot and im popular'; maybe the reason you cant get a guy is because your so dang stuck up. Im not trying to be rude I just think that this is a common misconception for girls. what your probably 12 or 13? well anyways..as you get older you will understand guys dont care about stuck up girls. and most of the time when you say your hot you really not. im popular at my school too but i dont go blabbing it all on yahoo questions....thank you for the 2 points..goodbye...
oh and its desperate..USE SPELL CHECK PLEASE if your gunna be on here at age 13
Be aware of the things you say and how you present yourself around guys. I am pretty sure every girl goes through a stage like that, but your cockyness about your looks and popularity probably factors into things. Stop thinking so much of yourself. And stop leading guys on because you want attention.
Hey flirting is a secret weapon you girls have and it doesn't make the guys feel all to bad either so unless you getting stalkers and such from your flirting i wouldn't worry about it too much. Unless of course you have a boyfriend then stick to 1 word answers with the opposite sex.... J/K lol
OK, I don't believe you.
If you were hot, guys would be on you like lipstick is on your teeth.
OK, maybe that didn't come out right. Still, the point is, they would find a way to get around the problem. If you were popular, your friends would have helped you here.
I think you're just shy and want a clue into the ';confrontration'; between girls and boys. You're young. You will make mistakes. When you think you've learned it all, throw out your dating list, then start all over again. You will see everyone differently and have learned to ask the right questions.
First rule in dating:
Everybody wants something from their current relationship. Everybody has a nature, something they covet. How do they attempt to gain what they want? You have the same story. How are you letting the other person know what you want? When you do let them know, get ready to start bargaining for it.
I know this doesn't sound like love, and it isn't. Its dating. Dating follows the rules of the free marketplace. Sell dearly, buy cheap.
Then, when you do fall in love, you will understand what is at stake; the rest of your life.
call me!
I would say, just be yourself. Eventually, you'll find some guy to ';flirt'; with. Or, maybe some guys want to flirt with you since you're hot, but they're jsut too shy.
I need some good advice for a bad situation.?
We are both on the deed, not married. He wants me to leave. Our child is 3 years old. He makes me so angry, I think since he wants to end this that he should leave. Anyways, until we figure out what to do and until I talk to my lawyer I would like my own bedroom. He refuses to let me have my own bedroom. He says it is his house and he can go where ever he wants in it. We have a futon and a bed. I want to move the futon in the smaller extra room and stay in there with my computer. He wont let me...can I call the cops? What would they say?I need some good advice for a bad situation.?
Your lawyer will help. I don't know what either of your rights are. It sure can get messy.I need some good advice for a bad situation.?
anytime kids are involved, you kinda loose the right to be selfish. it sounds to me like neither of you really want to leave that badly. if you did one of you wouldn't mind leaving the house. you should talk it out. i wouldn't call the cops (they won't help you anyway)... i'd call a lawyer if you can't work it out like adults.
compromise,talk it out
Your lawyer will help. I don't know what either of your rights are. It sure can get messy.I need some good advice for a bad situation.?
anytime kids are involved, you kinda loose the right to be selfish. it sounds to me like neither of you really want to leave that badly. if you did one of you wouldn't mind leaving the house. you should talk it out. i wouldn't call the cops (they won't help you anyway)... i'd call a lawyer if you can't work it out like adults.
compromise,talk it out
Help im a bad flirt got any advice?
i cant help im hot im popular but i cant talk to guys i dont know without blabbering too much i flirt but they just tell me to forget it but i dont want too help very despersteHelp im a bad flirt got any advice?
sorry, it doesn't sound like ur very hot or popular. maybe guys don't like you because you're a *****.Help im a bad flirt got any advice?
F- is for flatter. The fastest way to a persons heart is by complimenting them. Find something you really like about that person, there hair, the way they act ect. and compliment them on it. make sure you find multiple things you like and compliment away. don't use stupid compliments like oh your eyes are pretty when there really not. make it sincere.
L- is for listen. People love when you listen to them, it shows that you are really interested in that person and really care what they are talking about. Besides the biggest aphrodisiac is listning.
I- is for interests. Find things you have in commen with that person, don't find to many it will just freak them out and make it like your stalking them just find a couple of things in commen. like what kinds of music you like, movies, ect.
R- is for responible. Don't lie, don't send mixed messages, be straight up. Guys are completly confused about girls so don't try and confuse them more than what they already lie. Don't choose inapropriate flirting partners such as your friends boyfriend/girlfriend. Don't make it where flirting will hurt anyone.
T- is for trusting yourself. Trust yourself, be confident, bold, and daring. Trust yourself that you will come out knowing that even if you didn't get the guy/girl that you wanted you can always be nice and friendly to that person.
S- is for smile. BODY LANGUAGE,BODY LANGUAGE,AND BODY LANGUAGE, can i stress it anymore? Smile, it will show the person that you are friendly and nice. If you smile, you might get one back =D.
ok first..lose the ';I cant help im hot and im popular'; maybe the reason you cant get a guy is because your so dang stuck up. Im not trying to be rude I just think that this is a common misconception for girls. what your probably 12 or 13? well anyways..as you get older you will understand guys dont care about stuck up girls. and most of the time when you say your hot you really not. im popular at my school too but i dont go blabbing it all on yahoo questions....thank you for the 2 points..goodbye...
oh and its desperate..USE SPELL CHECK PLEASE if your gunna be on here at age 13
Be aware of the things you say and how you present yourself around guys. I am pretty sure every girl goes through a stage like that, but your cockyness about your looks and popularity probably factors into things. Stop thinking so much of yourself. And stop leading guys on because you want attention.
Hey flirting is a secret weapon you girls have and it doesn't make the guys feel all to bad either so unless you getting stalkers and such from your flirting i wouldn't worry about it too much. Unless of course you have a boyfriend then stick to 1 word answers with the opposite sex.... J/K lol
OK, I don't believe you.
If you were hot, guys would be on you like lipstick is on your teeth.
OK, maybe that didn't come out right. Still, the point is, they would find a way to get around the problem. If you were popular, your friends would have helped you here.
I think you're just shy and want a clue into the ';confrontration'; between girls and boys. You're young. You will make mistakes. When you think you've learned it all, throw out your dating list, then start all over again. You will see everyone differently and have learned to ask the right questions.
First rule in dating:
Everybody wants something from their current relationship. Everybody has a nature, something they covet. How do they attempt to gain what they want? You have the same story. How are you letting the other person know what you want? When you do let them know, get ready to start bargaining for it.
I know this doesn't sound like love, and it isn't. Its dating. Dating follows the rules of the free marketplace. Sell dearly, buy cheap.
Then, when you do fall in love, you will understand what is at stake; the rest of your life.
call me!
I would say, just be yourself. Eventually, you'll find some guy to ';flirt'; with. Or, maybe some guys want to flirt with you since you're hot, but they're jsut too shy.
sorry, it doesn't sound like ur very hot or popular. maybe guys don't like you because you're a *****.Help im a bad flirt got any advice?
F- is for flatter. The fastest way to a persons heart is by complimenting them. Find something you really like about that person, there hair, the way they act ect. and compliment them on it. make sure you find multiple things you like and compliment away. don't use stupid compliments like oh your eyes are pretty when there really not. make it sincere.
L- is for listen. People love when you listen to them, it shows that you are really interested in that person and really care what they are talking about. Besides the biggest aphrodisiac is listning.
I- is for interests. Find things you have in commen with that person, don't find to many it will just freak them out and make it like your stalking them just find a couple of things in commen. like what kinds of music you like, movies, ect.
R- is for responible. Don't lie, don't send mixed messages, be straight up. Guys are completly confused about girls so don't try and confuse them more than what they already lie. Don't choose inapropriate flirting partners such as your friends boyfriend/girlfriend. Don't make it where flirting will hurt anyone.
T- is for trusting yourself. Trust yourself, be confident, bold, and daring. Trust yourself that you will come out knowing that even if you didn't get the guy/girl that you wanted you can always be nice and friendly to that person.
S- is for smile. BODY LANGUAGE,BODY LANGUAGE,AND BODY LANGUAGE, can i stress it anymore? Smile, it will show the person that you are friendly and nice. If you smile, you might get one back =D.
ok first..lose the ';I cant help im hot and im popular'; maybe the reason you cant get a guy is because your so dang stuck up. Im not trying to be rude I just think that this is a common misconception for girls. what your probably 12 or 13? well anyways..as you get older you will understand guys dont care about stuck up girls. and most of the time when you say your hot you really not. im popular at my school too but i dont go blabbing it all on yahoo questions....thank you for the 2 points..goodbye...
oh and its desperate..USE SPELL CHECK PLEASE if your gunna be on here at age 13
Be aware of the things you say and how you present yourself around guys. I am pretty sure every girl goes through a stage like that, but your cockyness about your looks and popularity probably factors into things. Stop thinking so much of yourself. And stop leading guys on because you want attention.
Hey flirting is a secret weapon you girls have and it doesn't make the guys feel all to bad either so unless you getting stalkers and such from your flirting i wouldn't worry about it too much. Unless of course you have a boyfriend then stick to 1 word answers with the opposite sex.... J/K lol
OK, I don't believe you.
If you were hot, guys would be on you like lipstick is on your teeth.
OK, maybe that didn't come out right. Still, the point is, they would find a way to get around the problem. If you were popular, your friends would have helped you here.
I think you're just shy and want a clue into the ';confrontration'; between girls and boys. You're young. You will make mistakes. When you think you've learned it all, throw out your dating list, then start all over again. You will see everyone differently and have learned to ask the right questions.
First rule in dating:
Everybody wants something from their current relationship. Everybody has a nature, something they covet. How do they attempt to gain what they want? You have the same story. How are you letting the other person know what you want? When you do let them know, get ready to start bargaining for it.
I know this doesn't sound like love, and it isn't. Its dating. Dating follows the rules of the free marketplace. Sell dearly, buy cheap.
Then, when you do fall in love, you will understand what is at stake; the rest of your life.
call me!
I would say, just be yourself. Eventually, you'll find some guy to ';flirt'; with. Or, maybe some guys want to flirt with you since you're hot, but they're jsut too shy.
Ohkay i need someones advice and like bad =[?
ohkay so im uh sophmore
and i lost mi virginty mi freshmen year
and i soo regretted
and this year had just been hell with everything
mi mom thinks im having sex and i keep denying it
its not something i can just come out and say
so i have an appointment at the doctors for uh physical see if i have anything if ive had sex and wat not
i was thinkin about comin out and just telling mii mom but im so scared but the results are gonna say im not uh virgin anyway
wah do yu think wood be uh good approah to tell mi mom im not uh virginOhkay i need someones advice and like bad =[?
try talking to her but its against the law and hippa for the Doctor to release any information about you without your say so or if it is life threateningOhkay i need someones advice and like bad =[?
there is no possible way of really telling if you are a virgin or not, your hymen may be broken, but that could be from anything from playing sports to inserting a tampon,that's the only way to tell and its not very effective. but i would come out and just tell your mom, i think she has the right to know but its up to you. hope this helps hun :)
just explain to her, she is your mother at the end of the day, and she's most likely been through the same thing, it will just take time for her to get over it and accept it
Sit down and talk to her.
talk to her ,
and i lost mi virginty mi freshmen year
and i soo regretted
and this year had just been hell with everything
mi mom thinks im having sex and i keep denying it
its not something i can just come out and say
so i have an appointment at the doctors for uh physical see if i have anything if ive had sex and wat not
i was thinkin about comin out and just telling mii mom but im so scared but the results are gonna say im not uh virgin anyway
wah do yu think wood be uh good approah to tell mi mom im not uh virginOhkay i need someones advice and like bad =[?
try talking to her but its against the law and hippa for the Doctor to release any information about you without your say so or if it is life threateningOhkay i need someones advice and like bad =[?
there is no possible way of really telling if you are a virgin or not, your hymen may be broken, but that could be from anything from playing sports to inserting a tampon,that's the only way to tell and its not very effective. but i would come out and just tell your mom, i think she has the right to know but its up to you. hope this helps hun :)
just explain to her, she is your mother at the end of the day, and she's most likely been through the same thing, it will just take time for her to get over it and accept it
Sit down and talk to her.
talk to her ,
Need to buy few office computers, Had bad experience with assembled P- IV's Advice Please?
Need o buy a few office PC's. Please advice which brand to go for, they should be cheap, provide better service/warranty and have good performance. Also which would be good a P III, P IV, AMD or any other. Please advice, had a very bad experience with some assembled P IV's. So need to replace them, also can we get them exchanged soemwhere. We stay in Kolkata, India.Need to buy few office computers, Had bad experience with assembled P- IV's Advice Please?
Shopping for office PCs is not like buying a home PC.
There are more things to consider %26amp; all involve TCO (Total Cost of Ownership).
In business the initial cost is only part of it. You need to consider how long you want it to last first.
If you feel you will be keeping the units for a few years get them from a reliable company like HP or Dell %26amp; make sure they have a 2 or 3 year replacement warranty.
Onsite warranties are beneficial if one breaks %26amp; an employee cannot perform their job without it. This would cause your business to suffer %26amp; lose money.
A same day or next day service warranty will minimize that.
Consider such factors first %26amp; then call a reliable brand for options.
Both AMD %26amp; Intel make excellent processors for business.
Software included with te PCs will cost less than buying it separately.
Hope this helps you.
regards,
Philip TNeed to buy few office computers, Had bad experience with assembled P- IV's Advice Please?
AMD are great but if you do decide to go with intel, then get celeron series if it is just for office work. i would start with dell, and compare them to hp and apple. that is abou as close as i can get you
Shopping for office PCs is not like buying a home PC.
There are more things to consider %26amp; all involve TCO (Total Cost of Ownership).
In business the initial cost is only part of it. You need to consider how long you want it to last first.
If you feel you will be keeping the units for a few years get them from a reliable company like HP or Dell %26amp; make sure they have a 2 or 3 year replacement warranty.
Onsite warranties are beneficial if one breaks %26amp; an employee cannot perform their job without it. This would cause your business to suffer %26amp; lose money.
A same day or next day service warranty will minimize that.
Consider such factors first %26amp; then call a reliable brand for options.
Both AMD %26amp; Intel make excellent processors for business.
Software included with te PCs will cost less than buying it separately.
Hope this helps you.
regards,
Philip TNeed to buy few office computers, Had bad experience with assembled P- IV's Advice Please?
AMD are great but if you do decide to go with intel, then get celeron series if it is just for office work. i would start with dell, and compare them to hp and apple. that is abou as close as i can get you
I need advice on a boy. Really bad. Help?
I saw this boy. He is a friend of a friend, and he didnt really talk at all. He just stood there while I talked to my friend. He was so interesting looking that I was immediately intrigued. However, my friends think that he is wierd looking. How come I'm the only one that thinks he is so interestingly beautiful? And how should I approach him? Because I can't get his unusual, strikingly perfect face out of my head.I need advice on a boy. Really bad. Help?
if you think he's amazing looking then thats all that matters! in my opinion, the less competition the better! I know we (as girls) like to have you potential boyfriends admired because it shows that if you do get him, others will be envious. I know its ridiculous that some of us seek that kind of approval, but there you have it!
He seems like a really interesting person and someone you would spend a long time with.
Try to catch his attention by being completely comfortable with yourself. He seems like the type of guy who hasn't been affected by a whole bunch of girls constantly swarming him (meaning that he's probably really down to earth) so just show him what a cool person you are. Be honest with him and totally upfront
Message if you need more advice or if im totally wrong hahaha :)I need advice on a boy. Really bad. Help?
Liking someone's face is always a good start =)
Maybe you should try talking to him?
People who judge based purely on looks aren't the type you should be keeping around.
But maybe don't start with ';I find you so unusually, interestingly, strikingly perfect';...you might scare him!
who cares what other ppl think get to know him and make a move all of my friends think my bf is ewwwww but and they think he is ugly but i think is is amazingly beautiful so forget them
its becuase your friends are shallow B*****
and your the nice one lol
just go up to him and talk to him he sounds like he is shy and has low self esteem and confidence so i suggest you going up to him first lolmascara eye liner
if you think he's amazing looking then thats all that matters! in my opinion, the less competition the better! I know we (as girls) like to have you potential boyfriends admired because it shows that if you do get him, others will be envious. I know its ridiculous that some of us seek that kind of approval, but there you have it!
He seems like a really interesting person and someone you would spend a long time with.
Try to catch his attention by being completely comfortable with yourself. He seems like the type of guy who hasn't been affected by a whole bunch of girls constantly swarming him (meaning that he's probably really down to earth) so just show him what a cool person you are. Be honest with him and totally upfront
Message if you need more advice or if im totally wrong hahaha :)I need advice on a boy. Really bad. Help?
Liking someone's face is always a good start =)
Maybe you should try talking to him?
People who judge based purely on looks aren't the type you should be keeping around.
But maybe don't start with ';I find you so unusually, interestingly, strikingly perfect';...you might scare him!
who cares what other ppl think get to know him and make a move all of my friends think my bf is ewwwww but and they think he is ugly but i think is is amazingly beautiful so forget them
its becuase your friends are shallow B*****
and your the nice one lol
just go up to him and talk to him he sounds like he is shy and has low self esteem and confidence so i suggest you going up to him first lol
I need anyones advice. I need a loan for bills, I have bad credit and no one will give me a loan I need help.?
do you have a 401K at work...you can borrow money from there....your work place takes money out of your check to pay back your loan from your 401k......I need anyones advice. I need a loan for bills, I have bad credit and no one will give me a loan I need help.?
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http://www.prosper.com/join/lzc5whI need anyones advice. I need a loan for bills, I have bad credit and no one will give me a loan I need help.?
Getting a loan will just result in another bill next month! Do you have anything you can pawn or sell? I don't recommend payday or title loans either because they'll just suck you in and swallow you down. Look at the long picture and where you want to be in 6 months...without a computer because you pawned it or without a house because you couldn't pay your rent?
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first check out your bills because going for a loan when you have no money will end up only creating another bill you cant pay. condense down, which is easier said then done. if you are just having a rough week I would say do the on line 500 dollar loan, it goes into your bank overnight. but honestly, I would say you need to do something because your digging yourself up out of a temporary hole that you will be in next month too.
Just pay your bills and your credit will improve, if you can't wait then pose as someone else with good credit and get the loan! That's what The Donald does every time!
Go to a loan consolidation firm they are in the yellow pages, if its only about credit cards they can stop the phone calls and set up a payment plan through them. You won't need a loan then
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http://www.prosper.com/join/lzc5whI need anyones advice. I need a loan for bills, I have bad credit and no one will give me a loan I need help.?
Getting a loan will just result in another bill next month! Do you have anything you can pawn or sell? I don't recommend payday or title loans either because they'll just suck you in and swallow you down. Look at the long picture and where you want to be in 6 months...without a computer because you pawned it or without a house because you couldn't pay your rent?
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One hint - if the ';loan company'; just has a yahoo email address rather than a company domain name, you can be sure they're scammers.
first check out your bills because going for a loan when you have no money will end up only creating another bill you cant pay. condense down, which is easier said then done. if you are just having a rough week I would say do the on line 500 dollar loan, it goes into your bank overnight. but honestly, I would say you need to do something because your digging yourself up out of a temporary hole that you will be in next month too.
Just pay your bills and your credit will improve, if you can't wait then pose as someone else with good credit and get the loan! That's what The Donald does every time!
Go to a loan consolidation firm they are in the yellow pages, if its only about credit cards they can stop the phone calls and set up a payment plan through them. You won't need a loan then
There are plenty of places that offer loans for people with bad credit with no-hassle applications and easy requirements.
Some of these lenders even offer 1 minute approvals, and have both secured and unsecured loans, depending on your need and situation. Check the page listed below, it has information and bad credit lenders listed off and on.
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You may find want you want. You can easily be labelled as a bad credit risk by financial companies. This can make it more difficult to--%26gt;arrange loans or other finance, and usually means you will pay more interest on any loan you take out.
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I really need some advice.. really really bad?
ok this will prolly be a lil long.. i have a bf.. hes 17 im 15 we love each other VERY much.. but were ALWAYS fighting.. and i can't stand it.!!! ok and theres this other guy.. we always fave a lil harmless flirting goin on.. and i sorta lik him.. and i KNOW he likes me.. i wanna break up with my bf cuz we always fight alot.. and i kinda want this other guy.. (whose also 15) but i love my bf... and i don't wanna lose him.. if we did break up it wouldn't b bcuz of this other guy.. it'd be bcuz i can't stand fighting.. what do i do.?I really need some advice.. really really bad?
1. infant 2. toddler 3. child 4. teenager 5. adult 6. senior, these my friend, are the stages of a humans life.
Sooo, you have been a teenager for 3 yrs, what is it you think you have to compare love too?
It is foolish to say you love someone, but fight full time! When a couple are in ';love'; they may fight occasionally, but because they do love each other they come to agreements, go half way or give in.
How do you tell your enemies from your friends?, could it be that you don't fight with your friends regularly? Could that be for the simple reason that you ';like'; them? Are ';like and love'; related to each other?
Just the fact you can't figure this out, tell all who read it, that you haven't got a clue as to what love is.
It's not nuclear science we're speaking of here, use your common sense, leave who you can't get along with and go for someone who is better suited to your personality type.
I really need some advice.. really really bad?
If you all fight all the time, then it would be wise to break it off. At 15 you are supposed to be dating around and enjoying your youth, not fighting all the time like grown folks.
Good luck!
Do whatever you want. Lifes short!
break up with him if you argue he's not your soul mate and thats what you look for in life
follow your heart... if you are having doubts about your bf then follow thru with them... you can love someone and not like them or be able to be with them... that is the hard part... i loved someone so much my heart hurt when i thought about him... but i couldn't be around him for more than 30 minutes or we would fight horribly... i had to break up with him... and i found a great guy after him and dated him for a long time... my sister on the other hand has been with a guy for 18 years and they fight all the time... it has gotten worse over the years and now they call each other horrible names and throw things at each other...
please, follow your heart and enjoy being in a relationship instead of worrying that you are always going to make him mad!!
1. infant 2. toddler 3. child 4. teenager 5. adult 6. senior, these my friend, are the stages of a humans life.
Sooo, you have been a teenager for 3 yrs, what is it you think you have to compare love too?
It is foolish to say you love someone, but fight full time! When a couple are in ';love'; they may fight occasionally, but because they do love each other they come to agreements, go half way or give in.
How do you tell your enemies from your friends?, could it be that you don't fight with your friends regularly? Could that be for the simple reason that you ';like'; them? Are ';like and love'; related to each other?
Just the fact you can't figure this out, tell all who read it, that you haven't got a clue as to what love is.
It's not nuclear science we're speaking of here, use your common sense, leave who you can't get along with and go for someone who is better suited to your personality type.
I really need some advice.. really really bad?
If you all fight all the time, then it would be wise to break it off. At 15 you are supposed to be dating around and enjoying your youth, not fighting all the time like grown folks.
Good luck!
Do whatever you want. Lifes short!
break up with him if you argue he's not your soul mate and thats what you look for in life
follow your heart... if you are having doubts about your bf then follow thru with them... you can love someone and not like them or be able to be with them... that is the hard part... i loved someone so much my heart hurt when i thought about him... but i couldn't be around him for more than 30 minutes or we would fight horribly... i had to break up with him... and i found a great guy after him and dated him for a long time... my sister on the other hand has been with a guy for 18 years and they fight all the time... it has gotten worse over the years and now they call each other horrible names and throw things at each other...
please, follow your heart and enjoy being in a relationship instead of worrying that you are always going to make him mad!!
Moving out for first time with serious boyfriend need advice about funds living in bad environment with rent
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I have bad acne around my chin and sideburns not so much anywhere else does anyone have any advice??
I wash my face twice a day using clearasil ultra daily face wash and then i apply a topical gel with erythromycin and benzoyl peroxide. I have tried proactiv and oxy neither have helpedI have bad acne around my chin and sideburns not so much anywhere else does anyone have any advice??
maybe you are allergic to your shave gel?I have bad acne around my chin and sideburns not so much anywhere else does anyone have any advice??
I have the perfect solution Lava soap. don't laugh you can buy it at walmart it is cheap and it clears acne that other medicene has failed too. I had a dermatologist reccomend this to me when i was a teenager and have been using it for years
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maybe you are allergic to your shave gel?I have bad acne around my chin and sideburns not so much anywhere else does anyone have any advice??
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My daughter's 102.5 fever for the past 2 days broke. Bad news is she has not urinated in 10 hours. Any advice?
Make sure she is drinking plenty of fluids, water, gatorades, pedialyte etc tonight and call the dr in the morning. ice pops will help get fluid into her too since at that age you can not make them drink as you want them to.
Remember too, when you are sick, even if you are drinking plenty, you probably don't urinate as much as normal. If she is still is in diapers, you will have a better idea in the morning when she gets up by how wet her diaper is. You can judge then on how quick she needs to be seen by a dr again (assuming she was seen with fever).
I have 3 boys, the urinate very little during a fever and the first day after it breaks. I am the same way. keep a close eye on her for any other signs of dehydration or symptoms that there is something else wrong. If need be get her to the ER or a patient first place quickly.My daughter's 102.5 fever for the past 2 days broke. Bad news is she has not urinated in 10 hours. Any advice?
My son was pretty sick (fever, etc) this time last year and my dr told me that I needed to call if he hadn't urinated in 6 hours - I wound up having to bring him into the ER and he was given an IV for several hours until he urinated. He was fine after that and recovered from his illness pretty quickly, but when they are little, they sometimes can't ';catch up'; with their hydration without help. Either way, call your doctor asap.My daughter's 102.5 fever for the past 2 days broke. Bad news is she has not urinated in 10 hours. Any advice?
You need to take her to a doctor and have her checked if still nothing at 24hours, there are products at the pharmacy for dehydration (normally for diahorrea) get her something like that and it will help the fever reduce also
You need to take her to the doctor!
you got to get some kind of fluids in her.... water---- ice chips.
she needs some to drink..... she is dehydrate.....12 hours you need to see a doctor
uhh hello.. its something called dehydration..bring her to the doctor she needs a i.v
Just pray for her an it will b fien!
Have you kept her hydrated? I would take her to the dr's. That doesn't sound normal. If she didn't poo in 10 hours, then that wouldn't be nothing to be concern about, but urinating. I don't know.
Remember too, when you are sick, even if you are drinking plenty, you probably don't urinate as much as normal. If she is still is in diapers, you will have a better idea in the morning when she gets up by how wet her diaper is. You can judge then on how quick she needs to be seen by a dr again (assuming she was seen with fever).
I have 3 boys, the urinate very little during a fever and the first day after it breaks. I am the same way. keep a close eye on her for any other signs of dehydration or symptoms that there is something else wrong. If need be get her to the ER or a patient first place quickly.My daughter's 102.5 fever for the past 2 days broke. Bad news is she has not urinated in 10 hours. Any advice?
My son was pretty sick (fever, etc) this time last year and my dr told me that I needed to call if he hadn't urinated in 6 hours - I wound up having to bring him into the ER and he was given an IV for several hours until he urinated. He was fine after that and recovered from his illness pretty quickly, but when they are little, they sometimes can't ';catch up'; with their hydration without help. Either way, call your doctor asap.My daughter's 102.5 fever for the past 2 days broke. Bad news is she has not urinated in 10 hours. Any advice?
You need to take her to a doctor and have her checked if still nothing at 24hours, there are products at the pharmacy for dehydration (normally for diahorrea) get her something like that and it will help the fever reduce also
You need to take her to the doctor!
you got to get some kind of fluids in her.... water---- ice chips.
she needs some to drink..... she is dehydrate.....12 hours you need to see a doctor
uhh hello.. its something called dehydration..bring her to the doctor she needs a i.v
Just pray for her an it will b fien!
Have you kept her hydrated? I would take her to the dr's. That doesn't sound normal. If she didn't poo in 10 hours, then that wouldn't be nothing to be concern about, but urinating. I don't know.
Please Help me i feel really bad but i need advice please can you help me?
Well this guy likes me A LOT and i was really nice about it i mean its sweet. He got my number and started texting me ALL OF THE TIME!! it started to annoy me. I don't like him at all. I got to annoyed that i said sorry cant talk i have a life to live and please can you stop texting me everyday and all the time!! and he responded O ok sorry gosh that hurt. and i haven't herd from him in 4 days which im ok with nut i just feel really bad. And before i said that i tried saying stuff like i like someone else and i described my perfect guy and he was like that me even though my perfect guy and this guy are completely different. should i just keep ignoring him or ugh what should do! Please hep me!!Please Help me i feel really bad but i need advice please can you help me?
That's something you need to let go. You could've been nicer about it but you were mad and its okay. People move on. He needs to learn that he's coming off as a stalker.mascara eye liner
That's something you need to let go. You could've been nicer about it but you were mad and its okay. People move on. He needs to learn that he's coming off as a stalker.
I just came out of a bad relationship, I need advice on how to start over...?
I was cheated on for a long time and recently found out and ended the relationship. He controlled my friends and I was only allowed to be with him and his friends. Im an intelligent, attractive, young (early 20's) professional, honest woman but i seem to be having the hardest time meeting guys. Im kind of shy which makes it even harder and because he didnt allow it, I really dont have any friends of my own to go out with to meet other people. Its causing me to become very depressed and I just dont know how to 'start over'. Ive been so upset since the breakup and havent eaten or slept in days. I dont want to be this way, i want so badly to be happy. I just work and go home everyday and feel like Im never going to get back out there. How do i rebuild my confidence, get over this depression, and get out there again? especially because Im so shy.I just came out of a bad relationship, I need advice on how to start over...?
as your confidence builds up, and your self worth returns, u will get to feeling better. but breakup's hurt, and they do take time to get over. u could begin by finding a self help therapy group, where u will find new friends, who have been through what u are now going through, they will be your support system. u were living with a controller who robbed u of your self worth, and confidence, but it will return to u. just see yourself as the confident girl u are, don't base how u feel about yourself on what happened. your not broken only your past relationship was broken. u were smart enough to kick the cheater to the curb, so your well on your way to feeling better and being able to move on.I just came out of a bad relationship, I need advice on how to start over...?
I too was in your shoes just less than a year ago after being in a physically and verbally abusive relationship. He controlled so much of my life that I was loss...literally! It seems that I had forgotten in some senses who I really was! Let me tell you though that I have come SO FAR in 11 months!! The thing that really helped me first and foremost was getting in touch with old friends...even if they don't live near by....just start talking to your old friends again. This helps ground you again and realize who you were when you were happy!! If you're able to meet up with old girlfriends for lunch or something...then do it! Do some soul searching and figure out what things in life really do make you happy...think about things you want to change! I was pretty much bound to the house....and my self esteem was shot! So I joined a gym...I started going to aerobic classes and working out wtih and meeting other women....and made friends. This really raised my confidence!! As far as meeting people just get yourself into a routine...that makes you feel good about yourself! Give it time for meeting the man of your dreams...just focus on friends right now and finding happiness and self confidence within yourself! Then and only then will someone else be able to see your inner beauty!! Hang in there!! I promise it gets better! You're about 10 years younger than me....and I was in that situation for 12 years...so if I can do it, I know you can!!
i say instead of jumping into the next relationship, work on you first. get counseling so that you can emotionally deal with your past. then i say sign up for self defense classes or martial arts so you can physically defend yourself. start one day at a time and you will get there. protect your assets, protect your finances. protect what is yours. get advice from an attorney. in today's time, you need to do what you can to protect yourself and what you worked hard to get. there are too many crazy people in the world that are looking for someone sweet and innocent to take advantage of. look out for you before you go looking for another relationship. work on you and your issues before you go hooking up with another man. there is nothing wrong in doing that and it is not selfish.
you dont have any friends to go out with at all? How about friends from work? Start going out to happy hours with people from work....enjoy these years, youre young and there are plenty of guys out there who are eager to get to know you, you just have to make yourself available, good luck
I went though the same thing...I joined one of those free dating sites and saw that there are plenty of fish out there....read the forums and you will find your not alone out there....get out and go for a coffee with someone who will listen...good idea not to jump into a relationship just yet. You will find you start to do things your spouse would let you do and it will feel great!! The internet has so much information from others on how to cope with this...things really do get better over time...
Well first of all dont worry about getting back out there yet worry about getting over your depression first. You have to get your confidence back up. Try going out to eat by yourself or have a drink by yourself. Maybe start making friends at work and ask one of them to go out after work for drinks or food. You can do it! Maybe treat yourself to some new hot clothes and then go out and strut your stuff. As soon as you get a guys attention your feelings will change.
Just think of yourself as a perfect person, and anyone in the world would be lucky to have you... got to think outside the box... build up confidiance!
Life is what you make it ..you have to decide how you want to live it !! wake up in the morning and tell yourself this is going to be a wonderful day ..and I am sure it will be better..just keep positive and tell yourself he was not right for you and that the best one is comming your way..positive attitude makes the difference you have control over that ..hope you can wake up with a smile
Allow yourself time to grieve and heal. Don't rush into dating right away or you'll get into an awful rebound relationship. Meanwhile, get a new hairdo, buy some new clothes, spend quality time with your girlfriends.
Take a class to keep your mind busy. You might meet a new friend there, and they might have some friends you can meet thru them. When you meet new people, just smile and say hello. It doesn't matter how shy you are as long as you can be friendly. Don't be afraid.
go to work, eat, sleep, do what you have to do, watch tv, clean the yard up, shop, buy only what you need, visit family and friends...
DO NOT JUMP INTO ANY RELATIONSHIP, UNTIL YOU HAVE THE GUY FOLLOWED TO SEE IF HE'S THE FAITHFUL TYPE! IF THIS MEANS YOU HAVE TO HAVE SOMEONE SPY ON HIM TO SEE IF HE'S TALKING TO ANOTHER WOMAN ONLINE BESIDES YOU, DO SO! MAKE UP A NEW ID ONLINE AND TRAP THE SUCKER, THIS WAY, YOU WILL FIND OUT IF THE DUDE IS A CHEAT OR NOT! =)
that's my answer, and I'm stickin' to it, lol! you deserve 100 percent, don't settle for less, ever... even if you have to dump 100 guys before you find the right one! good luck! =)
as your confidence builds up, and your self worth returns, u will get to feeling better. but breakup's hurt, and they do take time to get over. u could begin by finding a self help therapy group, where u will find new friends, who have been through what u are now going through, they will be your support system. u were living with a controller who robbed u of your self worth, and confidence, but it will return to u. just see yourself as the confident girl u are, don't base how u feel about yourself on what happened. your not broken only your past relationship was broken. u were smart enough to kick the cheater to the curb, so your well on your way to feeling better and being able to move on.I just came out of a bad relationship, I need advice on how to start over...?
I too was in your shoes just less than a year ago after being in a physically and verbally abusive relationship. He controlled so much of my life that I was loss...literally! It seems that I had forgotten in some senses who I really was! Let me tell you though that I have come SO FAR in 11 months!! The thing that really helped me first and foremost was getting in touch with old friends...even if they don't live near by....just start talking to your old friends again. This helps ground you again and realize who you were when you were happy!! If you're able to meet up with old girlfriends for lunch or something...then do it! Do some soul searching and figure out what things in life really do make you happy...think about things you want to change! I was pretty much bound to the house....and my self esteem was shot! So I joined a gym...I started going to aerobic classes and working out wtih and meeting other women....and made friends. This really raised my confidence!! As far as meeting people just get yourself into a routine...that makes you feel good about yourself! Give it time for meeting the man of your dreams...just focus on friends right now and finding happiness and self confidence within yourself! Then and only then will someone else be able to see your inner beauty!! Hang in there!! I promise it gets better! You're about 10 years younger than me....and I was in that situation for 12 years...so if I can do it, I know you can!!
i say instead of jumping into the next relationship, work on you first. get counseling so that you can emotionally deal with your past. then i say sign up for self defense classes or martial arts so you can physically defend yourself. start one day at a time and you will get there. protect your assets, protect your finances. protect what is yours. get advice from an attorney. in today's time, you need to do what you can to protect yourself and what you worked hard to get. there are too many crazy people in the world that are looking for someone sweet and innocent to take advantage of. look out for you before you go looking for another relationship. work on you and your issues before you go hooking up with another man. there is nothing wrong in doing that and it is not selfish.
you dont have any friends to go out with at all? How about friends from work? Start going out to happy hours with people from work....enjoy these years, youre young and there are plenty of guys out there who are eager to get to know you, you just have to make yourself available, good luck
I went though the same thing...I joined one of those free dating sites and saw that there are plenty of fish out there....read the forums and you will find your not alone out there....get out and go for a coffee with someone who will listen...good idea not to jump into a relationship just yet. You will find you start to do things your spouse would let you do and it will feel great!! The internet has so much information from others on how to cope with this...things really do get better over time...
Well first of all dont worry about getting back out there yet worry about getting over your depression first. You have to get your confidence back up. Try going out to eat by yourself or have a drink by yourself. Maybe start making friends at work and ask one of them to go out after work for drinks or food. You can do it! Maybe treat yourself to some new hot clothes and then go out and strut your stuff. As soon as you get a guys attention your feelings will change.
Just think of yourself as a perfect person, and anyone in the world would be lucky to have you... got to think outside the box... build up confidiance!
Life is what you make it ..you have to decide how you want to live it !! wake up in the morning and tell yourself this is going to be a wonderful day ..and I am sure it will be better..just keep positive and tell yourself he was not right for you and that the best one is comming your way..positive attitude makes the difference you have control over that ..hope you can wake up with a smile
Allow yourself time to grieve and heal. Don't rush into dating right away or you'll get into an awful rebound relationship. Meanwhile, get a new hairdo, buy some new clothes, spend quality time with your girlfriends.
Take a class to keep your mind busy. You might meet a new friend there, and they might have some friends you can meet thru them. When you meet new people, just smile and say hello. It doesn't matter how shy you are as long as you can be friendly. Don't be afraid.
go to work, eat, sleep, do what you have to do, watch tv, clean the yard up, shop, buy only what you need, visit family and friends...
DO NOT JUMP INTO ANY RELATIONSHIP, UNTIL YOU HAVE THE GUY FOLLOWED TO SEE IF HE'S THE FAITHFUL TYPE! IF THIS MEANS YOU HAVE TO HAVE SOMEONE SPY ON HIM TO SEE IF HE'S TALKING TO ANOTHER WOMAN ONLINE BESIDES YOU, DO SO! MAKE UP A NEW ID ONLINE AND TRAP THE SUCKER, THIS WAY, YOU WILL FIND OUT IF THE DUDE IS A CHEAT OR NOT! =)
that's my answer, and I'm stickin' to it, lol! you deserve 100 percent, don't settle for less, ever... even if you have to dump 100 guys before you find the right one! good luck! =)
I'm battling with a very bad marijuana addiction....any advice?
So heres the story: I started smoking marijuana maybe a year ago, and over the summer it was maybe a 3 times a day thing and then I stopped for two months. I moved back home with my mom, and she doesn't tolerate me smoking. So, I stopped for a month and then I started smoking secretly in the backyard once every blue moon and now I'm smoking daily again. I'm battling with weed because I'm still not convinced that it is actually bad for you, but I know I need to at least cut down on my usage since it's affecting my daily life again. I'm coming down to this road where it's either keep smoking and move back out into my own apartment (for privacy) or stay in school and go cold turkey.I'm battling with a very bad marijuana addiction....any advice?
Since your question deals with addiction, you should check out this site, it has lots of helpful info that might help with your question:
http://www.recoveryforums.org
This site has a lot of great resources for people dealing with addiction or recovery, and those who know people who are dealing with it. It is worth a look in my opinion.
I'm battling with a very bad marijuana addiction....any advice?
you can try praying! God can help you through any addiction.
its not bad for you at all! ive been smoking since i was 12 and im perfectlly fine! keep on blazin girl
my son is addicted to weed as are some more people I know.I don't know what they put in that stuff now days but it's not safe anymore.It causes diabetes and other illnesses it's just under reported. i know you'll have to go threw your life history and heal any issues that have caused this.Addictions come from having unmet needs,usually in childhood,so guess what?you have some work to do,it's called soul work.Begin reading and researching about underlying causes of addiction,and once you make the connection you'll begin to become whole and won't need any marijuana to fill the void in your soul anymore.
Physically Marijuana does have an effect on you primarily with your brain chemistry.
Long term usage can effect your long term and short term memory is one problem but smoking weed also may damage your lungs. The exact evidence of this i think is still in debate though.
The biggest problem is addictions that cause you to ruin other parts of your life are things you do not need and if you are finding it hard to just stop and are spnding all yoru cash on it then it is time to not only quit ... but be brutally honest about why you are addicted because generally speaking marijuana addition is a psychological addiction, you cannot become dependant on any chemicals in pot.
The key to quitting is to find out why you feel you need to keep smoking. It can be as simple as bordom for some to trying to escape some harsh realities for others but there are triggers that make you want the chemical 'rewards' of marijuana.
If you are not convinced that pot is doing you harm just total up how much money you spend on it over a few years and how much time you might waste that could be spent doing other enjoyable and creative things, the harm often comes with what it sucks out of your life more than physical damage to yourself.
In any case find the source, the real reason you feel you keep smoking which often goes deeper than 'i love marijuana'.
Good luck!
ummm i dont really know the specific side effects physically, but being addicted is not good... it will be all you think about and what you spend all your money on. if you get caught it could ruin your future... for what?? a ';good time';. pray and i hope this helps. dont keep doing it bc you dont want it to be your life and then ruin it. and all drugs can hurt you by the way and just bc it dosent affect one person dosent mean it wont effect you. i know alot of people that have regretted it and their lives have been ruined (sorry to be so pessamistic!!) good luck!!
Since your question deals with addiction, you should check out this site, it has lots of helpful info that might help with your question:
http://www.recoveryforums.org
This site has a lot of great resources for people dealing with addiction or recovery, and those who know people who are dealing with it. It is worth a look in my opinion.
I'm battling with a very bad marijuana addiction....any advice?
you can try praying! God can help you through any addiction.
its not bad for you at all! ive been smoking since i was 12 and im perfectlly fine! keep on blazin girl
my son is addicted to weed as are some more people I know.I don't know what they put in that stuff now days but it's not safe anymore.It causes diabetes and other illnesses it's just under reported. i know you'll have to go threw your life history and heal any issues that have caused this.Addictions come from having unmet needs,usually in childhood,so guess what?you have some work to do,it's called soul work.Begin reading and researching about underlying causes of addiction,and once you make the connection you'll begin to become whole and won't need any marijuana to fill the void in your soul anymore.
Physically Marijuana does have an effect on you primarily with your brain chemistry.
Long term usage can effect your long term and short term memory is one problem but smoking weed also may damage your lungs. The exact evidence of this i think is still in debate though.
The biggest problem is addictions that cause you to ruin other parts of your life are things you do not need and if you are finding it hard to just stop and are spnding all yoru cash on it then it is time to not only quit ... but be brutally honest about why you are addicted because generally speaking marijuana addition is a psychological addiction, you cannot become dependant on any chemicals in pot.
The key to quitting is to find out why you feel you need to keep smoking. It can be as simple as bordom for some to trying to escape some harsh realities for others but there are triggers that make you want the chemical 'rewards' of marijuana.
If you are not convinced that pot is doing you harm just total up how much money you spend on it over a few years and how much time you might waste that could be spent doing other enjoyable and creative things, the harm often comes with what it sucks out of your life more than physical damage to yourself.
In any case find the source, the real reason you feel you keep smoking which often goes deeper than 'i love marijuana'.
Good luck!
ummm i dont really know the specific side effects physically, but being addicted is not good... it will be all you think about and what you spend all your money on. if you get caught it could ruin your future... for what?? a ';good time';. pray and i hope this helps. dont keep doing it bc you dont want it to be your life and then ruin it. and all drugs can hurt you by the way and just bc it dosent affect one person dosent mean it wont effect you. i know alot of people that have regretted it and their lives have been ruined (sorry to be so pessamistic!!) good luck!!
My 6 day old son has bad wind (colic)! Any advice?
He is bottle feed and just seems to guzzle his milk down. I burp him in between the feed and again after. I'm also trying to keep him upright for at least a 1/2 hour after each feed. But around mid afternoon he seems to be in so much pain and it takes me so long to burp him... well even if I can manage a burp, that's another problem he just doesn't seem to burp easily.
I just want any tips on how you all managed with a baby with colic?
Thanks so much in advance!My 6 day old son has bad wind (colic)! Any advice?
Buy some peppermint oil, put water in a saucepan, boil the water, add a couple of drops of the peppermint oil, remove pan from stove, allow water to cool to room temperature, pour peppermint water into a small baby bottle, feed to baby. Soon, baby will burp a lot and then go to sleep. This is an old fashioned remedy but it works every time.My 6 day old son has bad wind (colic)! Any advice?
My Daughter who is now 10 wks old suffered with Colic got to the stage where i called an Ambulance once cause i didnt know what was wrong with her..she screamed and screamed and screamed for 4 hrs straight..Doc said it was Colic %26amp; pescribed colic drops (Dentinox) you can buy these from chemist also..they really did work well..hopefully no more colic episodes!
Gd luck x
if he is only 6 days old i recommend that you take him to the doctor or hospital, that would be the wisest thing to do.
when i was little i had colic and the only way to burp me was my mom put me on her forearm her hand holding my chin and the rest of her arm so that it was between my lags and burped me that way. she also lay ed me on my tummy over her knees and that worked also.
My son was colic and i got drops to put in his formula to help him
Gripe water, Mylicon drops, or chamomile tea.
Good Luck =)
Try a different bottle, try a different formula, buy him a baby wedge for his bed, try gripe water. GOOD LUCK
I would suggest getting some Mylacon drops, they sell them at Target and any other store. Gripe water helps out a lot too and its totally natural. These two things help with gassy and colicky babies. I have a five month old little girl and she went through the same thing. These drops really helped her. Also something else that helps a lot is gassing your baby. Lay the baby on his back on a flat surface, such as a floor. Grab baby by his ankles and press his knees into his stomach. This will make his pass gas and he will feel a lot better. Keep trying different ways of this until you find something that works the best. But these two things worked like a charm for me.
don't pat him on the back sit him up to burp and rub his back. That is a really big deal also switch his bottles. I use born free they work great. and put him to bed with a pacifier, If he has colic that young he is high risk sids. No bumper pads, or blankets and have him sleep on his back.
I just want any tips on how you all managed with a baby with colic?
Thanks so much in advance!My 6 day old son has bad wind (colic)! Any advice?
Buy some peppermint oil, put water in a saucepan, boil the water, add a couple of drops of the peppermint oil, remove pan from stove, allow water to cool to room temperature, pour peppermint water into a small baby bottle, feed to baby. Soon, baby will burp a lot and then go to sleep. This is an old fashioned remedy but it works every time.My 6 day old son has bad wind (colic)! Any advice?
My Daughter who is now 10 wks old suffered with Colic got to the stage where i called an Ambulance once cause i didnt know what was wrong with her..she screamed and screamed and screamed for 4 hrs straight..Doc said it was Colic %26amp; pescribed colic drops (Dentinox) you can buy these from chemist also..they really did work well..hopefully no more colic episodes!
Gd luck x
if he is only 6 days old i recommend that you take him to the doctor or hospital, that would be the wisest thing to do.
when i was little i had colic and the only way to burp me was my mom put me on her forearm her hand holding my chin and the rest of her arm so that it was between my lags and burped me that way. she also lay ed me on my tummy over her knees and that worked also.
My son was colic and i got drops to put in his formula to help him
Gripe water, Mylicon drops, or chamomile tea.
Good Luck =)
Try a different bottle, try a different formula, buy him a baby wedge for his bed, try gripe water. GOOD LUCK
I would suggest getting some Mylacon drops, they sell them at Target and any other store. Gripe water helps out a lot too and its totally natural. These two things help with gassy and colicky babies. I have a five month old little girl and she went through the same thing. These drops really helped her. Also something else that helps a lot is gassing your baby. Lay the baby on his back on a flat surface, such as a floor. Grab baby by his ankles and press his knees into his stomach. This will make his pass gas and he will feel a lot better. Keep trying different ways of this until you find something that works the best. But these two things worked like a charm for me.
don't pat him on the back sit him up to burp and rub his back. That is a really big deal also switch his bottles. I use born free they work great. and put him to bed with a pacifier, If he has colic that young he is high risk sids. No bumper pads, or blankets and have him sleep on his back.
Need your advice....its probably a bad question but i am curious. I have developed a crush but I am married.?
ive been married for over twelve years, and there is nothing wrong. I even have a wonderful son. life is great! but this woman has my mind dazzled. I have not done anything and I have not attempted, but I do see her and we have great conversations and she knows Im married. Im not after anything, but she has me going crazeeeeee...!Need your advice....its probably a bad question but i am curious. I have developed a crush but I am married.?
Get a grip! Grass is not always greener on the other side, all that glitters isn't gold. Don't let someone else steal your interests. It sounds like you need to end communication with this person unless you are willing to jeaporadize your relationships with your wife and son. You are in dangerous territory, and you have let this go further than it should.Need your advice....its probably a bad question but i am curious. I have developed a crush but I am married.?
I understand where you are coming from. Be very careful in what you do say to this person, because this can lead to big trouble. Crushes will happen occasionally, but remember they are but for a moment and to act upon them would be devastating to your family, and to yourself. I am assuming you work with this person. Try not to let the conversations linger...keep it light and to business.
Get a grip! Grass is not always greener on the other side, all that glitters isn't gold. Don't let someone else steal your interests. It sounds like you need to end communication with this person unless you are willing to jeaporadize your relationships with your wife and son. You are in dangerous territory, and you have let this go further than it should.Need your advice....its probably a bad question but i am curious. I have developed a crush but I am married.?
I understand where you are coming from. Be very careful in what you do say to this person, because this can lead to big trouble. Crushes will happen occasionally, but remember they are but for a moment and to act upon them would be devastating to your family, and to yourself. I am assuming you work with this person. Try not to let the conversations linger...keep it light and to business.
Do you feel like your advice is good or bad ?
I try to give positive advice but I don't always succeed.Do you feel like your advice is good or bad ?
never really think about it.Do you feel like your advice is good or bad ?
Some people feel its good and some thinks it bad. It depends on the person.
god for some people and bad for others
it's horrifying
Good.My friends always come to me for advice on anything especially family problems.
depends on what advice is given and what is meant to be.
Depends on the situation.
Both. Its never good but its never bad.
id like to think that it was good
Lot of it is good.. but I always say take it or leave it.
I give excellent advice!
I mean well with my advice but whatever is done with it is up to the person it is given to.....so either/or.
never really think about it.Do you feel like your advice is good or bad ?
Some people feel its good and some thinks it bad. It depends on the person.
god for some people and bad for others
it's horrifying
Good.My friends always come to me for advice on anything especially family problems.
depends on what advice is given and what is meant to be.
Depends on the situation.
Both. Its never good but its never bad.
id like to think that it was good
Lot of it is good.. but I always say take it or leave it.
I give excellent advice!
I mean well with my advice but whatever is done with it is up to the person it is given to.....so either/or.
Excrutiating pain in left ear getting worse when i swallow need advice?
my throat has been hurting for the past two days but until this morning my throat stopped hurting and i am felling excruciating pain in my left ear..i need advice on any kind of antibiotics or possibly a doctor?Excrutiating pain in left ear getting worse when i swallow need advice?
It might be a sinus infection, although sometimes ear pain can be transferred pain from somewhere else. Get it checked out asap.
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Are you kidding? Go to the doctor. Now.mascara eye liner
It might be a sinus infection, although sometimes ear pain can be transferred pain from somewhere else. Get it checked out asap.
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Are you kidding? Go to the doctor. Now.
In a realy bad spot need help n advice!!!!!!?
ive been singke for 4yrs n havent been intimate with a women cause am ashamed of my small penis (5inches) my ex didnt care cause i was her first but i recently meet a girl n she wants to go the next level but am nervous cause of my penis size n dont want to let her down she said her ex was huge so am realy nervous should i tell her first or just not do anythingIn a realy bad spot need help n advice!!!!!!?
If she loves you ~ and you should only be having sex with her if you are in love ~ she won't care about size. She'll just care about you.In a realy bad spot need help n advice!!!!!!?
Man I feel for you. I guess I would just tell her flat out. I wouldn't want to have to see her react to it in the moment. Just tell her, and tell her.
If she loves you ~ and you should only be having sex with her if you are in love ~ she won't care about size. She'll just care about you.In a realy bad spot need help n advice!!!!!!?
Man I feel for you. I guess I would just tell her flat out. I wouldn't want to have to see her react to it in the moment. Just tell her, and tell her.
Is Soy formula good or bad? I need help & advice!?
i already tried to post this once and it said it did but it wasnt posted anywhere so here goes a 2nd try
I am open to all types of criticism except the breastfeeding is best one. My son might or might not have a slight allergy to milk (he threw up blood on a milk based formula- however now they believe that was due to the severe case of Acid Reflux that he has, not any intolerance to milk). We had put him back on Soy from Alimentum, and he is doing really well with it...barely spitting up. However, the doctor said that many people do not like putting babies on Soy formula anymore and that she wants him to try Nutramigin first (he still spits up too much on the alimentum even though we are thickening his formula with rice cereal for the reflux) and then maybe in 6 months try a milk based to see how he does. Because of the reflux he has been through so many formulas and I think he tolerates the soy the best, however she is reluctant to it.
I was wondering what people have seen as negatives and positives of soy formula and their experiences with the Soy, Nutramigin or Alimentum? Also, in your opinion, what do you think I should do? I figured getting people's opinions on Soy would be a good method of research (as well as my own research on credible sources of the pros and cons of soy, as i do not know much about Soy in the first place).
As of right now, he is currently taking anywhere from 3 to 4 ounces of Soy formula with 2 tablespoons of rice cereal in a 4 ounce bottle. No that is not too much cereal, it is just enough to keep it down- like i said, the reflux is severe.
And please, no breastfeeding is best comments, he was breastfed for 3 weeks until I had to start taking medicine and they were under the impression he had a milk allergy to the dairy i was eating, again turned out to be the reflux.
Is Soy formula good or bad? I need help %26amp; advice!?
By accident I opened the free sample of Soy formula so I feed it to her for the first week. Stopped BF at 3 weeks and tried formula. She was so fussy and had horrible smelly gas and constipated. I called the doc and she said to switch her to milk based formula. I tried Enfamil Lipil. It made the situation better. I then switched to Enfamil Gentlease. Things have been great with the Enfamil Gentlease. The dr. said she usually tells parents to give the baby soy based formula when the baby is sick with diarrhea because the soy will usually firm up the bowel movements. Also she said to stick with the same formula for a week before trying something different; give the baby time to adjust.
I have now switched to the generic Sams Choice that is the same as Enfamil Gentlease. It is all regulated by the FDA. She loves it!!!
Is Soy formula good or bad? I need help %26amp; advice!?
The reason why doctors are reluctant to stay with soy is because the proteins to not breakdown as easily. Basically the protein/iron intake is not a good as other formulas. This is why it is used as a last resort.
I went through this with my son. We tried every single formula out there and the only one that would work was the soy. He is growing normally and surpassing his twin sister's weight.
My son had all kinds of formulas. Extremely fussy and had diarrhea with regular formula. He was tried on Lactose-free, did better, but still very fussy. Tried Alimentum, He would not drink it. Switched to Soy formula, Not as fussy , but got very constipated. Now is on Nutrimigen, doing great, took some time for him to get used to the taste, but doing very well. I say try as many as you need to, until you find the right one.
I have used both soy and Nutramigen for my kids (in addition to breastfeeding them exclusively for the first 6-8 mos) and for my youngest daughter who was allergic to both soy and dairy - Nutramigen was a Godsend! Many in the family have used it after problems with other formulas and my nephews who had reflux issues.
I would give it a try - it can't hurt! Good Luck!
i was only able to breastfeed for about 4 weeks because i have a hard time keeping my milk supply and i tried many different brands and types of formulas with my son but they all had a bad reactions with him one way or another so i tried soy formula and it is the only thing he was able to handle ok. i dont know much about the pros and cons but my baby had to get fed and thats the only formula that worked for him so thats what i give him!
Not a whole lot of difference between Nutramigin %26amp; Alimentum... they are both equally for babies with allergies or intolerence. Easier on babies fussy tummies...
Soy formula has just as much nutrients as any other formula - whatever you have them on, they will be getting what they need. Soy wouldnt be on the market if it was unfit for babies. As long as he is gaining the correct amount of weight and not vomiting large amounts also pooping/ peeing correct amounts.. he'll be fine.
my daughter was on Alimentum for about a year... then we switched her into the regular formula. she grew out of whatever she had wrong at the beginning.
Do whatever works. Soy is perfectly fine. But listen to your Dr. ... if you are unsure, get a 2nd opinion from another dr. or pediatrition. or nurse.... more info always helps.
good luck.
I used milk-based formula with my first 2 babies and they were fussy and gassy - a lot. My third son started out the same way, so I decided to try soy. He is now 10 1/2 months and has been the most contented of all my babies! I am so glad I chose soy.
In an ideal world, it works to line up all the choices and make sweeping judgments about what is 'best', but in real life, what is best for every baby is different. If your baby growing and happy, then the choice you have made is the best one. . . for him. Don't be afraid to try other options like Nutramigin, if you want to. Keep making informed choices, but at the end of the day, be confident in the choice you've made for your baby and just enjoy him! Good luck!
I hope you are aware that you can relactate. If you choose not to that's fine. But many women are unaware of how easy it is for some. If you need help assessing medication safety:
http://toxnet.nlm.nih.gov/cgi-bin/sis/ht鈥?/a>
http://safefetus.com/Search.asp
http://www.motherisk.org/women/index.jsp
Soy formula may inhibit intestinal development in babies
http://nutraingredients.com/news/news-ng鈥?/a>
Concerns raised about soy infant formula
http://www.cbc.ca/health/story/1999/06/0鈥?/a>
Soy Infant Formula - Better than Breastmilk?
http://www.westonaprice.org/soy/infant.h鈥?/a>
Soy Infant Formula Dangerous to Babies, Say Groups
http://www.life.ca/nl/68/formula.html
Study Examines Long-Term Health Effects of Soy Infant Formula
http://www.ars.usda.gov/is/AR/archive/ja鈥?/a>
I am open to all types of criticism except the breastfeeding is best one. My son might or might not have a slight allergy to milk (he threw up blood on a milk based formula- however now they believe that was due to the severe case of Acid Reflux that he has, not any intolerance to milk). We had put him back on Soy from Alimentum, and he is doing really well with it...barely spitting up. However, the doctor said that many people do not like putting babies on Soy formula anymore and that she wants him to try Nutramigin first (he still spits up too much on the alimentum even though we are thickening his formula with rice cereal for the reflux) and then maybe in 6 months try a milk based to see how he does. Because of the reflux he has been through so many formulas and I think he tolerates the soy the best, however she is reluctant to it.
I was wondering what people have seen as negatives and positives of soy formula and their experiences with the Soy, Nutramigin or Alimentum? Also, in your opinion, what do you think I should do? I figured getting people's opinions on Soy would be a good method of research (as well as my own research on credible sources of the pros and cons of soy, as i do not know much about Soy in the first place).
As of right now, he is currently taking anywhere from 3 to 4 ounces of Soy formula with 2 tablespoons of rice cereal in a 4 ounce bottle. No that is not too much cereal, it is just enough to keep it down- like i said, the reflux is severe.
And please, no breastfeeding is best comments, he was breastfed for 3 weeks until I had to start taking medicine and they were under the impression he had a milk allergy to the dairy i was eating, again turned out to be the reflux.
Is Soy formula good or bad? I need help %26amp; advice!?
By accident I opened the free sample of Soy formula so I feed it to her for the first week. Stopped BF at 3 weeks and tried formula. She was so fussy and had horrible smelly gas and constipated. I called the doc and she said to switch her to milk based formula. I tried Enfamil Lipil. It made the situation better. I then switched to Enfamil Gentlease. Things have been great with the Enfamil Gentlease. The dr. said she usually tells parents to give the baby soy based formula when the baby is sick with diarrhea because the soy will usually firm up the bowel movements. Also she said to stick with the same formula for a week before trying something different; give the baby time to adjust.
I have now switched to the generic Sams Choice that is the same as Enfamil Gentlease. It is all regulated by the FDA. She loves it!!!
Is Soy formula good or bad? I need help %26amp; advice!?
The reason why doctors are reluctant to stay with soy is because the proteins to not breakdown as easily. Basically the protein/iron intake is not a good as other formulas. This is why it is used as a last resort.
I went through this with my son. We tried every single formula out there and the only one that would work was the soy. He is growing normally and surpassing his twin sister's weight.
My son had all kinds of formulas. Extremely fussy and had diarrhea with regular formula. He was tried on Lactose-free, did better, but still very fussy. Tried Alimentum, He would not drink it. Switched to Soy formula, Not as fussy , but got very constipated. Now is on Nutrimigen, doing great, took some time for him to get used to the taste, but doing very well. I say try as many as you need to, until you find the right one.
I have used both soy and Nutramigen for my kids (in addition to breastfeeding them exclusively for the first 6-8 mos) and for my youngest daughter who was allergic to both soy and dairy - Nutramigen was a Godsend! Many in the family have used it after problems with other formulas and my nephews who had reflux issues.
I would give it a try - it can't hurt! Good Luck!
i was only able to breastfeed for about 4 weeks because i have a hard time keeping my milk supply and i tried many different brands and types of formulas with my son but they all had a bad reactions with him one way or another so i tried soy formula and it is the only thing he was able to handle ok. i dont know much about the pros and cons but my baby had to get fed and thats the only formula that worked for him so thats what i give him!
Not a whole lot of difference between Nutramigin %26amp; Alimentum... they are both equally for babies with allergies or intolerence. Easier on babies fussy tummies...
Soy formula has just as much nutrients as any other formula - whatever you have them on, they will be getting what they need. Soy wouldnt be on the market if it was unfit for babies. As long as he is gaining the correct amount of weight and not vomiting large amounts also pooping/ peeing correct amounts.. he'll be fine.
my daughter was on Alimentum for about a year... then we switched her into the regular formula. she grew out of whatever she had wrong at the beginning.
Do whatever works. Soy is perfectly fine. But listen to your Dr. ... if you are unsure, get a 2nd opinion from another dr. or pediatrition. or nurse.... more info always helps.
good luck.
I used milk-based formula with my first 2 babies and they were fussy and gassy - a lot. My third son started out the same way, so I decided to try soy. He is now 10 1/2 months and has been the most contented of all my babies! I am so glad I chose soy.
In an ideal world, it works to line up all the choices and make sweeping judgments about what is 'best', but in real life, what is best for every baby is different. If your baby growing and happy, then the choice you have made is the best one. . . for him. Don't be afraid to try other options like Nutramigin, if you want to. Keep making informed choices, but at the end of the day, be confident in the choice you've made for your baby and just enjoy him! Good luck!
I hope you are aware that you can relactate. If you choose not to that's fine. But many women are unaware of how easy it is for some. If you need help assessing medication safety:
http://toxnet.nlm.nih.gov/cgi-bin/sis/ht鈥?/a>
http://safefetus.com/Search.asp
http://www.motherisk.org/women/index.jsp
Soy formula may inhibit intestinal development in babies
http://nutraingredients.com/news/news-ng鈥?/a>
Concerns raised about soy infant formula
http://www.cbc.ca/health/story/1999/06/0鈥?/a>
Soy Infant Formula - Better than Breastmilk?
http://www.westonaprice.org/soy/infant.h鈥?/a>
Soy Infant Formula Dangerous to Babies, Say Groups
http://www.life.ca/nl/68/formula.html
Study Examines Long-Term Health Effects of Soy Infant Formula
http://www.ars.usda.gov/is/AR/archive/ja鈥?/a>
Desperate for help with a bad situation...ANY relevant advice is needed!?
I have a problem...I work full time and go to college full time (the classes are on the internet, yes it's a real college). I can't afford to not work full time. But I also can't afford to take classes just part time, because my student aid is reduced so drastically if I don't maintain ';full time student'; status that it becomes too expensive for me. I don't really WANT to takeclasses just part time, because I want my degree as soon as possible. I hate the job I have now and don't want to spend any more time in it than I have to.
I am having a LOT of trouble doing work and school full time. Work is suffering from me being tired and stressed from late nights studying every day, and my schoolwork is suffering because I am at work from 9 to 5 every day and come home tired. (My job involves very irate/emotionally unstable people, plus a large workload on top of that).
I am almost certain that, in this economy and in my town's TERRIBLE job market (we made national headlines, it's so bad) that I would not be able to find a comparable job for the wage I earn now. I would probably have to take a job that pays $3+ less per hour, which I can't afford to do.
So I can't afford to work part time, I can't afford to go to school part time, and my sanity cannot afford to continue at this pace for much longer. I am stressed and weepy and tired and not happy.
I live reasonably and frugally and don't have excessive debt.
Someone, please help before I lose it.
I don't know what to do.
Thank you so much for reading this, I know it is annoying to listen to people whine but I don't know what else to do...Desperate for help with a bad situation...ANY relevant advice is needed!?
Take a break. If you can, take some time off from work and do nothing. Surround yourself with greens and blues. They are relaxing colors. Also, take a 20 minute power nap in the afternoon. It will help keep you refreshed.Desperate for help with a bad situation...ANY relevant advice is needed!?
I'm not sure where you live, but here in Canada we have Employment Insurance for people who goto school and the govn't gives them money each month so that they can get a better education.
Try moving to canada if you don't live here already
any way to move in with someone to help save on bills till you are done with school?
ever thought about waitressing- you can make a lot of money on weekends and its really fun.
sell your plasma for some extra spending money?
I am having a LOT of trouble doing work and school full time. Work is suffering from me being tired and stressed from late nights studying every day, and my schoolwork is suffering because I am at work from 9 to 5 every day and come home tired. (My job involves very irate/emotionally unstable people, plus a large workload on top of that).
I am almost certain that, in this economy and in my town's TERRIBLE job market (we made national headlines, it's so bad) that I would not be able to find a comparable job for the wage I earn now. I would probably have to take a job that pays $3+ less per hour, which I can't afford to do.
So I can't afford to work part time, I can't afford to go to school part time, and my sanity cannot afford to continue at this pace for much longer. I am stressed and weepy and tired and not happy.
I live reasonably and frugally and don't have excessive debt.
Someone, please help before I lose it.
I don't know what to do.
Thank you so much for reading this, I know it is annoying to listen to people whine but I don't know what else to do...Desperate for help with a bad situation...ANY relevant advice is needed!?
Take a break. If you can, take some time off from work and do nothing. Surround yourself with greens and blues. They are relaxing colors. Also, take a 20 minute power nap in the afternoon. It will help keep you refreshed.Desperate for help with a bad situation...ANY relevant advice is needed!?
I'm not sure where you live, but here in Canada we have Employment Insurance for people who goto school and the govn't gives them money each month so that they can get a better education.
Try moving to canada if you don't live here already
any way to move in with someone to help save on bills till you are done with school?
ever thought about waitressing- you can make a lot of money on weekends and its really fun.
sell your plasma for some extra spending money?
I need advice bad!?
What can i do to make my girlfriend feel really amazing?I need advice bad!?
Make a candle light dinner for her with soft music.I need advice bad!?
Well, not sure how old you are. But I would suggest some flowers, a nice dinner and a movie, maybe take her shopping or buy some of her favorite perfume. Or better yet get her a gift certificate to a spa for a day of pamering! Girls love that!
plan a surprise trip...prepare her bag secretly and hijack her from shool or at work and take her to a spa or a resort where she can be pampered and where you can romance her all by yourself...don't forget the flowers and the chocolates...
Listen to what she has to say. Always acknowledge it by discussing her side of the issue and offering some help.
Always be available when she needs you, make yourself available when she wants you. And always do anything you can to make her comfortable and happy.
Never demand anything from her that you know she wont or cant deliver. Always respect her boundaries.
Make her special in your life and the center of your life.
Then she'll start feeling amazing when she does the same for you.
Send her to a gym for a couple hours a day..
Surprise dinner. But you must find out what she like.
spend some time with her doing something she loves even if you don't know want too that will make her feel good.
Or you could pay for her to have a beauty treatment if she into that sort of stuff girls like to have their hair and nails done.
plan a nice romantic evening with candles and music cook for her or take her out
Plan a day where it is just her. Chauffer her to work or school take her to a favorite restaurant or even cook for her. Do the things she likes to do with enthusiasm. If it all works who knows maybe it will be repaid with a day just for you.
take her out somewhere really nice and romantic
Treat her like she is the only lady on Earth that you have eyes for....find a cute nickname for her..my husband always called me Dolly and I knew that he had true feelings for me...
give her chocolate. chocolate makes me happy :]
Tell her to use lots of moisturizer. If she has soft skin, she'll feel amazing to the touch.
Make yourself think outside the box.Take time to be creative when you are planning anything for her.Don't be a guy...be a man
Treat her like a princess.
give her some flowers and chocolate and treat her out. always say something nice and special to her. you have to understand her feelings and listen to what she says so that she knows that you understand her and love her.
hope that helps:)
flowers or chocolate write a poem or song
When she is going off to work in the morning...
Call out to her in the middle of the street...
and mouth the words ';I love you!';
Trust me. She'll be talking about that for days!
Say this; ';If I got a star for every time you made me smile, I'd have the whole night sky in the palm of my hand.';
HAHAHAHA, not!
do something sweet and romantic, like take her out to dinner or write a poem or give her flowers. or all three.
Surprise her by taking her somewhere you know she's always wanted to go! My fiance surprised me once by taking me to the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame. Ooorr you can send her flowers at work w/ a sweet note. Girls usually like getting flowers at work, especially if she works in an office setting b/c then everyone she works with will compliment the flowers and ask her, OOoooOo who are those from?! She'll probably like the attention.
depends on her, some girls like to be wined and dined however theres always one step better
plan a day out where neither of you have plans and spend some togather time with her, have a picnic in a park then go play disc golf or fishing or some activity you can participate in togather then head to the beach or somewhere else nice to watch the sunset
things not to do are go to movies and busy restraunts where theres no good conversaion
just go out of your way to actually plan something out and shell apreciate it more than anything u could buy
rite if ur fingering her push ur fingers as far up as u can then bend ur fingers up then u would of found their g-spot and trust me u will know when u've found their g-spot lol good luck man
Do nice little things like small gifts. A bouquet of roses has always worked on my girl. Its always hard when your girlfriend can't understand how incredibly awesome she is.
Tell her how hot she is.
If you've been dating her for awhile, you should already have an idea of her interest and what she likes. Would she like a picnic in the park, flowers sent to her job, or a suprise candlelight dinner made by you? Effort is better than nothing at all. Good Luck
Depends how old you all are...regardless...
1) Be a good listener (don't give advice or problem solve)
2) Do something super sweet and unexpected - it doesn't have to cost much - just some creativity and thought...small example...Leave a note with a flower (or whatever...NO STUFFED ANIMALS!) somewhere you expect her to go - like on her car seat...in classroom chair...under the sheets in a made bed or in a drawer you know she'll open. The note could simply say ';Thinking of you right now as you're reading this. I love you, and hope you have a wonderful day';
3) Help her around the house WITHOUT BEING ASKED. They say that men doing dishes could be a super good aphrodisiac for women
4) Compliment parts of her physically that you find unique and beautiful (you have to be genuine and don't have 1,000 things because then it'll seem bull crappy)
5) Surprise her by making dinner for her (and clean up everything yourself while she lyes around)
They also say you can tell the measure of a man by how he makes breakfast and something else petty but revealing that I can't remember.
She's lucky you care so much. I hope she appreciates you!
Give her MY number.
Make a candle light dinner for her with soft music.I need advice bad!?
Well, not sure how old you are. But I would suggest some flowers, a nice dinner and a movie, maybe take her shopping or buy some of her favorite perfume. Or better yet get her a gift certificate to a spa for a day of pamering! Girls love that!
plan a surprise trip...prepare her bag secretly and hijack her from shool or at work and take her to a spa or a resort where she can be pampered and where you can romance her all by yourself...don't forget the flowers and the chocolates...
Listen to what she has to say. Always acknowledge it by discussing her side of the issue and offering some help.
Always be available when she needs you, make yourself available when she wants you. And always do anything you can to make her comfortable and happy.
Never demand anything from her that you know she wont or cant deliver. Always respect her boundaries.
Make her special in your life and the center of your life.
Then she'll start feeling amazing when she does the same for you.
Send her to a gym for a couple hours a day..
Surprise dinner. But you must find out what she like.
spend some time with her doing something she loves even if you don't know want too that will make her feel good.
Or you could pay for her to have a beauty treatment if she into that sort of stuff girls like to have their hair and nails done.
plan a nice romantic evening with candles and music cook for her or take her out
Plan a day where it is just her. Chauffer her to work or school take her to a favorite restaurant or even cook for her. Do the things she likes to do with enthusiasm. If it all works who knows maybe it will be repaid with a day just for you.
take her out somewhere really nice and romantic
Treat her like she is the only lady on Earth that you have eyes for....find a cute nickname for her..my husband always called me Dolly and I knew that he had true feelings for me...
give her chocolate. chocolate makes me happy :]
Tell her to use lots of moisturizer. If she has soft skin, she'll feel amazing to the touch.
Make yourself think outside the box.Take time to be creative when you are planning anything for her.Don't be a guy...be a man
Treat her like a princess.
give her some flowers and chocolate and treat her out. always say something nice and special to her. you have to understand her feelings and listen to what she says so that she knows that you understand her and love her.
hope that helps:)
flowers or chocolate write a poem or song
When she is going off to work in the morning...
Call out to her in the middle of the street...
and mouth the words ';I love you!';
Trust me. She'll be talking about that for days!
Say this; ';If I got a star for every time you made me smile, I'd have the whole night sky in the palm of my hand.';
HAHAHAHA, not!
do something sweet and romantic, like take her out to dinner or write a poem or give her flowers. or all three.
Surprise her by taking her somewhere you know she's always wanted to go! My fiance surprised me once by taking me to the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame. Ooorr you can send her flowers at work w/ a sweet note. Girls usually like getting flowers at work, especially if she works in an office setting b/c then everyone she works with will compliment the flowers and ask her, OOoooOo who are those from?! She'll probably like the attention.
depends on her, some girls like to be wined and dined however theres always one step better
plan a day out where neither of you have plans and spend some togather time with her, have a picnic in a park then go play disc golf or fishing or some activity you can participate in togather then head to the beach or somewhere else nice to watch the sunset
things not to do are go to movies and busy restraunts where theres no good conversaion
just go out of your way to actually plan something out and shell apreciate it more than anything u could buy
rite if ur fingering her push ur fingers as far up as u can then bend ur fingers up then u would of found their g-spot and trust me u will know when u've found their g-spot lol good luck man
Do nice little things like small gifts. A bouquet of roses has always worked on my girl. Its always hard when your girlfriend can't understand how incredibly awesome she is.
Tell her how hot she is.
If you've been dating her for awhile, you should already have an idea of her interest and what she likes. Would she like a picnic in the park, flowers sent to her job, or a suprise candlelight dinner made by you? Effort is better than nothing at all. Good Luck
Depends how old you all are...regardless...
1) Be a good listener (don't give advice or problem solve)
2) Do something super sweet and unexpected - it doesn't have to cost much - just some creativity and thought...small example...Leave a note with a flower (or whatever...NO STUFFED ANIMALS!) somewhere you expect her to go - like on her car seat...in classroom chair...under the sheets in a made bed or in a drawer you know she'll open. The note could simply say ';Thinking of you right now as you're reading this. I love you, and hope you have a wonderful day';
3) Help her around the house WITHOUT BEING ASKED. They say that men doing dishes could be a super good aphrodisiac for women
4) Compliment parts of her physically that you find unique and beautiful (you have to be genuine and don't have 1,000 things because then it'll seem bull crappy)
5) Surprise her by making dinner for her (and clean up everything yourself while she lyes around)
They also say you can tell the measure of a man by how he makes breakfast and something else petty but revealing that I can't remember.
She's lucky you care so much. I hope she appreciates you!
Give her MY number.
I need advice Bad....?
I am dating this guy, but recently my kids father came over and I got caught up in the moment of the family life. The guy I am dating called me a few times and I didnt answer and now he thinks we shared a intimate moment but I swear I didnt. I dont know what to do to conivence him other wise...Please any advice???I need advice Bad....?
yeah this is tough. i'm sure the guy your dating knew that baby daddy comes around for the kids, right? so he should expect situations like this to develop. i dated this girl, whose baby daddy came around and stuff and it did bother me. kinda awkward cause he showed up one day and i was there at her place. the kids are what ties the two of you together and at one point in time you had to have loved this guy enough to have kids(more than 1). you might have even tried to work things out before you parted. so, by not answering the phone, i would think somethings up. as far as convincing him otherwise..it comes down to the guy. if he really want to be with you he'll try to over look this. if not, i don't know what to say....other than you're a mom and don't need a grown man acting like child.I need advice Bad....?
Hola,
Is this new guy okay with listening to your ex tell him he did not touch you but was enjoying time with the kids. If he does not trust you then I am sorry to say you do not have a real relationship. I hope he calms down and trusts you and believes you would not do that to him. Good luck.
Stand your ground, just tell him to trust you and that you have no feelings for the kids father. Tell him that the very thought is rediculous and that the kids were making so much noise that you didnt hear the phone. Don't make a big deal of it and soon he wont either
Look tell your guy that just becuz you don't pick up the phone it doesn't mean your having sex with your ex. I will tell him to either let it go or I will let him go. You don't need a man around who is going to accuse of doing your ex every time you guys get together for the kids. You can spend time together for the kids. Hell, that is best case scenario when the mother and father aren't together anymore. If he is threatened by this relationship then he needs to date someone without kids. I wouldn't stress it. It will be his loss not yours. If you didn't do anything, then you got nothing to worry about. Tell him to trust you or get lost. You got enough on your plate honey!!! Best of Luck!!
yeah this is tough. i'm sure the guy your dating knew that baby daddy comes around for the kids, right? so he should expect situations like this to develop. i dated this girl, whose baby daddy came around and stuff and it did bother me. kinda awkward cause he showed up one day and i was there at her place. the kids are what ties the two of you together and at one point in time you had to have loved this guy enough to have kids(more than 1). you might have even tried to work things out before you parted. so, by not answering the phone, i would think somethings up. as far as convincing him otherwise..it comes down to the guy. if he really want to be with you he'll try to over look this. if not, i don't know what to say....other than you're a mom and don't need a grown man acting like child.I need advice Bad....?
Hola,
Is this new guy okay with listening to your ex tell him he did not touch you but was enjoying time with the kids. If he does not trust you then I am sorry to say you do not have a real relationship. I hope he calms down and trusts you and believes you would not do that to him. Good luck.
Stand your ground, just tell him to trust you and that you have no feelings for the kids father. Tell him that the very thought is rediculous and that the kids were making so much noise that you didnt hear the phone. Don't make a big deal of it and soon he wont either
Look tell your guy that just becuz you don't pick up the phone it doesn't mean your having sex with your ex. I will tell him to either let it go or I will let him go. You don't need a man around who is going to accuse of doing your ex every time you guys get together for the kids. You can spend time together for the kids. Hell, that is best case scenario when the mother and father aren't together anymore. If he is threatened by this relationship then he needs to date someone without kids. I wouldn't stress it. It will be his loss not yours. If you didn't do anything, then you got nothing to worry about. Tell him to trust you or get lost. You got enough on your plate honey!!! Best of Luck!!
Adult advice please!:little white lie gone bad?
Alright i am 19 yrs old and in college as a commuter so i am fairly responsible now.I pay for my books/nessaries and my parents pay for tuition as well as my car insurance ect.I went through a hard rocky time with my parents because they were so overly protective and strict never letting me do anything. I wanted to rebell in any way i could.Things are much better with my parents now but my last year of high school i did something stupid i wanted a credit card but since my parents said no .I choose to use my dads SS number to get one i started using it to buy whatever i wanted for compulsive emotional reasons.I finally have just about paid everything off.Do i tell my parents or just cancell the card?Adult advice please!:little white lie gone bad?
Pay it off then tell them. It will show on his report and he may begin a fraud investigation that ends in your lap.
This ain't a white lie in the eyes of the law; it's identity theft and credit card fraud.Adult advice please!:little white lie gone bad?
You should tell them. That is the adult thing to do. They should be adults about it as well and see that you took care of it and it is all over. Just think about what will happen if they check their credit report and see you commited fraud.
I wanted to add
When I was a kid, my dad bought me a brand new stereo for Christmas. I knew it was expensive and I knew that I had to take care of it. My dad was not an easy going guy. One day in January, I was listening to a record(you may not know what that is hehe) and the dust cover to the stereo was on my bed. I was dancing around the room and plopped down on my bed. I broke the cover. I thought about hiding it from my dad but knew that he would find out one day and he would tear into me for lying and hiding things. So when he got home from work I handed him his belt. When he asked what it was for I told him what happened, through tears and a lump in my throat. He laughed at me, then he helped me fix it. That was it. Be an adult about it. Tell them.
Yikes! Yeah pay it off. Cancel the card. If your real brave tell them in like 10 years.
cancel the card then pay it off.
don't tell them about it.
never do this again.
That is a hard one. Pay off the card and cancel it. That needs to be your first step. Is your relationship really strong now or just on the mend. If its just on the mend you may want to wait a bit before telling them this. I hope you were never late on the payments because that will affect his credit and he may find out.
If you have the card still, the statement has to be going somewhere. Is it going to their house? If it is, then they already know about it.
You should pay for the card completely and ASAP then tell your parents. Not a little white lie either, if they get really pissed, you need to suffer the consequences of this one.
I can't believe you did that! Amazing? I thought I was bad in high school, guess I was a good kid.
Finish paying off the card and cancel it if you can. Next tell your parents that you are really happy that your relationship with them is on the mend but you have one more thing that needs resolution. Then confess. It will be up to them to decide what they are going to do with the information you provide them.
pay it off, cut it up, and save it to show them... and when you tell them be sure to say, your sorry, and should never had done it, and explain just what you did to us that you don't want to jeopardize your relationship with them but at the same time you feel the need to be honest with them and you did not want to keep this from them any longer because it was dishonest, and you want to put that type of behavior behind you. and if you want some points, when you say your sorry, tell them you feel bad, because they did not raise you to act like that. and why you did is still a mystery to even you. that helps them to eliminate the ';where did we go wrong'; feeling.
and you need to tell them, if they do a credit report and report that that is not ther card,,, they will flag the card, and when you use it... you could go to jail. you are over 18.. and it is serious.
Run the card through a shredder and pay the balance off. If your parents ask you about it if they find it on their credit report....tell them first that you are sorry, but you ran into some financial trouble and wanted to try and be responsible. You have paid the debt AND learned your lesson. You will understand if they are mad, but tell them again you are sorry. You might be surprised at how forgiving they will be OR they might ream you up one side and down the other. Either way....they will talk to you again....because they will always be your parents.
If you were ever late on a payment, even just once, you have to tell them. It would have been reported to the credit agencies, and would be a bad mark on his credit.
I would really suggest you tell them, tell them you are SO sorry,you realize how wrong what you did was, and then deal with whatever consequences there may be. What you did was not only wrong, it was illegal. Since it's your parents, and you've paid it off, it's not likely they'd turn you in, but they deserve to know they were victims of identity theft, and it should be you who tells them. If it were anyone else, you'd be in prison. I think you should take whatever punishment or anger that comes your way with grace.
You need to rethink your definition of ';little white lie.'; This is NOT it. This is a long-term, illegal lie.
If your dad ever checks his credit report. Your card will show up under his SSN.
I'll tell you a little trick about coming clean about lies to your parents or anyone. You tell them that I need to tell you something, promise not to be mad. (And you make them promise). As humans, it's hard for us to be mad at someone after you've already promised not to be. And if they try to get mad, you remind them of the promise.
However, since you've already paid the card off. Just tell your dad, and ask for his help in getting the card cancelled and out of his record. Parents really like it when they can still help their kids after they're grown up. It makes them feel needed and it gives them a piece of their little girl back again.
Your relationship with your parents always gets better once you move out of the house and keeps on improving. You start to realize that they were right about somethings and they also start treating you more like an adult. You guys will laugh about this in the future.
Pay it off
Cancel the card
Tell your parents
Don't wait to do this
Keep this to yourself (just hope your parents are not on YA). No need to retroactively worry your parents. If they do find out you can still tell them that this was case of temporary insanity and that you have paid everything off.
You gotta tell them before they find out. Hey, YOU made the mistake and are now trying to avoid the consequences of your actions. Tell the truth, take your medicine and move on.
Plus the tone of your first paragraph suggests that your fraudulent actions are your parents' fault. The sooner you take full responsibility for your adult behavior, the happier you'll be.
BTW, this ain't no white lie. It's a felony. Be happy you're not spending time in jail.
Your parents could charge you with credit card theft. Pay off the bill immediately before interest charges are laid. Major credit cards have average 18% interest charge per month. You need to get your own credit card, you are of age now. You may have to get secondary credit card, not a major credit card like Visa, Mastercard or American Express. You may be able to get a Store credit card. Don't screw up their credit rating. Find another outlet besides excessive spending. Do something that is positive, not negative towards yourself.
Your parents may forgive you if they have an open heart and mind. I would tell them definately, they will respect you more if you did that, before the next statement comes out and then they won't be so shocked, and that you have made payments on it.mascara eye liner
Pay it off then tell them. It will show on his report and he may begin a fraud investigation that ends in your lap.
This ain't a white lie in the eyes of the law; it's identity theft and credit card fraud.Adult advice please!:little white lie gone bad?
You should tell them. That is the adult thing to do. They should be adults about it as well and see that you took care of it and it is all over. Just think about what will happen if they check their credit report and see you commited fraud.
I wanted to add
When I was a kid, my dad bought me a brand new stereo for Christmas. I knew it was expensive and I knew that I had to take care of it. My dad was not an easy going guy. One day in January, I was listening to a record(you may not know what that is hehe) and the dust cover to the stereo was on my bed. I was dancing around the room and plopped down on my bed. I broke the cover. I thought about hiding it from my dad but knew that he would find out one day and he would tear into me for lying and hiding things. So when he got home from work I handed him his belt. When he asked what it was for I told him what happened, through tears and a lump in my throat. He laughed at me, then he helped me fix it. That was it. Be an adult about it. Tell them.
Yikes! Yeah pay it off. Cancel the card. If your real brave tell them in like 10 years.
cancel the card then pay it off.
don't tell them about it.
never do this again.
That is a hard one. Pay off the card and cancel it. That needs to be your first step. Is your relationship really strong now or just on the mend. If its just on the mend you may want to wait a bit before telling them this. I hope you were never late on the payments because that will affect his credit and he may find out.
If you have the card still, the statement has to be going somewhere. Is it going to their house? If it is, then they already know about it.
You should pay for the card completely and ASAP then tell your parents. Not a little white lie either, if they get really pissed, you need to suffer the consequences of this one.
I can't believe you did that! Amazing? I thought I was bad in high school, guess I was a good kid.
Finish paying off the card and cancel it if you can. Next tell your parents that you are really happy that your relationship with them is on the mend but you have one more thing that needs resolution. Then confess. It will be up to them to decide what they are going to do with the information you provide them.
pay it off, cut it up, and save it to show them... and when you tell them be sure to say, your sorry, and should never had done it, and explain just what you did to us that you don't want to jeopardize your relationship with them but at the same time you feel the need to be honest with them and you did not want to keep this from them any longer because it was dishonest, and you want to put that type of behavior behind you. and if you want some points, when you say your sorry, tell them you feel bad, because they did not raise you to act like that. and why you did is still a mystery to even you. that helps them to eliminate the ';where did we go wrong'; feeling.
and you need to tell them, if they do a credit report and report that that is not ther card,,, they will flag the card, and when you use it... you could go to jail. you are over 18.. and it is serious.
Run the card through a shredder and pay the balance off. If your parents ask you about it if they find it on their credit report....tell them first that you are sorry, but you ran into some financial trouble and wanted to try and be responsible. You have paid the debt AND learned your lesson. You will understand if they are mad, but tell them again you are sorry. You might be surprised at how forgiving they will be OR they might ream you up one side and down the other. Either way....they will talk to you again....because they will always be your parents.
If you were ever late on a payment, even just once, you have to tell them. It would have been reported to the credit agencies, and would be a bad mark on his credit.
I would really suggest you tell them, tell them you are SO sorry,you realize how wrong what you did was, and then deal with whatever consequences there may be. What you did was not only wrong, it was illegal. Since it's your parents, and you've paid it off, it's not likely they'd turn you in, but they deserve to know they were victims of identity theft, and it should be you who tells them. If it were anyone else, you'd be in prison. I think you should take whatever punishment or anger that comes your way with grace.
You need to rethink your definition of ';little white lie.'; This is NOT it. This is a long-term, illegal lie.
If your dad ever checks his credit report. Your card will show up under his SSN.
I'll tell you a little trick about coming clean about lies to your parents or anyone. You tell them that I need to tell you something, promise not to be mad. (And you make them promise). As humans, it's hard for us to be mad at someone after you've already promised not to be. And if they try to get mad, you remind them of the promise.
However, since you've already paid the card off. Just tell your dad, and ask for his help in getting the card cancelled and out of his record. Parents really like it when they can still help their kids after they're grown up. It makes them feel needed and it gives them a piece of their little girl back again.
Your relationship with your parents always gets better once you move out of the house and keeps on improving. You start to realize that they were right about somethings and they also start treating you more like an adult. You guys will laugh about this in the future.
Pay it off
Cancel the card
Tell your parents
Don't wait to do this
Keep this to yourself (just hope your parents are not on YA). No need to retroactively worry your parents. If they do find out you can still tell them that this was case of temporary insanity and that you have paid everything off.
You gotta tell them before they find out. Hey, YOU made the mistake and are now trying to avoid the consequences of your actions. Tell the truth, take your medicine and move on.
Plus the tone of your first paragraph suggests that your fraudulent actions are your parents' fault. The sooner you take full responsibility for your adult behavior, the happier you'll be.
BTW, this ain't no white lie. It's a felony. Be happy you're not spending time in jail.
Your parents could charge you with credit card theft. Pay off the bill immediately before interest charges are laid. Major credit cards have average 18% interest charge per month. You need to get your own credit card, you are of age now. You may have to get secondary credit card, not a major credit card like Visa, Mastercard or American Express. You may be able to get a Store credit card. Don't screw up their credit rating. Find another outlet besides excessive spending. Do something that is positive, not negative towards yourself.
Your parents may forgive you if they have an open heart and mind. I would tell them definately, they will respect you more if you did that, before the next statement comes out and then they won't be so shocked, and that you have made payments on it.
I have really bad blackheads on my nose..any advice?.?
yeah okay i use the wave and it helps pretty good like on my chin,cheeks,and forehead. but i have very bad blackheads on my nose.any help?I have really bad blackheads on my nose..any advice?.?
biore nose strips and then after shave or alcohol, to close the pores, so they dont clogg agiain and use anticomedogenic make up onlyI have really bad blackheads on my nose..any advice?.?
I would actually advise you to not use biore strips or any similar strips. The strips remove the superficial layer of both the skin and the blackheads. If you have oily or sensitive skin, this will really make matters worse. And I nkow this from personal experience. I've never used a comedone extractor but I have heard that it does help get rid of them. It basically will take away the sebum and dirt or whatever it is that is in the pores without ripping off skin.
Biore' Deep Cleansing Pore Strips work WONDERS on me. I had about 60 blackheads on one side of my nose (no joke, there was literally around 60 blackheads) and using these strips got rid of all of them. They are awesome! When you peal the strip off your nose, you can see little columns of gunk that come out of the blackheads (which proves that they actually take the gunk out to keep them from reappearing). These are definitely the way to go to get rid of blackheads. Trust me, these are WONDERFUL!!
those work to. I use clearisal ultra and it works. I also make sure i dont wear make up like any kind of foundation that can clog it really bad. the liquid is really bad
I have heard a remedy as simple as toothpaste can work on blackheads. I did that myself when I was in high school years back, kind of worked then.
omggg so do i!!!! i use the bior strips they work most of the time u have to to it like every day tho. but use clearasil or clean and clear wash aslo it works
Do u have acne.
If so, see yur doctor and get put on 'isotane'
IT WORKS, gets rid off everything.
But can be a dangerous drug sometimes.
Just talk to the doctor(=
buy a comedone extractor
Biore pore strips! they're magic!
Hi!
Exfoliate totally TRY IT!!!!!!!!!!Dry coffee (ground) on moist skin, rub in gentle circles 30 seconds and rinse! Beware of messiness lol.
Also try witch hazel as a toner/ facial astringent, cost around 2$ at the pharmacy, apply liberally to your face after washing and allow it to air dry. Witch hazel will normalize your skin and help it self-regulate.
I actually found a natural 100% plant extracts facial oil that slows down your skins oil production, clears up pimples/ acne and dissolves black heads within 4-8 weeks I put all the info on my blog as it's quite detailed:
http://beautymoi.blogspot.com
I also put a full article of how to extract blackheads and steam your skin.
Black heads are basically a hardened oil mixture that was secreted from your pores and oxidized (which makes the outside part black) and since water and oil don't mix, no water based product can ';clean'; your blackheads away, just try say putting certain foundations or makeups on the mirror and if you wipe it with water it smudges all over but put a little baby oil and wipe and tada! it comes off super clean AND dissolves it. So this is basically how this oil works. It's composition is such that the skin accepts it as a healing oil and it does not clog your skin but rather protects it while the plant extracts inside go down into the pores (this absorption is made possible by applying the toner to the skin before applying the oil and then applying the dabs of oil over your moistened face), it then penetrates into the pores.
I put where to the name of the oil and prices in stores versus on eBay as well as how to apply it on my blog:
http://beautymoi.blogspot.com
Also be sure to check out all the links on my blog as they have lots of info!!!
For acne you may want to look on Google for Drying Lotion by Mario Badescu.
Take care and good luck!
Felisia
biore nose strips and then after shave or alcohol, to close the pores, so they dont clogg agiain and use anticomedogenic make up onlyI have really bad blackheads on my nose..any advice?.?
I would actually advise you to not use biore strips or any similar strips. The strips remove the superficial layer of both the skin and the blackheads. If you have oily or sensitive skin, this will really make matters worse. And I nkow this from personal experience. I've never used a comedone extractor but I have heard that it does help get rid of them. It basically will take away the sebum and dirt or whatever it is that is in the pores without ripping off skin.
Biore' Deep Cleansing Pore Strips work WONDERS on me. I had about 60 blackheads on one side of my nose (no joke, there was literally around 60 blackheads) and using these strips got rid of all of them. They are awesome! When you peal the strip off your nose, you can see little columns of gunk that come out of the blackheads (which proves that they actually take the gunk out to keep them from reappearing). These are definitely the way to go to get rid of blackheads. Trust me, these are WONDERFUL!!
those work to. I use clearisal ultra and it works. I also make sure i dont wear make up like any kind of foundation that can clog it really bad. the liquid is really bad
I have heard a remedy as simple as toothpaste can work on blackheads. I did that myself when I was in high school years back, kind of worked then.
omggg so do i!!!! i use the bior strips they work most of the time u have to to it like every day tho. but use clearasil or clean and clear wash aslo it works
Do u have acne.
If so, see yur doctor and get put on 'isotane'
IT WORKS, gets rid off everything.
But can be a dangerous drug sometimes.
Just talk to the doctor(=
buy a comedone extractor
Biore pore strips! they're magic!
Hi!
Exfoliate totally TRY IT!!!!!!!!!!Dry coffee (ground) on moist skin, rub in gentle circles 30 seconds and rinse! Beware of messiness lol.
Also try witch hazel as a toner/ facial astringent, cost around 2$ at the pharmacy, apply liberally to your face after washing and allow it to air dry. Witch hazel will normalize your skin and help it self-regulate.
I actually found a natural 100% plant extracts facial oil that slows down your skins oil production, clears up pimples/ acne and dissolves black heads within 4-8 weeks I put all the info on my blog as it's quite detailed:
http://beautymoi.blogspot.com
I also put a full article of how to extract blackheads and steam your skin.
Black heads are basically a hardened oil mixture that was secreted from your pores and oxidized (which makes the outside part black) and since water and oil don't mix, no water based product can ';clean'; your blackheads away, just try say putting certain foundations or makeups on the mirror and if you wipe it with water it smudges all over but put a little baby oil and wipe and tada! it comes off super clean AND dissolves it. So this is basically how this oil works. It's composition is such that the skin accepts it as a healing oil and it does not clog your skin but rather protects it while the plant extracts inside go down into the pores (this absorption is made possible by applying the toner to the skin before applying the oil and then applying the dabs of oil over your moistened face), it then penetrates into the pores.
I put where to the name of the oil and prices in stores versus on eBay as well as how to apply it on my blog:
http://beautymoi.blogspot.com
Also be sure to check out all the links on my blog as they have lots of info!!!
For acne you may want to look on Google for Drying Lotion by Mario Badescu.
Take care and good luck!
Felisia
I am the bad tenant - need legal advice - added mental health issue?
I have lived in a duplex for six years. For the first four years, everything was fine. I have been in treatment for severe depression/anxiety disorder since 2000. For the past two years, it has been getting worse and I am afraid that my house bore the brunt. I was completely unable to clean my house or take out trash for almost two years.
Here is the current situation. I have stepped up my treatment, I have admitted to my therapist the situation, something I had been unable to do before. I was not evicted from my house and the rent is up to date but I am now living in a new house.
The problem is, I cannot get everything out of the old house. It is trashed. There is no structural damage aside from a hole in one bedroom wall (drywall) which was a complete accident and will be simple to fix. There is trash everywhere. I have tried almost daily to get over there and clean it out. I have no local support system, no close family and even my church was unable to help, which really upset me. Because of my mental health issues, I cannot even walk in the front door of the old house without dissolving into tears.
I have written a letter to my landlord which I will deliver along with the key this Saturday. I am taking full responsibility for the cleaning and repairs and am offering to set up a payment plan to repay them for any costs beyond the security deposit.
I have my new landlord as well as a counselor coming over to make regular home visits to the new house to make sure this doesn't happen again. I am doing everything I can think of to make amends.
I am scared that my old landlord will get really nasty over this, and while I wouldn't blame him if he did, I am hoping he will take my situation into consideration and let me make this right.
I would love to hear from tenants and landlords alike on this subject as well as any advice from mental health professionals.
What are my rights? What are my responsibilities?I am the bad tenant - need legal advice - added mental health issue?
Docker is right. If you have already offered to take care of the cleaning responsiblity, there have got to be several businesses in your area that will go in there and just haul your stuff away.
I know exactly how you feel. Housework was never my strong suit. i had a baby in 2002, then a hospitalization in 2007....my house too was awful awful awful. i would sit in the middle of it and cry because i was too overwhelmed to clean. So, I bought another house and started over. That was almost 4 months ago.I am the bad tenant - need legal advice - added mental health issue?
hire some maids to clean it up, like marry maids, or some other cleaning company.
Here is the current situation. I have stepped up my treatment, I have admitted to my therapist the situation, something I had been unable to do before. I was not evicted from my house and the rent is up to date but I am now living in a new house.
The problem is, I cannot get everything out of the old house. It is trashed. There is no structural damage aside from a hole in one bedroom wall (drywall) which was a complete accident and will be simple to fix. There is trash everywhere. I have tried almost daily to get over there and clean it out. I have no local support system, no close family and even my church was unable to help, which really upset me. Because of my mental health issues, I cannot even walk in the front door of the old house without dissolving into tears.
I have written a letter to my landlord which I will deliver along with the key this Saturday. I am taking full responsibility for the cleaning and repairs and am offering to set up a payment plan to repay them for any costs beyond the security deposit.
I have my new landlord as well as a counselor coming over to make regular home visits to the new house to make sure this doesn't happen again. I am doing everything I can think of to make amends.
I am scared that my old landlord will get really nasty over this, and while I wouldn't blame him if he did, I am hoping he will take my situation into consideration and let me make this right.
I would love to hear from tenants and landlords alike on this subject as well as any advice from mental health professionals.
What are my rights? What are my responsibilities?I am the bad tenant - need legal advice - added mental health issue?
Docker is right. If you have already offered to take care of the cleaning responsiblity, there have got to be several businesses in your area that will go in there and just haul your stuff away.
I know exactly how you feel. Housework was never my strong suit. i had a baby in 2002, then a hospitalization in 2007....my house too was awful awful awful. i would sit in the middle of it and cry because i was too overwhelmed to clean. So, I bought another house and started over. That was almost 4 months ago.I am the bad tenant - need legal advice - added mental health issue?
hire some maids to clean it up, like marry maids, or some other cleaning company.
I gave him ';the note';....did i do wronge...plz help guys im desprite for any advice good or bad so plz help me?
i really like him and this is how my day went
first i walked up to him and gave him a hug then when i let go we looked each other in the eyes as we were smiling
then the bell rang to go to calss then after 4th period i gave him a note
it said
';hey whats up im in geography what r u doing.
this class is so boring
hey is it true that you like me because some one said that you do so i was just wondering
what are your classes
heres mine(i wrote my classes down)
i gave it to him then in 5th period my friend kilee asked him';did you get the note from her';
';yea im not going to write back though';
oh';
then kilee told me and then he was runing away from me......soo help i think imade a big mistake
I gave him ';the note';....did i do wronge...plz help guys im desprite for any advice good or bad so plz help me?
He could have meant that he wasnt going to answer it at that time. Give him a couple days to reply and to see what happens. Don't do anything rash. If he doesn't talk to you or reply then you should talk to him, and if that goes well then ask him out.I gave him ';the note';....did i do wronge...plz help guys im desprite for any advice good or bad so plz help me?
give it time to sink in
meanwhile, show up looking as pretty as every
but not sluttyy!!!!
thatll get him thinking
also- wait untill he comes up to you!!!
dont bug him about it!!
n if he doesnt like you or acts like a jerk then u deserve better and can do better
aniways- good luck!!
to be honest he just sounds like a shy guy, Ive made some stupid mistakes in my time because i was 2 nervouse and it screwed me ovr, dnt wry bout it to much just talk 2 him and keep it slow
You probably sounded really creepy when you gave him you schedule
you should of just went with the cute old fashioned
''do you like me
yes
no''
if he said he is not gonna write back.. save yourself the embarassment and just leave it alone... dont even talk to him anymore unless he talks to you.
try talking to him and just say i was wondering that was all. if you tell him you like him to fix the problem that might push him away further. good luck however..
yesss(no hoomo)
Try talking to him about it
im a guy and i don't have a problem with it, but yes most guys don't like getting a note its creepy i don't understand why but i've talked to my friends and they say if they got a note from a girl unless she was the hottest girl on the planet they would say no because she to scared to ask in person sorry you'll get another chance though just try asking him in person don't make it creepy though just say ';do you want to go out with me';
yeah....the schedule thing...just isnt working for me...
you should have just left it at that...thats presurre for a guy. but dont worry just give him time...show up to school tomorrow- look the hottest you have ever looked!!!! lol and stay away from him unless he comes to you. dont mention anythung about the note for a week- within that time u should see his reaction. if its not what you expect then ask him about it in person and leave him alone. after that give it a rest. he isnt worth so much trouble.
first i walked up to him and gave him a hug then when i let go we looked each other in the eyes as we were smiling
then the bell rang to go to calss then after 4th period i gave him a note
it said
';hey whats up im in geography what r u doing.
this class is so boring
hey is it true that you like me because some one said that you do so i was just wondering
what are your classes
heres mine(i wrote my classes down)
i gave it to him then in 5th period my friend kilee asked him';did you get the note from her';
';yea im not going to write back though';
oh';
then kilee told me and then he was runing away from me......soo help i think imade a big mistake
I gave him ';the note';....did i do wronge...plz help guys im desprite for any advice good or bad so plz help me?
He could have meant that he wasnt going to answer it at that time. Give him a couple days to reply and to see what happens. Don't do anything rash. If he doesn't talk to you or reply then you should talk to him, and if that goes well then ask him out.I gave him ';the note';....did i do wronge...plz help guys im desprite for any advice good or bad so plz help me?
give it time to sink in
meanwhile, show up looking as pretty as every
but not sluttyy!!!!
thatll get him thinking
also- wait untill he comes up to you!!!
dont bug him about it!!
n if he doesnt like you or acts like a jerk then u deserve better and can do better
aniways- good luck!!
to be honest he just sounds like a shy guy, Ive made some stupid mistakes in my time because i was 2 nervouse and it screwed me ovr, dnt wry bout it to much just talk 2 him and keep it slow
You probably sounded really creepy when you gave him you schedule
you should of just went with the cute old fashioned
''do you like me
yes
no''
if he said he is not gonna write back.. save yourself the embarassment and just leave it alone... dont even talk to him anymore unless he talks to you.
try talking to him and just say i was wondering that was all. if you tell him you like him to fix the problem that might push him away further. good luck however..
yesss(no hoomo)
Try talking to him about it
im a guy and i don't have a problem with it, but yes most guys don't like getting a note its creepy i don't understand why but i've talked to my friends and they say if they got a note from a girl unless she was the hottest girl on the planet they would say no because she to scared to ask in person sorry you'll get another chance though just try asking him in person don't make it creepy though just say ';do you want to go out with me';
yeah....the schedule thing...just isnt working for me...
you should have just left it at that...thats presurre for a guy. but dont worry just give him time...show up to school tomorrow- look the hottest you have ever looked!!!! lol and stay away from him unless he comes to you. dont mention anythung about the note for a week- within that time u should see his reaction. if its not what you expect then ask him about it in person and leave him alone. after that give it a rest. he isnt worth so much trouble.
I had a bad dream ketchup ed advice?
This is ketchup Ed the other night I had bad dream that people in this category and other鈥檚. We were all in the McDonalds together I was in a high chair and everyone was slapping me one person was shoving ketchup down my throat another person wanted to beat me with a bam boo stick. Avon mom was strangling me with a bib and my mother was just standing there cheering everyone on. I woke up in cold sweat. I don鈥檛 have dreams like this. What can this mean?
I had a bad dream ketchup ed advice?
Why would you ask this on a pregnancy q%26amp;a? Strange.I had a bad dream ketchup ed advice?
Ketchup Ed, after being an avid reader of your twisted questions for some time, i have come to the conclusion that you have serious mommy issues and you need to seek professional help a.s.a.p.
This is the section of yahoo answers that pertains to pregnancy and trying to concieve and achieve a pregnancy. go SOMEWHERE ELSE AND ASK RIDICULUS QUESTIONS
put this is a different category dumb ***.
it means yur gona get raped by drewpickles at mcdonalds
sounds like you are one of those men that actually enjoyed being spanked by your mother, you need help son!
its probably one of those strange premonitions so i would be very careful next time you go to Mc D's. lol
It means you spend way too much time on Y!A
it means you're an idiot....get a life!
I had a bad dream ketchup ed advice?
Why would you ask this on a pregnancy q%26amp;a? Strange.I had a bad dream ketchup ed advice?
Ketchup Ed, after being an avid reader of your twisted questions for some time, i have come to the conclusion that you have serious mommy issues and you need to seek professional help a.s.a.p.
This is the section of yahoo answers that pertains to pregnancy and trying to concieve and achieve a pregnancy. go SOMEWHERE ELSE AND ASK RIDICULUS QUESTIONS
put this is a different category dumb ***.
it means yur gona get raped by drewpickles at mcdonalds
sounds like you are one of those men that actually enjoyed being spanked by your mother, you need help son!
its probably one of those strange premonitions so i would be very careful next time you go to Mc D's. lol
It means you spend way too much time on Y!A
it means you're an idiot....get a life!
GUYS! I feel REALLY BAD and NEED ADVICE?! GIRLS HELP TOO?!?
There's this guy josh I've liked for almost 2 years. I used to think he liked me too, but I got majorly mixed signals. Sometimes he was so good to me, and other times (like when he tried to get me lost in a neighborhood at nite)...arghhhh. The final straw came Friday when invited him to this ball I had to go to (just to hang with me so I didn't have to dance), and he flat out said no. I figured if he liked me at all,he woulda gone. Instead I spent the evening with guys who give me the creeps, holding their hands and touching my back and thinking of how the only hands I wanted touch me were josh's.
I've had to see josh all this week at church activity were helping at. I've ignored him if he tries to talk to me. He has told my 15 year old brother, who he's friends with, every nite just how I hate him. Last nite my bro told me to tell him sorry, and I said,';I have nothing to be sorry for'; and josh said,';are u mad at me?'; he asked twice. I wouldn't answer I just turned away. ';I'm not going anywhere. When ur ready to talk you know where I'll be.'; I said wouldn't talk. And then as the nite progressed I just got meaner and meaner towards him.
Now... I feel like crap. I feel like I took the only guy I ever cared bout and shoved him away. WHY? Because I conned myself into believing he liked me. I will see him tonight. What should I do??We're 18. Also...why would he care if I was mad at him or not? We know each other well, but we don't really hang out.GUYS! I feel REALLY BAD and NEED ADVICE?! GIRLS HELP TOO?!?
Tell him you're sorry. You were a huge jerk to him and he needs to know you feel bad about it. Who knows, he might care because he likes you. Also, no one wants to be hated, so he's probably just trying to figure out why someone would hate him so much. Just talk to him.GUYS! I feel REALLY BAD and NEED ADVICE?! GIRLS HELP TOO?!?
same here my guy was being a real jerk and i was mean and then i got mean and he got pissy he ended up apologizing and i felt like a ***** but eberything blew over eventually
its because your angry that he doesn't feel the same way towards you. boys are idiots! Just act normal to him and pretend you don't like him. don't show him your weaknesses.
I don't know...even if you didn't do anythin say your sorry it might be the only way...lol when he said girls are a waist of time..he might jsut not be into girls and might not care
dang..
that really sucks..
I think you should tell him the story.
Welcome to adulthood. He wants friendship, you want more. You'd be doing yourself a disservice to accept him as just a friend at this point. You're doing the right thing, however difficult it may seem.
If you want him as more than a friend, you'll never be happy just being friends and you'll grow to resent him and push him away in the future anyway. Best to sort your feelings out now so that doesn't happen.
Ok, seriously... I thought this was coming from a 12 yr old... Sorry.. Anyway, if he tries to talk to you, talk back. Tell him that you were upset because you had to spend the dance with a bunch of creeps. And he cares if your mad or not cuz he's your friend. Like it or not, you guys see each other often enough to be considered friends even if you don't hang outside of church. He prolly feels bad for what he did too. But even if you're upset about it, tell him its alright so he doesn't feel intimidated. I totally understand about the making moves thing cuz that's how I am too. But you never know. Maybe a girl in the past totally broke his heart and he's still iffy about it. Just show him that you're understanding and won't hold any decisions against him.
first off, that whole idea of guys needing to be the innitiator is ridiculous. if you want him i would suggest telling him that and telling him that if its not gonna progress further and if he isnt going to treat you with respect that you want nothing else to do with him. putting him in that scenario will give you your answer
well u should apologize because even tho he might not like you he still likes you as a friend and he seems worried about something and he obviously doesnt like the tension in between u 2 so try and sort things out but jsut be carefull and dont make things too awkward or u might screw something up..
good luck!
It would be a lot easier if you talked.it is so much easier than expecting him to read your mind or you trying to read his.
He may not have went to the ball because he may not like dances.He may not like the atmosphere of dances,I know I don't,but it doesn't mean he doesn't like you.Now as to trying to get you lost in the neighborhood,maybe he was trying to be cute and funny?However after a while it is no longer cute and funny and that is when you tell him to stop or you'll just stop and call home to get directions.
He may not want to be romantically involved,and may just like you as a friend.You need to talk to him and get to know if you have the same beliefs, values etc.What you did WAS wrong and all because he refused to go to the ball with you.
If he cares about whether you are mad at him or not then he had some feelings for you... maybe he's acting this way because he isn't sure what kind of feelings he is feeling yet... i know this is really hard to follow but go with me here.. I mean if he didnt like you at all would he be concerned whether your mad at him or not?? NO But the thing is he may not know whether he has like BFF feelings for you or GF feelings for you... Just make it known that you do like him the next time you see him.... I know this is confusing but i hope it helps... Thank you and have a nice day!!! :))
Okay, so he said he'd be there when you wanted to talk, right?
So talk to him. Tell him that you are sorry and apologize!
Maybe be like, ';Hey Josh, I know I've been acting like such a jerk. Will you please forgive me?'; Then depending on the way he responses to that, either start a conversation with him, thank him and walk away, or give him a little kiss on the cheek and walk away.
Hope that helps!
You NEED to talk to him..Stop pushing him away NOW or a guarentee you'll loose him! Say something like, ';Truth is, I REALLY like you as more then a friend, and I really wanted to go to the ball with you so I wouldn't have to be with all the other guys......'; you get the point! Trust me this will work. And if he said girls are a wast of time $ ect. then you SHOULD be making the moves!!! he basicly just said that he wants a girl whos independent and can pay for her own crap ect. So if you want him then be yourself but remember not to strangle him and give him lots of space. He also seems like the type of guy who wants fun dates not just meal dates or corny moves. Think of something :)
well i am a guy and yes he is suppose to be the one to tell you he likes you if he really does. trust me if he isn't telling you that and making the moves, either he is shy or is playing you just to see how you react to his little games. if a guy is sincere with a girl, he will DEFINITELY let her know. Hope this helps!
I think you should apologize and tell him why you acted the way you did. You don't have to flat out say, '; I thought you liked me and then I wasn't sure, so I was mean. '; but do say something to that effect. Without completely giving yourself away. You still want to walk away w/ dignity if something bad happens.
ook you guys are grown to be playing little kid games... i think you should appologize for how u treated him but i also think he should say sorry to you 2.. and i think you should tell him how you feel cuz to me it seems lik he does like you its just that hes tired of all the chiks treating him the same way so just show him your different because actions speak louder than words..if he still acts the same then dont worry hunny there are plenty of fish left in the sea.. i know it will be hard at first but no guy is worth you stressing over =)
good luck =)
I've had to see josh all this week at church activity were helping at. I've ignored him if he tries to talk to me. He has told my 15 year old brother, who he's friends with, every nite just how I hate him. Last nite my bro told me to tell him sorry, and I said,';I have nothing to be sorry for'; and josh said,';are u mad at me?'; he asked twice. I wouldn't answer I just turned away. ';I'm not going anywhere. When ur ready to talk you know where I'll be.'; I said wouldn't talk. And then as the nite progressed I just got meaner and meaner towards him.
Now... I feel like crap. I feel like I took the only guy I ever cared bout and shoved him away. WHY? Because I conned myself into believing he liked me. I will see him tonight. What should I do??We're 18. Also...why would he care if I was mad at him or not? We know each other well, but we don't really hang out.GUYS! I feel REALLY BAD and NEED ADVICE?! GIRLS HELP TOO?!?
Tell him you're sorry. You were a huge jerk to him and he needs to know you feel bad about it. Who knows, he might care because he likes you. Also, no one wants to be hated, so he's probably just trying to figure out why someone would hate him so much. Just talk to him.GUYS! I feel REALLY BAD and NEED ADVICE?! GIRLS HELP TOO?!?
same here my guy was being a real jerk and i was mean and then i got mean and he got pissy he ended up apologizing and i felt like a ***** but eberything blew over eventually
its because your angry that he doesn't feel the same way towards you. boys are idiots! Just act normal to him and pretend you don't like him. don't show him your weaknesses.
I don't know...even if you didn't do anythin say your sorry it might be the only way...lol when he said girls are a waist of time..he might jsut not be into girls and might not care
dang..
that really sucks..
I think you should tell him the story.
Welcome to adulthood. He wants friendship, you want more. You'd be doing yourself a disservice to accept him as just a friend at this point. You're doing the right thing, however difficult it may seem.
If you want him as more than a friend, you'll never be happy just being friends and you'll grow to resent him and push him away in the future anyway. Best to sort your feelings out now so that doesn't happen.
Ok, seriously... I thought this was coming from a 12 yr old... Sorry.. Anyway, if he tries to talk to you, talk back. Tell him that you were upset because you had to spend the dance with a bunch of creeps. And he cares if your mad or not cuz he's your friend. Like it or not, you guys see each other often enough to be considered friends even if you don't hang outside of church. He prolly feels bad for what he did too. But even if you're upset about it, tell him its alright so he doesn't feel intimidated. I totally understand about the making moves thing cuz that's how I am too. But you never know. Maybe a girl in the past totally broke his heart and he's still iffy about it. Just show him that you're understanding and won't hold any decisions against him.
first off, that whole idea of guys needing to be the innitiator is ridiculous. if you want him i would suggest telling him that and telling him that if its not gonna progress further and if he isnt going to treat you with respect that you want nothing else to do with him. putting him in that scenario will give you your answer
well u should apologize because even tho he might not like you he still likes you as a friend and he seems worried about something and he obviously doesnt like the tension in between u 2 so try and sort things out but jsut be carefull and dont make things too awkward or u might screw something up..
good luck!
It would be a lot easier if you talked.it is so much easier than expecting him to read your mind or you trying to read his.
He may not have went to the ball because he may not like dances.He may not like the atmosphere of dances,I know I don't,but it doesn't mean he doesn't like you.Now as to trying to get you lost in the neighborhood,maybe he was trying to be cute and funny?However after a while it is no longer cute and funny and that is when you tell him to stop or you'll just stop and call home to get directions.
He may not want to be romantically involved,and may just like you as a friend.You need to talk to him and get to know if you have the same beliefs, values etc.What you did WAS wrong and all because he refused to go to the ball with you.
If he cares about whether you are mad at him or not then he had some feelings for you... maybe he's acting this way because he isn't sure what kind of feelings he is feeling yet... i know this is really hard to follow but go with me here.. I mean if he didnt like you at all would he be concerned whether your mad at him or not?? NO But the thing is he may not know whether he has like BFF feelings for you or GF feelings for you... Just make it known that you do like him the next time you see him.... I know this is confusing but i hope it helps... Thank you and have a nice day!!! :))
Okay, so he said he'd be there when you wanted to talk, right?
So talk to him. Tell him that you are sorry and apologize!
Maybe be like, ';Hey Josh, I know I've been acting like such a jerk. Will you please forgive me?'; Then depending on the way he responses to that, either start a conversation with him, thank him and walk away, or give him a little kiss on the cheek and walk away.
Hope that helps!
You NEED to talk to him..Stop pushing him away NOW or a guarentee you'll loose him! Say something like, ';Truth is, I REALLY like you as more then a friend, and I really wanted to go to the ball with you so I wouldn't have to be with all the other guys......'; you get the point! Trust me this will work. And if he said girls are a wast of time $ ect. then you SHOULD be making the moves!!! he basicly just said that he wants a girl whos independent and can pay for her own crap ect. So if you want him then be yourself but remember not to strangle him and give him lots of space. He also seems like the type of guy who wants fun dates not just meal dates or corny moves. Think of something :)
well i am a guy and yes he is suppose to be the one to tell you he likes you if he really does. trust me if he isn't telling you that and making the moves, either he is shy or is playing you just to see how you react to his little games. if a guy is sincere with a girl, he will DEFINITELY let her know. Hope this helps!
I think you should apologize and tell him why you acted the way you did. You don't have to flat out say, '; I thought you liked me and then I wasn't sure, so I was mean. '; but do say something to that effect. Without completely giving yourself away. You still want to walk away w/ dignity if something bad happens.
ook you guys are grown to be playing little kid games... i think you should appologize for how u treated him but i also think he should say sorry to you 2.. and i think you should tell him how you feel cuz to me it seems lik he does like you its just that hes tired of all the chiks treating him the same way so just show him your different because actions speak louder than words..if he still acts the same then dont worry hunny there are plenty of fish left in the sea.. i know it will be hard at first but no guy is worth you stressing over =)
good luck =)
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