I need lots of advice in a bad way!! PLEASE HELP ME!!?

I've had this great friend for abt 4 yrs. he's a little older than me-i'm 29 %26amp; he's 43 he is recently divorced.


i'm single %26amp; he's been single now for abt 1 yr. i'm in love with this man %26amp; he has no idea. he is starting to date women %26amp; get back into the dating world and it's ripping me apart inside. should i assume that if he wanted to date me he would tell me-or ask me-or make a move? we talk everyday %26amp; he invites me over to watch movie %26amp; talk but we don't sit together %26amp; it seems very platonic. i'm so scared to say or do anything that might scare him away from me but he is all i can think about. i have felt like this for him the entire time i've known him. i look at him in his sweats-with 2 day stubble %26amp; know he is perfect %26amp; he doesn't have a clue. what should i do? i really need help because this is ripping me apart inside.


I need lots of advice in a bad way!! PLEASE HELP ME!!?
Good morning!





I'm not an expert on relationships but all I can tell you is be honest!!!!!!!!!





ask him to go to the movies with you, cook dinner for him and make it ';a romantic night'; he'll never forget!!!


so you go girl, go get your man





Caution!!!! If he's avoiding you and seems irritated by you, he is not worthy of your love!!!!!!!!!!!





NO MAN IS WORTHY OF YOUR TEARS SWEETY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!





HOPE EVERYTHING WORKS OUT EXELENTLY FOR YOU! HEADS UP!!!I need lots of advice in a bad way!! PLEASE HELP ME!!?
ask him out on a romantic date. be explicit that you have feelings for him. men are not mind readers, well.. most men. if he is a mentalist magician he may be a mind reader. (although they generally guide you to a predetermined thought, and then make it appear that they have read your mind - but this is not the point).
surely make a move...u may not hav such chances in life always and u may not find a perfect one aas well





best of luck ;)



God, you have to tell him! He probably thinks you dont want him because he is so much older! Go for it!!! :o)
Have him over for dinner and then tell him how you feel


Good Luck!
Ask him to take a shower with you...enough said.
awww this is lovely :D i think u should be feminine and show him the lover part of you and not friend for 4 years part.i am sure if he dont like it he will tell you are give you signs that he dont.so try it next time he invites you over.no man invites a women over and have no intention thats crazy!!!!!!! hes just shy and taking it slow.i suggest u help him by speeding it up like i said before :-)
He might think you are too young and would not go out with him? Did you send him any signals?





Wen he invites you over bring some wine and turn it in to something little romantic. try to send some signals like eye contact if he starts kind of playing back just leave it to that. after several times repeating it just ask him out one a date , or invite hHomeover to your place and make some romantic dinner., you will know what to do after that :D


good luck