A little advice wouldnt be bad!?

im a bit demotivated. just need a reality check. im 32, dad, i have been seperated for 2 years, but have dumped my debt, saved 2 grand so far but dont want to fritter it - just keep saving. I just realised my gf is not long term. I dont want to spend to go out and party, i havent known a women who doesnt cost money - but maybe i m going wrong lol. Its hard but at least i have saved, but i really dont know what im doing any more. I have heard meditation helps finding your direction. I feel middle aged, i want to go back to feeling like a 20 year old!A little advice wouldnt be bad!?
Take up or improve your drawing or music or any other art. Try being more athletic if you are not. Play footie or any other sport with younger men, but don't pretend to be younger as in trying to ape them in mannerism etc and make an a$$ of yourselves in their eyes. If you mix with younger crowd and still accept you are older, it will ';set you free';. That's the key.A little advice wouldnt be bad!?
You are quite right - women do cost money. You need to just take time out to yourself and forget women all together for some time.





Maybe you should travel or go out to a few different places and take a good look around. Go to all different places where there are all different types of people and situations. Sometimes when you experience something new and unusual, it gives you incite as to what your purpose in life is about.





All I can suggest really.





SORRY
suck it up and be a good dad, ur not 20 anymore but ur not old, you don't need a partner, enjoy what you have
u said u want feel 20 again ur just gunna have to do things tht men in 20s do like dating younger girls and they cost lost of money


just take life as it is there not much u can do to change tht sorry


good luck!!!
you can lose a lot of money chasing women, but you'll never lose women chasing money
your life sucks. lol
Everything cost in life nothing is free....especially a relationship ...if i were you i would enjoy my children and find yourself i think your on the right track with that Meditation....i know Alot of older men who wish they spent a little of their life on them self rather then going with the rest of the worlds idea of what life should be...school job marriage kids....By the way you are very young live your life now ...see the world try and save up for your kids learn who your kids are and yourself at the same time..in the end your kids will be the only ones left to take care of you when you do get old...so get to know them help them have an easy life cause they will then return the favor at your time of need....Enjoy life doesn't revolve