Thursday, January 21, 2010

Please help me! i need advice really really bad!?

so i have liked this boy for a long time and we have been texting alot for a month, we hang out almost every night with a some friends, he has come over twice by himself and i know he liked me because of his best friend. and everyone could pretty much tell. I left town last week... for the whole week.. and he called me every night but one. but we didn't talk much last night. and then today i saw him and he didn't really say much.. so i dont know if he likes me anymore (i know this sounds really childish and lame but i am just really confused.) you see i have a big problem with liking someone untill they ask me out and then i dont like them anymore and i hate that. but i dont know if i still like him alot. i thought about him a ton last week so i think i do.. but i just think that he will change his mind about me and that scares me and people say i am pretty.. but he is really cute! im scared he is going to not think i am pretty. thank for ANY advice you have for me! :)Please help me! i need advice really really bad!?
You just like the chase and excitment of the new guy. Just make sure you dont hurt anyones feelings when the next guy shows upPlease help me! i need advice really really bad!?
If he asks you out you wont like him anymore, correct? So maybe its better if he doesn't like you to begin with.
oh.....my....gosh....he didnt talk to you for like 2 days!!!!of corse he likes you....
It seems to me that you love the chase. Although it's not a bad thing it does kind of ';put out that spark'; when someone begins to lose interest. Be honest with him, tell him your interested and would like to slowly see where it can go... You never know he might be the one!
maybe he doesnt think that you like him back and he doesnt want to put in too much effort if he's gonna get hurt. or maybe he's scared to seem too interested. ( although he has def. shown a ton of interest) or he could know that you like guys until they ask you out so he's trying not to get hurt. and dont worry about him not thinking you're pretty. if he spends all this time talking to you, he thinks you are.


i hope things work out for you!!
i think he still likes you but he's just more comfortable around you now that he probablly nos you like him back
You gotta talk to him. Ask him why is he all of the sudden kind of silent towards you. It sounds to me that it has to do with the week that you left town. Perhaps he is angry that you did not bother to call him during that week, because it appears that he really likes you. I think you should express your feelings to him. Hope this helps!!
Don't wait for someone else to take the relationship you want to the next level. The decision is yours. We overcome our fears by going through them. The worst that happens is you find out they do not want to change the current relationship.
Agreed... he likes ya!
you are Beautiful.





Always have been always will be.
Let him know that you like him. He may think that you don't like him, so he is backing off. Better do it soon than later before it gets worse.

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