Please i need ur advice good and bad here r my feelings bout my bf n tell me if im wrong?

My boyfriend and i been together for 3 yrs. We have had our up and DOWNs(relatioships) well i recently found out he was bisexual b/c i kept noticing gay porn on my comp. but you know u think Hmmm yea rite. so as a nosy gf i am snooped in sum emails and found actual gay dating sites wit his own profile in it!!! and talked to 1 that he hooked up wit once when he was on a 6th month leave...he of course denied it but i had seen it myself and wasnt goin for that..finally he told me via text but explained more than what i asked for and then sum...later we finally talked and cried together as he opened himself to me alot and since then i have forgiven him he has never told anyone(other than his partners) bout his secret like most and i feel like its sacre between us Just to give you a background...i live with him now and i still notice him looking at gay porn...would i be wrong to complain that he shouldnt be into it at all becuz i almost feel like he could be thinkin in his head bout a guy when im his girl...like it just makes me feel awkward so how should i go bout these things... like this makes me go crazy to think bout but i try and treat him like human beinPlease i need ur advice good and bad here r my feelings bout my bf n tell me if im wrong?
That sucks. Good luck.Please i need ur advice good and bad here r my feelings bout my bf n tell me if im wrong?
Oh dear, that must be really upsetting for you. I suppose the real question is, is he exclusive to you? Does he want to do these things with men while in a relationship with you, or will he be faithful? Three years is a long time, do you see a future with him? As an older person an interest in diff types of porn isn't necessarily a deal-breaker, but actions can be. I think it would be okay to say to him that you'd rather he looked at the gay porn when you weren't around anyway..





good luck
He is a human being. But don't expect him to give up that Habit any time soon.


You will either have to live with it, or tell him you can't live with it and leave.