true words come out when someone is mad, so it's really hard to forget those names he called you. you guys should talk it out, that's the best thing. if he doesn't apologize, then there's no reason to stay, but if he does apologizes, make sure you also mention the things you did wrong and say sorry.Advice pleas!!! feeling bad..?
GIve it time cuz one time i got in a fight with a boy and they wont hold bad gridges at all. Just see if he will call you and then after a while like till you are okay with it then call him and see if he will meet you for coffee or lunch or something then you can see what you both did and try not to do it again. Good Luck!
P.S. no one can take away you dignity, you can only give it to them.
well if the fight was over something stupid, maybe you should give you both time to just cool off and talk things out. ppl do crazy things when they're mad. like you throwing the ring out at his car. why would u do that if the fight was over something stupid, it's because you were mad. and him slamming doors and calling you names.....he was upset. but his yall do talk it out make it perfectly clear to him that you didn't appreciate it and if it happens again Taylor Made is gonna whip his a** lol best of luck hommie
First of all he shouldn't have called you any names. and remember it takes two to tango, so if you do talk to him again, be really sweet and kind, then he can have no reason to get mad again. He can only treat you the same back, which means you will have a nice meaningful conversation. But on a lighter note, don't you know angry sex is the best sex!!!!
I'd let a day or so elapse before you try talking to him.. it might be good just to take a break and retrospect on what happened and why. If you do decide to talk to him again, explain to him calmly that you understand he was upset but he shouldn't of done those things. Then I guess what you do from there is all up to you.
its normal and healthy to argue but there is a line to be crossed. if you feel like he isn't treating you right then you deserve better!!!
... on the other hand in the heat of the moment it is easy to get carried away and do or say things that you don't mean. I'm not sure but maybe you regret throwing the ring?? I'm in a 6 year relationship that has it's ups and downs and we are still working on our communication skills. if it is worth it then work for it
good luck :)
let him come to you . and when he does just apologize.... dont point out what he did wrong just apologize for what you did. do not call him or chase him around...let him come to you...this saying is true: distance makes the heart grow stronger!!
be strong and patient. he obvioulsy loves you or he wouldnt have given you his ring...he is probably upset that you threw it at him..so be responsible for your part and apologize..but let him come to you first...good luck
so what are you two fighting about? it must be pretty serious. i would wait until you both cool down an someone needs to listen, but if you have had all the name calling you can stand i say break it off. you suppose be loveing not fighting an so does he.
Without knowing what the fight was about, it's hard to comment. But, I do believe you should never name call in fights - you can make up, but you can never forget what they called you, and it's hard to move past that.
No matter how mad he is, he still shouldnt call you disrespectful names. If the arguement was over something stupid then you should call and apologize and tell him you dont appreciate the way he talks to you when hes mad.
Good Luck
It is always good to talk to a person after the problem has occurred, wait until he is cooled down, give it a couple of hours so that a person can reason what they have done and how they feel about the problem.
that is abusive behavior and you shouldnt stand for it. There are plenty of other people out there to be friends with. Even if you can understand why he would act like that, you shouldnt allow it. Cut your losses and move on. You deserve better than that.
That guy is an ***. Let him apologize first and then you can talk to him. You shouldn't have thrown the ring though but it's he that disrespected you.
give him sometime to cool off
he will or you will call him later
he is rude and wont change trust me.......... get ridda him and find someone nice...
This is a tough situation to be in. It seemed as though he was frustrated with you because you threw the promise ring, which he could see as just as rude as him calling you all those names. Really, I honestly believe that you should let things cool off unless you can calmly talk to him without getting emotions involved.
Also, if he is yelling at you and treating you that badly in your apartment, it sounds as if he does not respect you at all. Despite how he felt you treated him, he should not be treating you unfairly as he did.
This might sound odd, but I would suggest calling a distress line or a youth talk line about it. they might actually have some better tips for you. It sounds as if your boyfriend has some unresolved issues, and personally, I wouldn't want to date anyone that would treat me with disrespect.
You need to talk to him. I don't know what the fight was about and he was wrong to slam your door and call you names but think about it....whatever it was it was hurtful enough for you to throw his ring back at him -- something I'm sure you''ll regret and be apologizing for as will he be apologizing for calling you names.
Remember that when we get angry we say and do a lot of stuff we don't mean -- it's not an excuse but it is a reason and I'm not saying let him off the hook for it but talk to him and don't hold it against him because you wouldn't want him to hold it against you. I think you both handled the situation in somewhat of an immature manner and again that can happen when emotions and anger mix but you owe it to yourself to him and to your relationship to talk it out when you guys cool down.
Good luck hon.
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