Help im a bad flirt got any advice?

i cant help im hot im popular but i cant talk to guys i dont know without blabbering too much i flirt but they just tell me to forget it but i dont want too help very despersteHelp im a bad flirt got any advice?
sorry, it doesn't sound like ur very hot or popular. maybe guys don't like you because you're a *****.Help im a bad flirt got any advice?
F- is for flatter. The fastest way to a persons heart is by complimenting them. Find something you really like about that person, there hair, the way they act ect. and compliment them on it. make sure you find multiple things you like and compliment away. don't use stupid compliments like oh your eyes are pretty when there really not. make it sincere.





L- is for listen. People love when you listen to them, it shows that you are really interested in that person and really care what they are talking about. Besides the biggest aphrodisiac is listning.





I- is for interests. Find things you have in commen with that person, don't find to many it will just freak them out and make it like your stalking them just find a couple of things in commen. like what kinds of music you like, movies, ect.





R- is for responible. Don't lie, don't send mixed messages, be straight up. Guys are completly confused about girls so don't try and confuse them more than what they already lie. Don't choose inapropriate flirting partners such as your friends boyfriend/girlfriend. Don't make it where flirting will hurt anyone.





T- is for trusting yourself. Trust yourself, be confident, bold, and daring. Trust yourself that you will come out knowing that even if you didn't get the guy/girl that you wanted you can always be nice and friendly to that person.





S- is for smile. BODY LANGUAGE,BODY LANGUAGE,AND BODY LANGUAGE, can i stress it anymore? Smile, it will show the person that you are friendly and nice. If you smile, you might get one back =D.
ok first..lose the ';I cant help im hot and im popular'; maybe the reason you cant get a guy is because your so dang stuck up. Im not trying to be rude I just think that this is a common misconception for girls. what your probably 12 or 13? well anyways..as you get older you will understand guys dont care about stuck up girls. and most of the time when you say your hot you really not. im popular at my school too but i dont go blabbing it all on yahoo questions....thank you for the 2 points..goodbye...





oh and its desperate..USE SPELL CHECK PLEASE if your gunna be on here at age 13
Be aware of the things you say and how you present yourself around guys. I am pretty sure every girl goes through a stage like that, but your cockyness about your looks and popularity probably factors into things. Stop thinking so much of yourself. And stop leading guys on because you want attention.
Hey flirting is a secret weapon you girls have and it doesn't make the guys feel all to bad either so unless you getting stalkers and such from your flirting i wouldn't worry about it too much. Unless of course you have a boyfriend then stick to 1 word answers with the opposite sex.... J/K lol
OK, I don't believe you.





If you were hot, guys would be on you like lipstick is on your teeth.





OK, maybe that didn't come out right. Still, the point is, they would find a way to get around the problem. If you were popular, your friends would have helped you here.





I think you're just shy and want a clue into the ';confrontration'; between girls and boys. You're young. You will make mistakes. When you think you've learned it all, throw out your dating list, then start all over again. You will see everyone differently and have learned to ask the right questions.





First rule in dating:


Everybody wants something from their current relationship. Everybody has a nature, something they covet. How do they attempt to gain what they want? You have the same story. How are you letting the other person know what you want? When you do let them know, get ready to start bargaining for it.





I know this doesn't sound like love, and it isn't. Its dating. Dating follows the rules of the free marketplace. Sell dearly, buy cheap.





Then, when you do fall in love, you will understand what is at stake; the rest of your life.
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I would say, just be yourself. Eventually, you'll find some guy to ';flirt'; with. Or, maybe some guys want to flirt with you since you're hot, but they're jsut too shy.